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I'm Mallory. Im 17 and live in central ohio. I love giving people advice because i think i usually know a good solution to peoples problems. My friends always come to me with their problems so maybe you should try it too!! :)

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well im gonna give my gf a kiss for her b day but her cousin is going to be with her at all times and i dont feel comfortable kissing her for the first time around other ppl wat should i do?

i would either try to sneak away or just make it a quick peck on the lips.
if you wana sneak away be like come here real fast i gotta tell you something and look at her cousin and be like sorry we will be back in like 2 minutes and go somewhere and kiss her!

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hey is it really bad for your body when u start to eat less? im about 5'5 and i think im like 110-113 lbs and i want to start eating healthier foods and just eating a little less. Its not like im doing a crash diet or anything or turning anerexic. im j/w can that do any damage to my body? oh and also im taking medicine for lyme disease, that wont make it any worse will it?
thanks!!
~*jaimee*~

do not eat less, just eat smaller healthy meals more often. like eat 5 small meals/ snacks a day ALL HEALTHY. that will make you lose weight even tho you DO NOT NEED TO. im 5'6 and weigh 125 and look just fine.

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hey i just got a haircut today, and it's kind of short. i like it and all, i'm just afraid that it will go crazy on me because my hair is naturally curly (i straighten it). are there any products out there that will help keep it like it is when i first straighten it the morning?
thanks so much, and i rate high for good answers. =)

before you dry it put some paul mitchell heat seal on it (it is a spray on product) and then yea dry it (because it needs heat to activate) and then straighten it. it really helps block out the humidity.

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hi i need to know if pink and black look nice together

definately

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Ive heard you can dye your hair with lemon juice..is this true? does it work? does it look good? how do you do it? i mean do you just squeeze a lemon over your head? Does it work if you have dark hair?? like really dark..
and can you get it out??

no, it doesnt work on dark hair

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is it possible to get skinny in 1 week? cause thats all i have until i meet my Ex and i really need to impress him, ive gotta look good.

no, sorry but that is literally impossible. if you didnt eat for a whole week and your metabolism stayed the same (which it wouldnt) you could only lose 3 lbs/ week. so pretty much, it is a process that is going to happen over time by eating healthy, drinking no pop, lotsa water, and exercising. sorry and GOOD LUCK

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What can i do to look older? Ive gotta trick this guy into thinking im 16 instead of 14, and im really short for my age..so its hard. Should i just wear highj-heels and a bunch of make-up??

dont wear a buncha make up...most guys like natural looking girls. be honest about your age and if he really likes you he wont care. i dated a 16 yr old when i was 13

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hi my name is jess im 13 and there is this kid who stalks me. He callc be 10 times or even somtimes he wont give up until i pick up. Then when i go into the grove (which is a place everyone hangs out) he follows me around and it scares me. What can i do to get him away from me?
Plz Help Me!!!!!

tell him that you will press charges for stalking if he doesnt leave you alone. if he doesnt leave you alone, file a police report. the first one probably wont do anything but if he keeps doing it you can file another one and the cops will do something about it.

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Does any one know any skin products that actually work against acne?? and btw, is it true that eating chocolate gives you more break outs? does tanning really get rid of them?? And does thinking dirty thoughts give more zits?? or are all of these just myths?? Thank you bunces! Kisses/Mariana

yes, eating chocolate or greasy foods makes you break out.
tanning does help get rid of them but it doesnt TOTALLY work and it is very bad for your skin. when you get older you run the risk of getting skin cancer and wrinkley skin if you tan too much.
ive never heard anything about the thinking dirty thoughts thing
you will most likely break out when you are about to start your period or are on it.
go to the dermatologist and get some differn...it works

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What is the Vitamin that makes your hair grow? And were can i get this Vitamin?

you can take prenatal vitamins to make your hair grow, they are also very good for your skin and nails.

also, mane and tail shampoo works really good.

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first of all, sorry this is so long, but its a big problem...im only thirteen, which, to my mom, is too young to have a boyfriend. the problem is i HAVE a boyfriend and he's my first and he lives in another city far from where i live. and in a few weeks, hes coming to my city and i really want to go out with him somewhere, but first, my mom would have to find out that i'm dating him. she always tells me that i can tell her, but i just kno that she wont let me. i met him on the internet which is even worse. anyways, how can i talk to her and explain this to her in a way that hopefully, she will let me stay with him? also, would it be better if he introduced himself instead of me introducing him?

wow, if you met him on the internet this defiantely is not a good idea. for all you know he could be a 40 yr old guy going to rape and kill you!!! also if he IS 13 and he lives far away from you its not going to work. you are way too young to have a long distance relationship..you dont even have a car to drive and go see him. if you INSIST on meeting him, tell your mom that you have a boyfriend and he makes you really happy but it is nothing really serious yet so she shouldnt worry. i definately wouldnt tell her about the internet thing because i can promise you...if you do you will never see this kid.

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Does anyone know all the techniques for straightening hair? (both temporarily and permanently) Please either give me a list with prices, or websites with descriptions. I rate 5's! Thanks so much

there is a new chinese silk straightening procedure which makes your hair stick straight until it grows out but it is like $500....if you want your hair straight that bad tho i guess save up and go get it done cuz IT WORKS!

or you could get it chemically relaxed but that doesnt really straighten it, just gets out some of the frizz until it grows out.

or you could buy a FHI hair straightener for between $96-$135 (they are better than CHIs

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were can i get cute clothes and they are for a good price? thanks
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This friend I know started to hangout with the "popular girls" I feel like since she sarted hanging out with them we arent as close as we used to be what should I do?

i used to be a "popular" girl in middle school so i know first hand...YOU DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH THEM...THEY ARE BITCHES!! forget about ur friend and find some true ones....once you get to highschool, there is no such thing as popular and unpopular

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Hye. Well, this Sunday I used a curling iron to style my hair. I ended up burning a little part of my forehead and my right ear. It isn't as digusting as it sounds. It's just a faded black area. I want so badly to get rid of them quickly. Do you know where to get a good cream or ointment that will get rid of it fast and what is the name of the cream, ointment, etc. Also, how long will it take for the burns to dissapear? Thanks!

use PURE aloe...go buy an aloe plant and rip off a leaf and rip it in half and squeeze the shit out of it onto your arm and rub it in...nothing it better...

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Im an eighteen year old female who hasn't had even close to a boyfriend since I was fifteen. I'm not bad looking, so that's not the case.. But I really just don't know why I'm not meeting anyone, or at least when I do meet someone I'm interested in, they are usually not really interested in me. I'm just really lonely I guess. Whenever I get close to a guy, it just ends up that we become really good friends, and I turn into his shrink on girl problems..hah pretty sad.. I'm not looking for tips on picking up guys lol that's not it. I'm just looking for feedback from guys/girls in the same situations or have been in the same situation, and their thoughts. Thanks =]

my boyfriend that i have now and i used to be best friends...i would be his shrink on girl problems, he was mine on guy problems...we were ALWAYS there for eachother...and now we have been dating for 6 months and are SO happy!!! dont give up

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I want to paint my room! will pink and green look cute togther? or will pink and blue be better

HOT pink with LIME green is the cutest!!!! especially with some little black accents!!!

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What do you think of a girl in her young teens(say 15,16) starting a relationship with someone thats about 11 years older then her. Say, this guy really does like the girl and the girl totally loves this guy. What are your thoughts on this? They've kissed and really do feel for eachother, but the guy lives a couple hours away, and how would this girl tell her parents if they were to ever start a relationship?

that is ridiculous....he is way too old and just trying to get some pussy...im really not trying to be mean but it would be embarassing for a 26 or 27 year olf guy to be dating a 15 or 16 year old unless he is getting laid...he wouldnt go through the embarassment for nothing. im really not trying to be a bitch but that is definately whats up

and your parents will FLIP!

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My best guy friend and I are both 17 and will be seniors in HS in september. We have been friends since frosh year, and became really close last year. I know I can tell him anything and he knows he can do the same. Throughout most of our junior year, I had a crush on him. Yet, I could not tell if he felt the same about me cause of mixed signals. We flirt with each other, hug each other sometimes, and talk a lot online(we both are busy with school). A few times he's even stayed after school for no reason on days that I have my flute lesson and hung out with me. One time, he even calmed me down when I was about ready to haul off and kill one of my best friends for being a jerk to me. He's confided in me a few things and I have confided in him my most private secret. We trust each other and value each other. Yet, I can't read his mind when it comes to me.

people who are best friends and then start dating ALWAYS make the best relationships...you know that you can trust the person and not get sick of them. i say tell him not to freak out if he isnt feeling the same way but you think you like him...see what he says and take it from there. he is your best friend....stuff really isnt going to change that much if he doesnt feel the same way.

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what would you do if you are only 14 and a girl wants to grab you there but you aint had puberty and it aint that big and youve been going out for almost 2 years what should i do just let her and get humiliated or just tell her to wait

not to be mean but i wouldnt let her touch it...if you guys ever break up you run the risk of her telling people that its small....im not trying to be a bitch but i went to middle school and i know how it is!!!

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