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well i havn't used this site in FOREVER!!! but i use to give people advice every single day i love it and i hate it when i can't help the people.

well i'm 14 years old i'm short lol 5ft 1in. i have brown hair and brownish goldish eyes. i have some freckles but they fade out in the winter.

on the weekends i like to hang out with as many people as possible. i usually go to the movies bowling the mall or anywhere else that is fun. but of course if i'm there its gunna be fun!!!


well i don't no what i am i dont' like to label myself but i would have to say i'm out going crazy hyper loud. i dress preppy and skaterish depends on my mood.

my fave color is pink it deff. describes who i am.

well thats all i can think of right now so i'll talk to yawl lata

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i have always been the girl to get her period REALLY heavy, like changing a super tampon every 2 hours and ive always been on schedual to the day! but this time i was 2 WEEKS late AND i cant even fill the littlest tampon. is this normal? please dont reply by saying its disgusting b/c i really need help! i rate good advice!

hmmm well every period is different. maybe right now your body is going through some changes its normal if it happends again i would go to the doctor to see what your body is doing.

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so a few weeks ago i started a new diet. i'm just eating healthier; more fruit, vegetables and healthier alternatives to food i used to eat. but ever since i started i've been having to go to the bathroom alot more. is this normal? will my body eventually get used to this new food?

yes and yes! i am on a diet kinda like that and i've noticed i've had to go to the bathroom more you loose more weight that way.

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i taught myself how to play the guitar 4 yrs ago. Now my friend wants me to teach her. Everything i show her she cant understand, does anyone know where she can go.like a website,or get a book,etc. she really wants to learn and i'd really like to help her. i'd appritiate your advice.

tell her to go to guitar lessons and you can go with her.

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ok, i am in love with a beautiful girl. but i love her for her personality and the way she asks and shes just perfect! i would like do anything she asked and would take a shot for her. but then comes the problem. i moved to africa about 6 weeks ago. i wake up at like 3 am every morning to talk to her but this move is still breakin my heart. i never actually go the chance to ask her out be for i moved cause i new it would make it all more painful for her. so my questions are, what should i do about this move because i'm goin to give her up and second, i wanna ask her how she feels about me but i dont wanna ask cause idk how she'ld react. i'll rate if u show me you gave this sum thought...

ummm well yeah africa is really far away. well its not your fault that you moved and well long distance relation ships don't work i should know i've had enough of them. yall sound more like best friends. i think you should ask her how she feels about you but if she likes you and you like her then what are you going to do? like i said long distance doesn't work for everyone but it may work for you. hope i helped. sorry if i didn't.

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Hey, the hair on my arms is kinda dark and I'm very self concious about it. I wanna bleach it blonde and I was wondering what stores you can get easy to use bleach that isn't very expensive. Thanks, and I rate 5's!

i think NOT 100 percent sure but i'm kinda sure that they sale it at CVS or something like that a pharmacist if u don't have a CVS.

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i need some help on what eye shadows and liners to wear. i have brown eyes and i want to be able to bring them out. any suggestions? thanx 4 ne help in advance.

hot pink and light pink eye shadow light pink at the top of ur eye lid the hot pink at the bottom with black eyeliner. baby blue at the bottom and lime green at the top with black eye liner. blue eye shadow with light light pink eye liner. silver eye shadow with pink eye liner. hope that helps a little if it confuses u IM me on airheadsrule99 or email me at biggestflirt247@hotmail.com

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Well, My friend is REALLY into this one guy. She told him she liked him on a class trip. They aren't going out but are really close. I found out a couple of days ago that he KISSED her in the copy room..*cough*. Anyway, He isn't really into her and says he likes her as a friend. But, He's touched her in places, called her hot and now kissed her. What's up with him? He says he wants to just be friends but...doesn't seem that way. It seems like either that's incorrect or..He's using her.
By the way, He's had tons of gfs before and isn't a virgin. I'm worried about my friend. He's that kind of guy that..could rape. I'm really worried about her.

Any idea of what's up?

-En Garde'

hmmm well maybe there just friends with benifits and if your friend doesn't want to be kissed or touched then she will tell him. so if your so worryed about her sit down and talk to her about whats going on

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kay well, my (old) best friend was a guy his name was ryan.. he liked me..but he loved his ex girlfriend victorea (they were going out for a year on and off) me and him were soo close.. i liked him too.. but he is going back out with victoera. me and her are not friends AT ALL, she told ryan he cant hang out with me,But he still does but he tells people he hates me,and when i ask him he said brb to me (online) and idk who to belivie my other friends or ryan. but anyway i really really wanna be his friend is there a way maybe i can say something to him that can make us friends again? or tell him i love him or some thing?? please help

I RATE HIGH!!

well since there on and off well all you can do so you don't get on his nerves and agervate him is to just be there for him when they aren't going out. and just to let you know that girl has not right to tell him that he can't hang out with you. the only reason she did that was b/c shes jelous and scared that that friend of yours will like you instead of her.

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When I walk in my bathroom, theres always poop on the toilet. I think my dad does it because my pets don't use the toilet. LOL. I know it's gross but how can I find out who is doing this. (It's not my sister or my mom either.) HELP!!!!!!!!!!

How do you know its not your mom or sister. If your close to your dad just go up to him and be like are you shitting on the toilet don't mean to say that rude. just ask.

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Okay this is all very confusing, I'm sorry and I hope it doesn't make ya'lls head spin but here is my problem.

I made out with a guy totally unaware that he had a girlfriend.
Well recently, I got in contact with his brother, and she was over there. I mentioned something to his brother about us making out, in jest. She got on and immediatly asked me if whatI say is true.

I said, yes. It was. I wasn't gonna lie.

She told me that they'd been dating for three years straight, and she thought she might be prengnat. HE told me nothing of the sort, that she was just a friend.

After much hassle, she called me and told me she'd confront him about it. She did, and he denied it, and she told me "I don't believe you, I trust him."

Things are blowing up, random friends of hers are IMing me like crazy, and his brother is sort of half and half beleving me, yet feeling dedication towards his brother.

Of course the whole attention thing is on them..its oh "Krista* made a big deal about it.." "OH krista is trying to ruin a relationship" when that totally wasn't my view or anything.

How can I help what she saw? I think its been hurting me more then it has them. What do I do?

I want a logical way to get back at them, or to show them that I don't give two dead rats.

I want the girlfriend to know that it IS true no matter how much he denies it, though it doesnt matter much to me if we messed around or not.

HELP!

xxthanksxx

just forget about what u did with him. its his fualt and when she finds out hes been screwing around with other people then she will apoligize. just forget about it thats what i would do. ignore what people are saying. it will blow over.

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1st of i'm 16 and i'm in 10th grade and a girl...and i have some pretty awesome best girl friends...well i make-out with a few of them...i don't mind it i actually have fun doing...but i wouldn't call my self bi...i read this thing online and it says that we experment to find out what we like...well i love makeing-out with both sexes! but i've never done more with a girl...i have and talked about eating girls out with my other best friend and we have talked about doing to each other...but i could never see my self with a girl...because i just love boys...but what i am getting at is it wrong to want to do this stuff with girls...it's mainly with my best friend...it's just a experment..is it wrong to experment with her? she has ate a girl out before..i mean i'm not scared to do it and i don't feel un-comfortable caouse she is my best frined...my point...does any of this seem wrong?

((i don't want the stupid rood people to answer this...or jerks who think it's "nasty"))

love: the girl who doesn't know!!

well i heard we experment to and i think it would be better for a girl to eat you out before a guy does so you no how it is and if you like do something wrong with her then with a guy it won't be as bad. yeah i am expermenting too but i'm only 13 and i have urges to make out with other girls because i want to no what its like with the same sex but i don't think i'm BI and thers nothing wrong expermenting we should all do it. no its not wrong.

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i think my best friend is either bulemic or anorexic. she weighs about 119 pounds, wears a size 0 jeans and she constantly goes on about how shes fat. SHE IS NOT AT ALL. she graphs her weight on a chart (i saw it) and it's REALLY starting to scare me. what should i do? talk to somebody about it, talk to her...? please help!!

hmmm well you never no because some people can be weird about there weight but not be bulemic or anorexic. if she starts to loose more weight then i would start to worry keep an eye on her. hope i helped

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My mom broke up with my dad 9 years ago, and has been living with my stepdad since. I was on her computer, and found that she has been flirting with a guy from Texas (thousands of miles away), and they are planning on meeting in Seattle this weekend.

She hasn't told anyone about it, like me, my stepdad, ect. She said she was going to Seattle for a "craft get-together".

Should I be really upset, storm out, and demand to live with my dad? Or be happy for her that she is happy...and having an affair. I guess I'm still in shock.

I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm not sure how to react. It was probably wrong to look on her computer, but I just had a hunch.

hmmmmm thats tough to say. i would try my best to keep it to myself. if you tell her you know she will act weird around you. if you tell ur step dad then your moms going to get a divorce and like hate you and then you can live with your dad. so pick between telling your step dad and your mom getting another divorce or keeping it to yourself. i would keep it to myself because i know how it is to have 2 divorces because my sister is 33 and has already had 2 and its made her really depressed. i wouldkeep my family together and happy. hope i helped
love
airhead

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Pfff.. I just realised how BORING my life is!!! I wake up at six, go to school, come back at 4, do homework, go on the computer, sleep. What a nice life eh??? NOT!! its just soooo boring! i have nothing better to do. Any ideas?

its not that boring. i do the same. you should get in some kind of after school program. on weekends hang out with your friends as often as you can. on wednesday go to church with one of your friends thats always fun.

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Does anyone know a very good way to get rid of warts, like on your hands and stuff, because, I've tried so many products and they suck. So, does anyone have any recommendations?

you can get them burnt off. my friend did that and it works and it doesn't hurt or take long.

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hey,
I have this problem with a guy named Matthew. We have been best friends for over 4 years. Recently we both fell in love with each other. I least I love him. He always wants to mess around and he says it means something. To me it really does. He claims he wants to loose his virginity to me and claims that that would bring us together. Would that actually bring u apart? Help!

yes i think it would because i learned in sex ed class (i no stupid) that all guys want right now is ur body.

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I really like this one guy in our school...But i dont know if he likes me back.. All of my friends has talked to him about it but all he says is "i dont know" I guess he knows how i feel about him..But i am not sure..what should i do about this and how do i know if he likes me..If he does..What should i say??? please help me..Thanks..

hmmmm well i would go up to him and start talking to him, but thats just me i'm really outgoing if your shy then write him a note asking if he likes anyone and tell him how you feel about him and say something like maybe if we get to know each other alittle better we could go out or something like that. now adays you have know clue if a guy likes you because they lie a lot and they are having crazy hormones. don't be shy to ask him how you feel about him. you never know what could happen. hope i helped if not i'm really sorry.

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breaking up with your boyfriend for his best friend...?

OR

still going out with him because he's a really good guy and you're afraid to break his heart...?

OR

what should I do, because my boyfriend is the most amazing guy ever, and he'd cry and be depressed for months if anything happened. But I just don't have feelings for him anymore, and his friend and I like eachother... help!

well its not your fault if hes depressed because you don't have feeling for him anymore. if you have feeling for his best friend then try going out with his friend if you find out you still like your boyfriend then maybe he will take you back.

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For health class i have to pick an anti-drug..like yeah kno...sports.. my anti-drug, but i can't think of any. I don't wanna use sports cuz sum1 already has it? does any1 hav some ideas? thnx

well if your a guy you can say girls. if your a girl you can say guys.

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i have a horrible sunburn.... i mean horrible! it doesnt even look that red but it KILLS! for example, i went to bed at 10pm and i woke up at 12 not being able to sleep bc it hurt so bad! what can i do! when can i start going to the tannign place again?

well put alovera don't no how to spell. that should help and you can start going to the taning place when it stops hurting

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