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My BFF's BF is playing mind games?
Well, My friend is REALLY into this one guy. She told him she liked him on a class trip. They aren't going out but are really close. I found out a couple of days ago that he KISSED her in the copy room..*cough*. Anyway, He isn't really into her and says he likes her as a friend. But, He's touched her in places, called her hot and now kissed her. What's up with him? He says he wants to just be friends but...doesn't seem that way. It seems like either that's incorrect or..He's using her.
By the way, He's had tons of gfs before and isn't a virgin. I'm worried about my friend. He's that kind of guy that..could rape. I'm really worried about her.
Any idea of what's up?
-En Garde'
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Beat him up.
No, seriously... it sounds like you're right... this guy is using your friend, and it needs to stop before she gets hurt.
She won't want to hear it, because she likes him, but as her friend, YOU can and need to do something.
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He's just pushing it to see what he can get away with.He's more interested in sex than friendship if you ask me.I would be telling him to get lost.He must think he's the greatest thing that ever walked....It would be fun to knock him down a couple of notches!Tell your friend to keep away from this creep.
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Well I think you need to talk to your friend defiently. Tell her what you KNOW, about this guy, and state facts. Things like "So he's kissed you, but he won't ask you out?" So lay it all out for her, so she hears how it sounds, then back off. Otherwise she will get defensive, and may think you are jealous, or lieing, etc. Be sensitive of her feelings, she may not want to wake-up to reality. Also when you are talking to her, avoid saying things like "I THINK, he's just using you" or "I HEARD he does this to a lot of girls." Well good luck, and I hope you can help your friend out,
- MIlkcARTon08
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hmmm well maybe there just friends with benifits and if your friend doesn't want to be kissed or touched then she will tell him. so if your so worryed about her sit down and talk to her about whats going on
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Well yea guys seem to use girls sometimes to get what they want.. and he probably does jus want friendship but like he is getting what he wants and she shouldnt do that kind of stuff cause seriously they probably arent going to get together and she'd be hurt.. and you should be worried for her cause she could make a mistake by like having sex with him and gettin hurt cause she's a virgin and she shouldnt lose that with somebody like him... she should lose it with somebody she loves.. she might have feelings or something for him im sure cause they are close but she wants the same in return.. jus talk to her and let her know that your there for her and why you think its a mistake.. she shouldnt get mad but i dont know her so she could.. much luv dez x0x0
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