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Hey all music lovers!
I'm in search of new music in my speakers. I love hearing new sounds. I love rock, punkrock, indie rock, rap, weird songs! You name it!
Any suggestions on any good bands?

Motion City soundtrack.
Say Anything.
PLain White t's.
Paramore.
Less Than Jake.
The Hush Sound.
The Acadamy Is...
taking back sunday.
Anit-flag.
NOFX.
Hot Hot Heat.
Hawthorn Heights.
Alkaline Trio.
Morningwood.
Relient K.
The fray.
Jack Johnson.
Jack's Manniquin.
The Afters.
Daniel Powter.
Death Cab for Cutie.
Brand New.
Rise Against.
The spill canvas.

there are a few

xoxJess


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Im 13/female and in school, im not really one of the popular people and i really want to be. What are some things i can do to get them to accepted me???

DO you really wanna be in the popular crowd? Are you gonna leave all of your other friends just to be with them? You should probably think about it all before you go and ne baest friends with the "popular" kids. I mean you can do whever you want nobody is holding you back. But one you loose old friends there hard to get back. Most of the "popular" people really arent that nice (no offence) but they get into lots of drama and do you really wanna deal with al that? I would say just be yourself. Pople should like you for you. Sorry that wasnt much advise to you question but that what i had to say.

xoxJess

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whever i wear pajamas with tank tops it always looks weird cause i have no bra on and i feel uncomfortable looking like that. i found this reaaaaaaally cute pjs but i dont want to get them cause it has a tank top. how can i solve this problem? please dont says camis cause i cant find any cute cami pjs that i like.

You can just waer the bra to bed unless you feel its uncomfortable. If so, then just take it of right before you go to sleep.

xoxJess

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i lost the cord to my digital camera that gets the pics on the computer. would i be able to use the cord from another camera? if no, can i buy one that works? thanks xo

if it is the same kind of cmaera then it will work. LIke say your old one was kodak and you new one is kodak then the cord should fit. Just try to get it in. Dont force it if it wont cause you dont wanna break the camera.

xoxJess

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ok, this is weird...and i've never told neone before, and your the first to know. i...kinda have sex w/ myself. i know, ew. but, the problem is, i don't know how to stop! i just get these feelings like i want to do it, but then like i don't want to but i feel like it. and whenever i think about sex, i'm like gross. but i don't think that when i'm doing it to myself. an also i've never had a b/f. i'm really scared, but it feels good to do it. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That would be masturbation. its totaly normal.

xoxjess

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hey, for next fall when all the new tv seasons restart up, i heard that upn and the wb are joining? can anybody tell me if this is true? also, where is the websites that say what seasons theyll be playing?

Im not sure if its upn but its something. I know one tree hill is going to be on it cause i love that show! but i dont know an others. try googling it.

xoxJess

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I had my last cycle April 28 through around May 3. I've got something important going on May 30 that I can't miss, but will have to if I'm on my peroid. Am I correct in thinking that there's a 100% chance I'll miss it?

Well it depends. Most of the timeit comes every 28 days. But some pople are more so you knever know.

xoxJess

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i know you can call anyone in verizon for free, (IF YOU HAVE VERIZON) but can you text people for free too? thanks in advance

Well i depends on your plan. You can get unlimited text messageing and stuff but if you dont already know about it then you probably dont have it. If you dont yes, it cost to both send and receive. Im not sure how much because i dot have verison. Just call and check with your company

xoxJess

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is bearshare illegal?

yes, but any free music, movie ect. is illigal but people lots of people still use it.

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if i burn a cd can i get the music free that i want to put on the cd? or do you have to pay for the songs that you burn? IM REALLY CONFUSED. i need help

well you can download either limewire or bearshare (at www.downloads.com)and get the songs you want and then burn a cd or you can pay for them on itunes.

xoxJess

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Does anyone know where I can find regina spektor's lyrics to fidelity?

google doesn't help.

http://www.songmeanings.net/lyric.php?lid=3530822107858581435


xoxJess

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what does OCD mean?

its obsessive compulsive disorder. Its a disorder where people do thing over and over but cant help it. Google it if you want more information.

xoxJess

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I was invited to a large party that takes place this weekend. I said that I'd go, because of the occasion and the person who is throwing it, but I really do not want to stay for a long time. First of all, I am not much of a party person. I usually just sit there by myself while being bored out of my mind. Second of all, I'm not much of a people person. There are going to be a LOT of people there. I really don't want to have to be around that many people for too long, especially since I hate most of them. Normally I leave parties with the excuse of not feeling well or something like that, but certain people (although not everyone) are starting to catch on. I need some good excuses to leave a party that do not involve being sick.

- your parents want you home.
- you have to get up early the next morning
- your tired and wanna go home
- or just tell her/him that you wanna go home, you dont have to lie.

xoxJess

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Anyone know any good summer reads. Everything I usually read is depressing. Like someone usually dies. I'd like suggestions of books that are funny and enjoyable to read. Even Harry Potter depresses me although I do love all the books. Maybe even books I can relate to. You know being a teenager and typical teenage problems. I'll rate anyone who gives any names

Angus, Thongs and Full-frontal Snogging. It such a good book. There is a series there are a bunch...maybe 8, but thats the first one. They are really funny though.

xoxJess

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I am having this after party after my school dance and a lot of people are coming. Except this one girl, she has been so rude and mean and bitchy to me and she NEVER talks to me. But now she expects to be invited. Her two freinds who were invited, (who i'm freinds with) won't come unless she is invited, and I want them to come. My question is, should I invite this girl and be the bigger person? Or not invite her?

If you dont want her there dont invite her. IF the other two grils arent gonna go because she isnt going then who cares. They will regret it later when there sittin at homee bored and your having a partyyyy!

xoxJess

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Hello,
I'm going to a sleep over on Friday..and I'm on my period what should I do while I'm sleep..tampon or pad? How long can you keep in a tampond?

You could use either. I have always been scared to leave a tampon in over night because of TSS. Usuallly you should change a tampon every 4 hours so you might wanna go with a pad.

xoxJess

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i want to ask this guy to the dance but idk if he likes me what do i do waht do i do please help

Just take the change. He will probably like it more that you have the confidance to ask him.

xoxJess

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I know this may seem stupid. but i cannot stand freaking "popular" people. i have an advice collumn, and everyday i have a different message in my inbox from them like "stop being jelous of the popular people" or "why dont you wear preppy clothes and dress like everyone else? you'll never be popular if you do." and i sware im not jealous, and i wear all the same clothes they do. why do they think there the best? there really not that great. and i know im not a loser, so why do they call me one? they are all extremely mean, and full of themsleves. i dont want to be friends with them, but is there any way i can make them stop this? i really cant take it anymore and its really lowering my self esteem. pleaes i need help as soon as i can get it! thank you so so much!
love always.

oh bye the way if you are one of the popular people at your school, i'm really sorry im not being steriotypical and saying all popular poeple are like that. so please dont take thi the wrong way!

Just stand up to them. They are probably just doing it becuase their "popular" and they think that they can do anything. Who cares what they say. Their not your friends just ignore them. LIfe isnt aout being "popular", if you have great friends and like yourself that all that matters.

xoxJess

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is there any way to change your image quickly but not too fast to make people think you're a "poser" or something? ..idk any advice?

Well just take it slow. Maybe one day just cange one thing and then wait a few days and cheage something else. It will take a while but it will be worth it.

xoxJess

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16females

Can you fined a certain amount of money if you moon a trolley?

Me and my friends want to as a joke but if we get caught we were wondering if you have to pay money?

Please and thanx
x0x0x

I think it depends on where you live. But why dont you just not do it and not take the risk at all, just in case.

xoxJess

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