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I hate the way my body looks and I have for-pretty-much-ever. I've tried so many diets, and working out, but nothing has ever worked. the thing is, I'm really not fat. I'm just chubby. I'm 5'3 and weigh 140.

I've had an eating disorder before, and it wasn't really that bad. I was anorexic when I was younger, I finally got over it, and now I'm buimic. Now just trying to eat makes me throw up.

How bad is bulimia? And how do I get over it?

Love,

Arlo (link)
im not ganna lie..its EXTREMLY hard to get over. at first its like a rollarcoaster, you wanna keep going on in this case you wanna keep sticking ur finger down your throat. you cant get help from friends. you need specialized help and to tell someone who can then help you get a specialized person to help you (sorry if thats EXTREMLY confusing..:-D) but you need help especially if youve been doing this for a long time..

hope i helped:-D

peacee outt


Im 13..i was rapped and i guess it put me into a totally different path. I got depression (it was a surprise to people) and then i got into a huge fight and broke this girls arm and got sent to juvey..i got out like a month ago and my parents hate me. my dad relates me to my cracked-out brother who is in jail. he thinks im nothing..im thinking about leaving.like perminatly.. (link)
wow its wierd..thats like my exact situation and i know that its not your fault...i think you do these things for attention..thats what i DID..sure im still doing it but i hide it..but i think that you should get counciling if you REALLY wanna change then you should go get help..IM me at CutiSammy if u wanna talk!

xoxo
sammi


Hi, I just moved here from another town about 31/2 hours away and at first things were going really well. But now, the people that I first met and considered my first friends are different. My friend, lets call her "s" was this sweet quiet girl. But she started to hang out with this group of girls that changed her. Now she is loud, obnoxious, and mean. Another girl, used to be independent and strong is becoming preppy and again, really mean. It is so hard to make friends in this town, I tried to join clubs, ect but the are all really cliquey. How should I handle this? (link)
i know how it is to be the new girl.especially when your new school is over two states away!!all that you can do is make some new friends dont hang out with "s" if you dont like his/her new friends then SCREW THEM make somee new ones who are good for you!!


my mom used to get drunk. a lot. she only admitted to two of the numerous occassions, and then she started to blame sleeping pills for her "acting weird". she said she'd stop buying wine. she did for maybe 2 months, then started again. the thing is I'M the only one who knows shes drunk! my sister always comes up with excuses (shes defensive) and my mom just denies it. today she bought more wine (she was tipsy before she bought it though) and i asked her to not buy it because she said she wouldnt. she did anyway and so i ignored her, and then she got angry and asked whats wrong and i told her and she started saying crap like "stop acting like your better than me. I am the parent, YOU are the child. you are not better than anyone else. i am the parent. you do not check on me. you are the child." how do i get her to STOP?! (link)
i was sorda in the same situation as you..except when my dad drank he would get all crazy and crap and like beat me and my sisters and brothers and my mom..and the thing is you cant really tell your mom to stop..maybe you could show your mom that you really care about her and maybe give her a reality check..im sorry if this wasnt the adivice you were looking for but i hope things go a lot better for you!!

xoxo
Sammi




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