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party w/o her


Question Posted Tuesday May 23 2006, 5:12 pm

I am having this after party after my school dance and a lot of people are coming. Except this one girl, she has been so rude and mean and bitchy to me and she NEVER talks to me. But now she expects to be invited. Her two freinds who were invited, (who i'm freinds with) won't come unless she is invited, and I want them to come. My question is, should I invite this girl and be the bigger person? Or not invite her?

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afbabiidoll05 answered Thursday May 25 2006, 5:00 pm:
dont invite her, they'll all learn their lesson when everyone talks about how great your party was

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daddysgurl37 answered Thursday May 25 2006, 2:11 pm:
ok i DO NOT think it is a good idea for you to invite her!and if she says again that they wont come just say you are not the boss of them and your not their parents grow up!!!hope i helped amber=)

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Tulipg17 answered Wednesday May 24 2006, 9:03 am:
No, don't invite her. It's your party, it's all bout you. Why would you fold under the pressure for someone who s so mean. It wouldn't be being the bigger person, it would be being the weaker person.

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ScratchesOnTheWall answered Wednesday May 24 2006, 5:24 am:
I'll say from experience that being the bigger person and inviting someone you don't like will usually just end up screwing up your party. It's not going to be much fun if she sits there bitching all night.

Don't invite her and let the other two girls do what they want. It's their loss if they don't come.

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xoxDaneCookRox answered Tuesday May 23 2006, 9:44 pm:
If you dont want her there dont invite her. IF the other two grils arent gonna go because she isnt going then who cares. They will regret it later when there sittin at homee bored and your having a partyyyy!

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summerGIRL_xo answered Tuesday May 23 2006, 9:30 pm:
invite rosaaa!!
how come i always find your questoins geeeeerrlll?

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4everMyself2 answered Tuesday May 23 2006, 8:47 pm:
If you don't want her to come then don't invite her.

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xxsima answered Tuesday May 23 2006, 7:02 pm:
Don't invite her.

It's not her party, its yours.

Its like my friends party invitations last week, she was handing them out and this really rude and bossy chick was expecting one. She gave one to her friend which is also our friend [shes not mean like the other one] so it turned out good.

If they bug you about it, don't give in. You can't let her take advantage of you like that.

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KrisxOx answered Tuesday May 23 2006, 6:59 pm:
i think if you invite her thats not being the bigger person not inviting her is if those two other girls wont come jsut because one wont come then they arent real friends. so my advice is dont invite her.

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bayhotpinkgurl answered Tuesday May 23 2006, 6:58 pm:
Well what I would do is be the bigger person and invite her. But all you have to do is tell her to go home if she is wrecking your PARTY!!!!!!!
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