ok, there is this guy. hes in 9th grade. hes so cute and doesnt have a bf. one of my best friends that knows him bout as well as i do says that he likes me. i still dont think so. ive been crushin on him for almost a year. i started noticing that he looks at me a lot. what do i do?
signed
*deeply troubled*
You should go over and start talking to him, he probably does like you but is to shy to make a move.
hope i helped!
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ok well me and this guy are really close friends. i asked him who he liked and hes like no one actually. so im like ok. and then he said to me one night on the internet, promise that we wont fall for eachother again. and im like ok. but i feel like im getting vibes or w/e that he likes me. cuz we were playing bball(one on one) adn he touched my butt a couple of times.(on purpose? who knows) and then hes like u should go to my tourney. and i hope u go and all. so i went. and he kept "eyeing me" like every so often he would just quickly look at me.
so my question is..and i just imagining things..or do u think he likes me but he doesnt want to say..or something
o one more thing when i asked him who he likes he said something like...well i dont want to make a big deal about it, cuz i no its nothing...
signed,
really confused
He so likes you!
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How do you know when your in love?
Whenever you can't stop thinking bout that person and you think there no better person who can make you feel happy, loved, and secure.Thats when your in love.
hope i helped!
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i have this problem....whenever 1 of my friends likes a guy, i start to like him too but i never get him! how can i stop this?
13/f
it's probably b/c you someone for your self!
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I want to get rid of the hair on my upper lip. I don't want to get it professionally done, I want to do it myself. What should I try to remove it (I don't want to use a razor).
Try Nair!
Hope i helped!
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I have always been worried about how i look in a bathing suit. This December i am going on a cruise and i really would like to look great in a 2 piece. Does anyone know any good work outs or diets i could go on just to shed some pounds in time for it so i dont look weird. (Most of the problem is my stomach and my legs) PLEASE HELP!
doing sit-ups really works!
Good luck! hope i helped!
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Over the summer i spent most of my time with my infatuation...lets call him fred. So fred and i were dating on and off during the summer but we always liked each other. We never dated anyone else and we spent the days talking to each other or hanging out. Before school started he asked me out again and then went on a 2 and 1/2 week vaca. Sfter he got back he broke up with me. It was like the first thing he said to me. I was crushed. Because i felt that i fell in love with him...and at one point he told me "i love you" but when i asked him if he meant it he wasnt sure. Now that school has started he was introduced to my bestfriend...lets call her mary. I have been so crushed because they both like each other and mary isnt even being conciterate of my feelings. They always flirt in front of me and it drives me nuts. Some nights i even cry myself to sleep. How do i get over this? Or how do i win him back? I would rather win him back...i really loved him with all my heart...and still do...
btw, sorry it was so long, but i rate high!:-)
~Signed, Lost in Love
i know how you feel sweetie, the same thing happened to me. Try talking to Mary and tell her how you feel.
good luck! hope i helped!
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okay, i met this guy at a party.. and we like held hands and stuff and i think i like him but i'm not sure. we dont go to the same school but i know a lot of people at the school he goes to and everyone says he always talks about me (in a good way) and i dont know what i should do.. i talk to him online sometimes.. and once on hte phone.. im confused?
You guys should hang out more, then you'll know if you really do like him.
Good luck! Hope i helped!
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ok i told this guy i like that i liked him..and i did it in person ...then after i told him he was like "can i see your phone" and so i gave it to him and he was just like messing around ..come to find out he put his number in my phone..wat does that mean!? haha ..im really clueless with "guy languagE" thanks!
Call him!!!
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My friend Lisa shes soo annoying, shes my best friend and i love her. But she's a blonde and she abuses that fact.. she imed me today and this is wut happened::
her: whats the number to a hospital
me: why
her: you call 1-800-911 right
me: no
her: i need the number to 911
she pretends to be a dumbass and shes not dumb at all. i can't even have a conversation with her without her asking me what a word means, and she only says it to make herself look blonde, and she sounds so retarded it pisses me off. how can i get her to stop?
Let her know how you feel, doing that only makes her less intelligent.
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ok so not to confuse, let's give names:
my friend: sara
her best friend: liz
liz's boyfriend: bob
bob is trying cheat on liz with sara. he's asked sara to have sex with him, take pictures of herself and give them to him, etc. sara refuses and has put up with this for a while, and then finally told liz. liz believed her at first and then i don't know what happened. sara tried calling liz and liz's mom answered saying that liz wasn't available. sara asked when she would be and she said, for you, never. sara is devastated and can't understand why liz would do this to her. (liz and bob are still together, btw). what can i say to comfort sara? is there any way i can help the situation?
omg....tell sara not to worry she did nothing wrong but be a good friend who told the truth. You can't really solve the situation if Liz won't talk. Tell sara she did the right thing.
hope everything works out!
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I pull out pieces of my hair when i get stressed out angry or bored...i dont know why i do this i guess because i need some way to show my feelings...and i couldn't ever cut myself... i dont know what to do or why i do this... can someone help me!?
were learning about this in health. Try putting your anger and stress into something else like screaming into a pillow, stress ball, or dancing it sounds silly but it works!
hope i helped!
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So my boyfriend and I, both almost 18, were together for nearly 11 months, virtually every single day. We were inseparable. We'll both be going to college next year, and we were planning on moving somewhere away and finding an apartment together. There was even tentative talk of marriage. I felt like I could really see where my future was headed. I was so completely in love.
But then he tells me, one month ago tomorrow, that it's just not working out. He says he doesn't feel the same anymore, and that he can't give his whole life to me. I was completely devastated and cried for days straight.
He's the most wonderful person I've ever met. We share our group of friends, so we agreed that we would both try our best to stay friends and avoid awkwardness, and forcing people to choose sides.
So I'm still around him all the time, and every time I see him or talk to him, I'm just reminded of all the reasons I fell in love with him and everything that I've lost. It just sends me spiralling into sadness all over again.
But he's helped me so much with so many things. He brightens my day, and he's a genuinely good person. I don't blame him at all for what happened. I can't bear to lose him completely, but how else can I get these thoughts and feelings out of my head?!
Well, at least your still friends. It's a bummer when these things happen! As time goes on those feelings anf thoughts will fade, it will take time though.
hope everything works out!
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ok theres this girl and shes a year older than me and she goes to my school ok yeah and some one gave her my sn and now she wont leave me alone i ahve profiels and stuff so she leaves messages in my guestbook alwaysz constatly call ing me fata$$ or b**** or anythign u can think of and shes annoying she sayz this stuff at school and im not a narc so im not telling on her but i wann kick her a** but i know i will get in depp trouble what do i do to put her in her place and make her shut up!?
First of all block her sn. Stand up for yourself and put her in her place.
hope i helped!
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How do u know u are really ready for a boyfriend?
It depends on you and what your ready for.
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my ex bfs brother really likes me and wants me to go out with him (lets call him mike) and so does my friends ex bf and hes rlly nice. but i really miss mikes brother and i couldnt stand 2 c him knowing that i miss his brother (lets call his brother bob) and so i miss bob and like mike but hes three and a half yrs older than i am too... and this other guy whos in my english class really likes me 2 (josh) and i dont want to upset any guys or get myself hurt again bc bob really hurt me, its been about 3 months since i went out with anyone bc i miss bob but im way too good 4 him but still cant resist liking him... what should i do??
It's hard but choose the one you think is the best for you.
hope everything works out!
xoshaneyney
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I get migranes all the time! Does anybody know what may be causing it? I dont know much about migranes. My mom and I get them all the time! I usually take advil or asprin, or something. Do you get migranes? What works well for you?
My sister had that probelm last year, and the doctor said it could be you need glasses or that your period is comming.
hope i helped!
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Well, yesterday my best friend Rachael came over, and my crush Paul came over too. We all sat around watching movies and then Rachael goes, I'm in the mood to make-out with somebody, so she makes out with Paul 2 times!!! I was sitting right there too! She knows I like him and she just did it right there I got so pissed, and shes like dude jess your a stalker so she walked into the kitchen and they were holding hands n like his hands were on her hips as she was looken at me sayen "don't look jess" so i was like wtf whatever so i sat there with the mute on the tv cuz i didn't know how to react, they walk in and then i jus got so pissed i had to call my BESTEST FRIEND courtney and when i did, she had her phone off so i had no one to talk to. i was sitten on the computer talken to some people and then rachael stands up.. and walks into the dining room with her pants unbuttoned and i was like oh my god and she went to the bathroom i then flippen out on paul and when they left rachael said bye jess n i shut the door on her. you'd be mad too right? or do u think im just overreacting?
omg...you have every right to be pissed off! Try talking to Rachael and tell her how you feel!
hope everything works out!
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These past 2 years i've been feeling really depressed and its reflecting the way i act towards people now. I feel as if i can't trust anyone, and unpleasant things have been going on. Since 6th grade i've been cutting (im in 8th now). And now, It's like i always want to,and i cant stop, but its gotten to the point to where i dont even know it. I cant concentrate because i've lost most of my friends, and the 2 friends i have now act like they dont even want to be around me. All this anger is built inside of me, and i have no one to talk to about it and so i take it out on myself because i feel like its my fault even though it may not be. Im losing almost everything, and i always feel like my friends talk about me behind my back. I want help, but i want help from people who understand me, and who actually want to listen and care about me, but it seems none of my friends can really fill those needs.
I know how you feel, if you can't talk to one of your friends is their an adult you can talk to. I know it easier talking to a firend but talking to a guidance counselor, always help!
hope evrything works out!
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Okay one of my bffs dad hits her and her mom doesnt belive her..Shes havin alot of trouble with her bf..And shes think about alot of things..like she only has 1 reason to live..and all this i really need help this is really serious..
If her mom doesnt believe her, she needs to find someone who will and fast! Tell her to talk to a guidnace couselor or another adult. If she won't talk you have to tell someone, before it gets worse!
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