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i know this is a stupid question, but what kind of music is emo?

EMO is like...EMOtional music. It shows lots of emotion, such as a breakup or being mad at someone. Simple Plan and Yellowcard are some examples of Emo music.

xOo Nikki xO

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i know this is embarassing but whenever i run i tend to fart and everytime this happens everyone behind me seems to slow down...how do i prevent this?!

Lmao thats hilarious!!! Lol...sorry. Anyway, I dont think you can prevent it, but hey...look on the bright side. I mean, if people behind you slow down, you'll do great in the olympics!! Or maybe track races! Yeahyeah slow em down on the races DAMN STRAIGHT!! LMAO Hope I helped! ;]

xOo Nikki xO

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Does anyone know if I can I have more than one Iguana in my house?

~Nokomis~

Why not? Go for it. :)

xOo Nikki xO

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i just got a new rabbit and i have never had one before so i know nothing about them! i know that they have to be kepy in shade but thats about it! i need to know how big the cage should be and what you need in the cage. what do they eat? i am also kinda afraid that everytime i pick it up it will bit me....i guess i think that cause my cat bits me...do rabbits even bit? i guess i pretty much need to know everything about them....so if you have the time, please tell me! thanks! i'll rate!

Heyhey! I have 2 Rabbits of my own. Their names are Tina and Seamonster. Anyway, I just got mine, too, and I know alot about them. First of all, dont be afraid to pick them up because the more gentle you are with them and the more familiar you are to them, the less likely they'll bite. Before you pick them up, pet them for a little bit, so they'll calm down. I mean, you would be scared if a gigantic hand reached up and just picked you up, right? As for the food, feed them carrots and some veggies. They also have rabbit food at local pet shops. Make sure that the cage is big enough so they can move around a little bit, too. Always feed it fresh food and give it fresh water so it will stay healthy. If you need anymore information, some pet shops sell books on how to take care of rabbits. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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ever since i moved i've felt misserable and depressed... i moved to africa a little ova a month ago and left a girl that ment the world to me... i would do anything for her... but i might never get to see her again... all i can do is hope shes on-line when i am... all i want is to be with her and i cant... so idk wat to do but talk to her whenever i can... wat can i do to talk to her or even see her again? i'm not goin to give up or forget about her. shes the only thing keepin me alive...

AwWwWwWwWwWwWwL!!!!! Ok, I know that you might not get to see her at all in person, but I betcha with my advice you can get pretty damn straight up close. Ok, so make videos for eachother. Just video tape yourself talking to the camera, as if you were to talk to her in person. you can send her presents on holidays, and maybe write letters to her. The next time she gets online ask her for her address and surprise her with a video of yourself telling her stuff. Trust me, its better than just chatting online. I'm really sorry, and I know how that feels....I hope I helped some.

xOo Nikki xO

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ok, well I just turned 13 not to long ago and I have a boyfriend. But if my parents find out they would kill me. If I'm on the phone with a guy or whatever and my parents ask who I'm talking to I always have to lie and say one of my friends names thats a girl. And if a guy calls me and I don't answer the phone everyone keeps asking me questions about why there calling and stuff. I really love my b/f tho and when i wanna go somewhere with him I have to tell my parents that I'm going sumwhere with my friends. I just wanna be allowed to have a b/f so i can hang out with him all the time and everything without having to have at least one of my friends there. What can I do?

Just tell your mom that your boyfriend is just one of your best friends and you wanna spend the day with him. I mean, that always works with me. Except, I never really go places with my bf, it works when i'm talking on the phone, but I'm pretty sure it will work. I mean, if hes just your "friend" then your mom would let you go, right? I mean, its perfect. Tell me how it works out and if anything goes wrong, just tell me.

xOo Nikki xO

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here it goes- i am 14 years old, and i still havent gotten my period.. is that a bad thing? or is it normal? please help!

Thats okey, I guess. But if you dont get your period by the age of 17 or 18, then I suggest that you go see a doctor.

xOo Nikki xO

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Can someone define the diffrence between love and being in love...anything corny is fine! Or could you define love itself.

Oh and is it possible to find love at any age? 15?

Love is a feeling you have with a family member or a close friend. Being in Love is when you see a person you like and you get butterflies whenever you're around them. And yes, you can fall in love at any age ;]

xOo Nikki xO

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well i know this may sound weird but me nd my boyfriend were arguing ! we started dating the 31st of Decemeber nd our 2 month is rolling around but there isnt a 31st in February? how do you celebrate an anniversary if that date isnt there ?

Celebrate it on March 3. It's practically the same thing, I mean, its not that bad. If there are only 28 days in February then move it to the next month. Happy Early Anniversary to you two ;]

xOo Nikki xO

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I have a simple question that I can't find the answer to. In the middle school I go to they have a P.E. class. In P.E. class we do jumping-jacks. What do jumping-jacks help you build? Your arms, legs, stomach, or something?

It gets your arms and legs slightly built and it helps your heart get pumped up.

xOo Nikki xO

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Can someone please explain to me what carbs and calories are and the difference between them?

Ok, let me put this as simple as I can possibly put it. Carbs give you energy. Calories are just bad for you (your teeth and bones and you know, excess fat). Simple Carbs come from candy and junk food. Simple carbs give you a boost of energy almost instantly but it dies off quickly, too. Complex carbs come from chicken, fish, and other good foods. It takes more time for it to kick in, but the energy lasts longer, too. Hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
Sincerely,
Confused concerned friend

Ok, so you dont have to KILL the guy. Just, you know, verbally kill him. Go up to his face and go, "You little rat! I cant believe you did that to my best friend! Now shes thinking its all your fault, but it was YOURS! Ohmigod you little son of a B*tch!!!" and maybe your friend and you can go to the counselor's office and talk it over. I mean, the counselor is the best way to go. She'll understand. And make sure that none of your other friends go out with that jerk off. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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me and my bf have been going out for 5-ish weeks now and we're both pretty easy going people. But we haven't ever fought about anything and we spend SOOOO much time together. Is that bad?

Why would that be bad?? I mean, that's pretty good. But even if you two get into a fight, that's a sign that you two care for eachother and you want to keep your relationship alive. Pretty soon you'll start bickering like an old married couple. Trust me on that one ;] But right now, you guys are doing fine. No worries.

xOo Nikki xO

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my boyfriend said something really mean to me about the way i look earlier today on the phone. i hung up on him and he keeps calling back and i wont answer. he left a message saying "if you ever stop being mad at me call me, ill understand if you dont though" i want to call him back...what should i say?

Tell him that you forgive him, but he should respect that you get hurt when he says things like that to you. I mean, no girl deserves that, right? A boyfriend is supposed to be supportive. Anyway, I hope I helped. Tell me how it turns out.

xOo Nikki xO

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what is a heating pad?

Think about it for a second. Its a pad that heats things. Try not to misread the obvious.

xOo Nikki xO

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i am directing a play . i don`t know what one i should do . can anyone think of a googd play

I think you should do something cool like Grease. They have a lot of songs in it, and they still have the music on CD. Or you can do something cool like Frankenstein, lol. Hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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i would lije people who have either seen this movie or saw a scary movie and had the same problem as me to answer this.

i watched this movie "The Ring" like 5 months ago,and i still get kinda scared and cant sleep.what should i do?

That happened to me when I watched the Grudge. I mean, when you go to sleep at night, just think to youself "Its not real, it's not real". Just tell youself that it's not real, its physically impossible for a little girl to come out of a TV, and its just a movie. When that didnt help, I sung to myself or listened to my CD player. Also, just focus your mind on other things. Hopefully you'll overcome your fear. I overcame mine in about 3 days because I focused myself SO HARD on other things. Hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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Does anyone any really high fat foods with a lot of calories ?

Anything your science/health teacher tells you NOT to eat. In that matter, it would be...Chips, cookies, milkshakes, FuDgE, Ice cream, Pie. Fried Chicken is also high in fat. I hope I helped, lol ;]

xOo Nikki xO

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Everytime I fight with someone I start shaking, is this normal?

Yeah. I mean, its just the adrenalynn you have in yourself, or maybe you're just really really mad at this person. So, yeah its normal. Happens to me alot ;]

xOo Nikki xO

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ok... im 14 and i am 5'10... is that too tall? i am taller than most guys my age and although i have never really had a problem with it this year i do... im sure most girls would kill to be taller but i seriously want to cut my feet off i hate it so much... like i said... i am 14 but i truly look like i am 25... the other night i was havong dinner with my dad and i got his beer... i am sick of older guys hitting on me... and i am sick and tired of being around a guy i like (including my bf) and feeling like this huge mass... i really do WANT to look my age... is there ne way i can get over this?? and if not... there arnt ne special short pills are there??
...cle

Ok, I know how you feel, cause I'm 13 and I'm 5'5", and I'm pretty tall for my age. And I, too, feel like I wanna cut off my knees to be shorter, lol! Anyway, I think you can get over it if you really try. I mean, get into some sports where you can excel because of your height. Therefor, Basketball is one of the answers. I mean, you can do good in BBall because of your height. Any bball player would die to be your height. I mean, height is something you enherit. Unless you get knee surgery, you gotta deal and be happy with it. I mean, there are some upsides to it. You'll be good at sports, nobody is ever gonna mess with you, and maybe i'll see you in the WMBA some day! But...if you do, make sure to thank me, Nikki! So...My overall advice to you is to just enjoy it. I mean, height isnt everything, and nobody is perfect. If you need anything, then feel free to leave me something in my inbox ;]

xOo Nikki xO

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