Well my name is Kim Frye and im 17. I love helping people and making others happy, its my goal in life! I also love riding dirtbikes, hanging out with friends, dancing, singing, etc etc. :)
E-mail: kimberly_frye06@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Bakersfield,ca
Occupation: Bank Of America // Freshman at Bakersfield College
Age: 17
AIM: xobakosfinestox
Member Since: July 20, 2006
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Last Update: July 23, 2006
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hey. I'm 14/f. Me and my ex boyfriend had sex ,i thought it was a good idea at the time and i felt really comfortablewith doing it but now i don't think it was right. He dumped me the day after and i felt realy bad because i liked him alot but he obviously didn't like me. Now he is calling me horrible names and being really mean. All my friends are all acting wierd to me now and i don't know what to do.
If anyone has any advise it would be much apricated! xxx (link)
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Honestly, boys suck. You were just trying to make him happy and you thought you were ready, but what does he do? He dumps you, but trust me, you'll get over it. No, the name calling wont end, at least not anytime soon, because that is just normal teenage drama. Theres really not much to do except, DONT let them get to you. Trust me, I dealt with this stuff ALL 4 years of high school, and letting it bother you will just make you feel 100x worse. Feel Better :)
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I was about 7 when i first fingered myself; obviously, i didnt have my period then. I also used the pool jet to masterbate. I didn't know that's what it actually was called or that it could lead to problems later in life. I heard that it can give you cervical cancer. I'm really really scared. Is that true, what is the risk, and would I know if I have cancer by now if i'm 14. (link)
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You will NOT get cancer from that. Many girls use pool jets to masturbate, its normal. Dont be scared, you arent going to get cancer :)
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Okay...I'm only 13 1/2 and I know what an orgasm feels like and I have them on purpose. I use this massage thing that you're supposed to use on your back. I keep thinking i'm really abnormal because i "like" having them and I do it about every other day...am I too young to be doing this? SHOULD I be doing it? No one knows I do it at all. IF it's okay for me to be doing this, would it be okay to tell my mom maybe? I share everything with her and she's a nurse so I don't think she'd be freaked out or anything but i think i would be very embarrassed if even she knew. PLEASE HELP! (link)
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This is COMPLETELY normal. You can masturbate at any age, young or old. If you feel comfortable telling your mom, then tell her. Its not like she'll disown you or anything! :)
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my boyfriend and i have had sex with a condom a few times about a week before my period was supposed to start he broke my hymen and i did bleed for about three days, and the next time i bled more. i am 15 and my boyfriend is 16.
my period is not completely regular yet, i have had it for about 2 years. but, my period is late 11 days, it has been later in the past, but because i am sexually active, i'm worried.
is it possible to have gotten pregnant ?
what are some symptoms of pregnancy ?
i think that i've been stressed about it, and thats why i'm late, but i'm worried.
any advice would help =)
also .. if you go to planned parenthood, does it cost anything for birth control ? and will it be confidential ? will it be mailed to your house ?
sorry for so many questions.
thank you !! (link)
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Planned Parenthood is 100% confidential. Go to this website::
www.plannedparenthood.org/
they will have all the information you need.
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do you think getting fingered or giving a handjob is to slutty for a 13 yr old? thanks♥ (link)
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I wouldnt say slutty, because thats just kind of rude, but its DEFINITELY not right. You should wait a while on that one.
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my boyfriend who ive been with for a very long time wanted to finger me today..but im on my period! hes already done it many times before so when he started to go for it and i took his hand away he was like whats wrong? i didnt want his hand to touch that he'd be DISGUSTED! so i just said"not now"but he kept trying to later on! i wear pads most of the time but even when i do wear tampons..i still cant tell him im on my period cause thatll make everything so awkward! how do you tell a guy without being embarassed and it is it gonna make them freaked out?? cause frankly, its the only thing thats stopping me from doing it and i have no idea what to say. (link)
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Just tell him youre on your period. If youve been with the guy a long time, who cares, its a normal female function that HE WILL INDEED have to deal with once a month. He'll get over it, I promise :)
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Well, ive had sex with 2 guys..
1st guy-had sex with 1 girl
2nd guy-had sex with at least..8 girls
and all of a sudden ill be sitting with both legs up..n i smell this odor comig from.."downstairs" and it was never there before..i shower everday-and im scared it might be a STD (link)
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Vaginal Odors can be ANYTHING. A bacterial infection, Chlamydia, Herpes, Vaginitis, etc etc. I would suggest going to see a doctor to make sure!
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My cousin has been masturbating since she was 3 years old. Is that normal? She is 17 now. (link)
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3 years old? WOW, I dont know if that CAN happen, but I guess anything is possible? Masturbation is perfectly normal, almost everyone masturbates, I do, and im definitely not ashamed of it. In my eyes, its better than going out and having sex, no risk of getting pregnant, diseases, or guilt.
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I am a 14 year old girl but im 15 in 3 months and i know its illegal to have sex in uk before 16 but i really love my boyfriend and i'll be honest caue i want real advice i've been going out with him over a week and i already feel he loves me and i love him and i think i feel ready i mean he's given me oral sex if that can be correct but i've not done anything to him and i think he's the right one and the one i want to loose my virginity too and i want to know if theres a way of checking to see if ur ready by tasks or talks or something . one magazine said to see if ur ready to have sex see if you can walk up to your local chemist and buy condoms out of it from a lady who knows you live near by is this a good way of telling if im ready please email me bak or reply soon cause tomorrow or the next day is ment to be kinda big with him and me
please help love me xxxxxxxxxxx (link)
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Sex is a REALLY serious thing to consider. Being 15 years old and being with a guy for a week, doesnt sound like a good idea to me. In the end, you might end up getting hurt // pregnant // ANYTHING...YOU never know. I would wait on it for a while, at least until youve been dating more than a week, its way too soon.
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my dad watches porn late at night when me ans my sis are suppposed to be a sleep...i hate it..does he not love my mom...i don't know wat to do...i told my mom and she was really disapionted...i wish i could help i don't know wat to do...i'm scared they're going to get a divorce... (link)
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Well, I dont think your parents are going to get a divorce over your dad watching pornography. Its pretty normal for men to watch this, even women. It doesnt necessarily mean that your mom doesnt "satisfy" your dad anymore.
Talk to your dad, sure, it will be very akward, but if you want him to know how you feel, then just tell him.
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me and my boyfriend had sex about 3 months ago and i still havnt got my period.I have pains in my stomach really bad and bad headaches.My boyfriend didnt have a condem on him so we took a risk.I'm 15 and i can get a pregnancy test without my mom knowing.She doesnt know i even had sex.What should i do????????????????????
please help me! (link)
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Well, as much as its not good to have sex at 15, you did and you cant change that. Have your boyfriend go out and buy you a pregnancy test, if he wont, then hey, that shows hes not a very good guy to be with.
Go out and buy a test. If it comes back positive, go to planned parenthood and talk out the possible solutions. At planned parenthood, they keep your information COMPLETELY confidential, so you will not need to worry.
Next time, DO NOT have sex without a condom, its just not a good risk to take.
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i am from india.i have been masterbating for a long time im 22yrs 5feet 5inches high 64kilos.what my problem is that i can hav an orgasm as many times i want in a day by rubbing myself on a pillow in the sitting position.but during sex thats not possible.i just dont come during sex.after my partner finishes then i sit on a pillow and come.so please tell me what i should do about this and is it possible for me to come during sex.i feel depressed sometimes because of this. (link)
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Its easier for you to orgasm while masturbating because you know your body more than your partner. you know what feels good, and they might not. While having sex, you can still touch yourself as if you were masturbating.
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what are the symtoms of yeast infection and how do i cure it? is the yogurt thing true? will the cure the infection? plz help. (link)
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The symptoms are:: itching, burning, irritation, painful urination, and discharge. Its best to go see a doctor if you think you have an infection. If not the doctor, go check out "vagisil" in drug stores. Ive heard that it works pretty good.
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since i got out of school i've really only straightened my hair about 3 times. i used to straighten it almost every day in the school year, but i dont anymore. thing is, it still seems fried. its kinda frizy and seems dry. why is it still like, this, and what can i do about it? thanks xo (link)
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Buy an anti-frizz product from a hair salon. I use john frieda frizz-eaze, or ANYTHING from the VO5 line SURPRISINGLY works well. Your hair is probably just recovering from all the damage that was done to it from your straightener. You can straighten your hair, just dont make it an every day thing, within a couple of months your hair will be fine.
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k so my mom is FINALLY letting me get highlights.(at a salon) :) my hair is like, a medium brown so i was wondering what color highlights would look good. i was thinking like,a reddish brown color or maybe light brown? i have no idea what color i should do. what do you think would look good? (link)
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When you get it done, ask them to make your hair darker than your natural color on bottom only. Im not talking like BLACK, but like a darker shade of brown. Then on top you should get blonde // red highlights. Not red red, but like a burgandy *sp?* red. It will look amazing, im sure! :)
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im gonna be out of town during our 2 month anniversary thingy and i told my boyfriend i got him a present but i havent gotten it yet and i really dont know what to get or what to make and hes coming home tommorow!! anyone have ideas? (link)
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Well, im not going to knock on you for saying you already got something, haha because Ive done the same thing. Its hard picking out stuff for boyfriends, only because they dont like cute things like girls do. Since its two months and not one year, dont make it something INCREDIBLY great. You could maybe buy him a t-shirt or something along the lines of that? Or, if you want to be sweet, write him a nice letter and buy him some cologne or something? Hope this helped! Good Luck! :)
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i got the new seventeen, the one with lc from laguna beach on the cover. theres a toned body workout. i want to try it. i know everyone is gonna say that you need cardio too, but the workout has cardio included. it says to do it like, 3 days a week i think. if i did it 3-5 days a week (plus what i usually do almost every day.(ride bikes, dance when i have dance camp, walking around, stuff like that) ). im not fat or anything, i just need to slim down my upper thighs and lower stomach a little bit. so has anyone tried that workout, and if so, how good did it work. thanks (link)
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I read that magazine as well. Ive tried these workouts that they put in the magazine, but it never works for me. Im not very enthusiastic when it comes to working out, so you will probably have more luck with it. I totally think you should try it out though, you never know until you actually try right? Good luck! :)
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