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my dad watches porn late at night when me ans my sis are suppposed to be a sleep...i hate it..does he not love my mom...i don't know wat to do...i told my mom and she was really disapionted...i wish i could help i don't know wat to do...i'm scared they're going to get a divorce...
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Don't worry so much. A lot and I mean A LOT of guys and girls watch porn. All ages. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love your mother, he just watches porn. I went through the same thing and I felt the same way, I hated it. I thought it was disgusting. But after I grew up a little bit I realized that it's a normal thing and TONS of people watch it. Don't let it upset you.
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Do not get all grossed out. It just means your dad is normal. Then again you got on this Earth somehow didn't you? He loves your mom and if he didn't then he would be hooking up with sluts, hookers, and prostitutes.
Sincerely,
the Twins
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same exact thing with my dad! Tell your mom, thats what i did. Hopefully she'll talk to him about it, i also showed my dad signs that i was pissed off at him.. he just started actin the way he used to a couple days ago.. hopefully things will get better for me and you
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Well, I dont think your parents are going to get a divorce over your dad watching pornography. Its pretty normal for men to watch this, even women. It doesnt necessarily mean that your mom doesnt "satisfy" your dad anymore.
Talk to your dad, sure, it will be very akward, but if you want him to know how you feel, then just tell him.
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Many men do watch porn, I hate to say it, but my boyfriend even did. I made him stop though, but for all I know he's probably watching one right now. :Rolls Eyes: It's normal for men to do this, and I know it must hurt your mom, but it's not like he's cheating on her. Do you see what i'm saying? A lot of people have a porn addiction, and you're father could be one of them. That's when you should get concerned. I don't think your parents will get a divorce, but I do think that it will be a little strange for you to look at him again. I caught my dad looking at the Paris Hilton website, and I still get grossed out thinking about it, so I know how you feel, love. Just talk to your dad and tell him it scares you and it hurts your mom. That should get him to stop.
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umm i think your mom needs to have sex with him more often hope i helped
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i would ask him why he does this and if he still loves your mom, yes its open and probably disgusting for you to ask him because it would be for me to also but if you really care you'll find a way to ask him.
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That's probably really odd to watch your dad do, but it isn't abnormal. It's completely normal for all men, married or not, to watch porn. Even happily married men like to do it. This doesn't mean at all that he doesn't love your mom. I don't think it's something you have to worry about as far as them getting a divorce.
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Don't worry yourself too much darling. Many men watch porn and it can have absolutely no reflection on their love for their mate, it's just something they do that women can't seem to understand. There are some men who are addicted to pornography but the majority see it as something totally separate from their married life that they just indulge in from time to time.
It can be a problem in a marriage, porn makes many women very upset, but it’s not a problem that your parents shouldn't be able to work out and fix. This isn't really something you can help with; it's something your parents need to deal with on their own. Just know that pornography doesn't mean that your Dad doesn't love your Mom, or you, it could just be a bad decision on his part, or something your parents don’t agree one.
If it will make you feel better, talk to your parents about your fears. I'm sure the will reassure that they are doing everything they can to make their marriage healthy and happy.
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Sounds like your dads not getting "any" from your mom. He wouldn`t be looking at it unless his sex life was good. Sorry to say that but i think that he is only look at it because of that. Maybe try to get you and your sister out for a couple nights and let him have alone time. ♥
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