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My name is Vanessa, obviously.
Single, and not surprised.
Loud♥
Outgoing♥
Hyper-all the time♥
Loves' to help♥

Can help you with anything at anytime.
Inbox is right there!
I'm usually on about all the time.
Atleast 4 times a week, so I will def. get your message.
Don't be afraid to ask anything.
I don't get offended easily.
But, I can and will be a bitch if you get on my nerves.
I'm no label, just myself.
I had braces : ( for 3 years, so my teeth are lovley♥.
I guess my style is dressy, kind of 80's, vintage, hollister, abercrombie, the works.
I'm petite.
You probably won't ever see me without eyeliner♥.
Most people like me.
Not saying that you will.
Parent's like me.
Though, mine never agree with me.
I sneek out.
Party all the time.
Can make anyone laugh.
I live in downtown Chicago, fun place to be when you have your permit, ehh?
My house has a pool, so a girls gotta' tan.
Boys are confusing.
Girls are just plain confused.
I talk a ton.
i-Pod, Side-kick, and a bottle of Dr. Pepper♥.
Used to live in the OC, and totally serious.
Such hipocrits.
Thats another thing I hate.
I'm a very insecure person.
Trust is big with me.
My mom dad died when I was 9.
The step dad is the typical rich guy, spends his money on cars and a country club.
What can I say, it's not like I hate it ; ).
I swim and play tennis.
Tennis is better then swimming I must say.
Jolly ranchers are amazing.
Cats are fuzzy.

.:The end:.
xVANESSAxL0VEx - TRiPLE xXx - ROFL.
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advice

ok so i have a friend (joann) who loves to sing, and wants to be a famous singer for her career and she works really LOVES to sing. i also love to sing, and know a great deal and music along with many of my friends. The problem is joann cant sing fo rthe life of her. everytime she starts to sing people laugh. shes ac=bsolutley awful. shes known in my school to be an awful singer. being a friend i cant tell her, and her parents tell her shes good. what can my friends and i do to help her see that maybe singing isnt the right thing for her? thanks!!

Don't tell her. If she sucks then she won't get a career. Or you can be blunt and tell her. Be sweet and tell her that you don't think singing is right for her.
I hope that helps you!
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xXx

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ok, i really like this girl at school and shes the only girl ive like at my new school. i told a couple of my best friends that i liked her and it slowly spread throughout the class to her. her friend asked if i am going to ask her out or not and im really not sure because she has been known to dump boys after 2 days(thats the record for her) some of her friends said that shes interested in me but i dont want to get my heart broken like i did with my last girlfriend. should i take this chance

Um, yea. If she breaks up with you after 2 days or before 2 days, then how will you even get your heart borken? You have only been going out for 2 days! Just ask her out, I'm pretty sure if she likes you then you two will go out for longer then 2 days.
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My step father has been forcing me to have sex with him for a few years now. When I was 8-9 he brought home a porno tape and showed it to me. I called my mom and told her that it was a sick tape and he threw it away. After that, my dad has brought porno tapes for us to watch and has had sex with me various times. I hate it when this happens, but I've been afraid to tell anyone!! He taps my ass and touches it and stuff. What do I do to make it stop?!?!

This is an extremely serious problem. This is rape and you need to tell your mom right away. She can tell the athorities, and he may go to jail.
Honey, this is no joke. It needs to stop.
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xXx

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I met a guy on an online dating site. After just a couple of days he told me he wanted to meet me. The kicker was that he said he didn't have a car, and that I would have to drive up to see him. Remember, I've never met him, and really don't know that much about him except what he wrote about himself. At first I said yes that I would drive up after work on Saturday, but then my gut feeling and intuition were telling me not to do it. So I emailed him and cancelled the date and told him I wasnt comfortable with the arrangement, and that I would prefer he come up to see me. He wrote back and told me that the reason he didnt have a car was that he was taking public transit to save money, and that he wouldnt have a car until May. Then he said he asked to meet me too soon, and would still like to meet me. My gut feeling is telling me that this guy is a little desperate, and I want to back out of the whole thing.
I don't want to hurt his feelings. What would be a nice way to end things with him, and do you think he'll get angry? I told him at first that I wouldnt mind still sending him some getting to know you emails, but I don't even want to do that anymore. I'm thinking realistically, how is this potential relationship going to work? The guy doesnt even live in the same town as me and deosnt have a car.
Would I be a super bitch if I told him I didn't think this would be a good idea?

You do what you think is right. If you don't want to meet this guy, then don't. I wouldn't ever meet anyone off of the internet personally. This guy is just someone off of the computer, if you just block him and don't talk to him, he will probably get the point. Or, you could just tell him that you don't feel the need to meet him at all.
I hope you do the right thing.
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xXx

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How do you tell your best friend you're moving?

Aw. I'm so sorry.

I always hated moving away.
Take her out to the mall, movies, shopping, or dinner and tell her the news. Trust me, she won't take it nice. Leave her in a good way. And make sure she is there when you leave state/your house.

Once again, I'm really sorry.
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xXx

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hey my sister has recently cut my hair and i really dont like it i think its too short, i was wondering if anyone has tried any hair products or has any tips on fast hair growth. thank you.

I don't know of any hair products, but I do know that you should get your hair trimmed every 2 weeks because your hair grows REALLY slow with split ends. And wash it regularly. When you get out of the shower, don't brush your hair with a brush, brush it with a comb.
I hope that helps you.
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xXx

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okay so i just now found out that i am a B instead of an A cup size... how can i get my mom to buy me new bras?? im shy about this whole changing into a woman thing.. so is there a way i could convince her to take me? cuz i mean she always rubs it into my face and acts like she is totally blank about the whole me being a B.. it makes me feel uncomfterble..

It's nothing to be ashamed about. Your mom went throught it and she will understand. Just go up to her and tell her that you need some new bras. Walking through the store with a bra in your hand, that is a different story, I always hate that part.
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