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wow.. she sucks
ok so i have a friend (joann) who loves to sing, and wants to be a famous singer for her career and she works really LOVES to sing. i also love to sing, and know a great deal and music along with many of my friends. The problem is joann cant sing fo rthe life of her. everytime she starts to sing people laugh. shes ac=bsolutley awful. shes known in my school to be an awful singer. being a friend i cant tell her, and her parents tell her shes good. what can my friends and i do to help her see that maybe singing isnt the right thing for her? thanks!!
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This happend to me. I can sing, and love to. So does my friend, but she cant sing. So I just said
"Your voice needs alot of work" "No offense but people dont think you sing good"
She understood. Wow. I dont know/ Dont be too hard on her, shes your friend
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well maybe you could say that your going to get singing lessons and see if she wants to go(not cause you suck)but if you go than maybe she wont think nothing about it.
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Don't tell her. Instead, don't sing in public and sing when your at home with her, and that way, noone is made fun of. OR tell her, and help her with her singing. Help get the right pitches and stuff. And make sure she won't sing the National Anthem in front of your whole school!! I hope I helped! =)
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Honestly, if you guys are friends.
You should be able to tell her, not rudely, just tell her she's not that great of a singer.
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gag her. or just tell her that she's not too swell of a singer. i dont know.
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you could do karoake with your friends and when she goes up record her and then give her the tape so then she will find out for herself and you wont feel bad for telling her that she cant sing!
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First off I think as her friend it is your duty to tell her. Thats at least my perception of friendship. After all you dont want her ending up on something like American Idol and making a total idiot out of herself in front of the whole world. If you think about it, those retards on the show who cant hit a note are there because no one gave them a dose of reality sooner.
Recording her voice, as carlyx said, is a good idea. Another thing you might try is to get her to be evaluated by someone she might respect. Someone who teaches singing perhaps, or who is some sort of authority on music.
Finally, if it were me, but I am known for being confrontational in my circle of friends, I would let her know what everyone thinks of her. I would do this gently and diplomatically, but at the end of the day she would know people are laughing at her behind her back.
Either way I dont envy your position. Good luck whatever you do.
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honestly, if she is youre friend, you should tell her. But if you feel uncomfortable with telling her try to get her to notice it for herself. For instance, try offering to help her record some songs on a tape, and then play them back for her. Maybe she'll figure it out then
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That's a hard one you can either tell her and end up hurting her feelings or she will eventually find out from someone else and she might get hurt even more because you have not told her, but I think it would be best if she found out from someone that cares about her.
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Don't tell her. If she sucks then she won't get a career. Or you can be blunt and tell her. Be sweet and tell her that you don't think singing is right for her.
I hope that helps you!
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