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Age: 21
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DangerNerd
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kay well I was with this guy for a year i basically lived with him i was never home id go home to visit once ina while we told each other we loved each other and of course thought we would be together forever.. well forever doesnt last as we all know.. but he has a girlfriend now.. someone that ive known since i was like 5 use to be friends with then didnt like each other anymore.. when we broke up he told me he didnt wnat to be with anyone but then like a week later he was with her & still is but he always comes to me like im his back up girl he cheats on his girlfriend with me my question is do you think he still has feelings for me? or he just uses me because he knows he can? im still heartbroken and cant get over him but am living to live my life without him but it hurts even more when he uses me and tell me he loves me then leaves and then im just his friend again I wrote him a note the other day saying that i cant let him use me anymore because its only hurting me more and it not fair to his girlfriend. He tells her he loves her now but i jsut dont see how you can love one person then ina week happy to be with someone else and in 2 months tell them you love them.. thanx to anyone who trys to answer (link)
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Thats a tough situation.If i were in your shoes i would quit talking to him and just lose all connections with him.If not he is going to keep using you. Theres plenty of other guys out there. Iknow its easier said than done but if you dont you will be at his beckon call everytime something happens between his girlfriend and him.You can do it.Good luck! Hope I helped!!
steven
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ok i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 weeks but every1 says he is playing me so i am goin to break up with him. i dont know what to say to him though. i dont wanna break his heart! he says that he really like me! but he never calls me and he acts like he doesnt wanna be around me. what should i say to him when i break up with him?? please help me out!! (link)
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Well it's easy. If he doesn't call you and doesnt pay any attention to you leave him.If he really loves you he'll realize what he did wrong and come back to you!!hope i helped. good luck!!
steven
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Ok, my girlfriend is pregnant and she's really worried about it. We're both 19 and this wasn't planned or anything. We talked about it for a long time and we both agreed that we want to keep it. Her parents disowned her when she was 18 becasue she started to see me, because she was raised catholic and I'm not catholic. I felt that was rediculous because I have nothing against catholics and I was willing to join the church if it meant I could be with her but she decided that she didn't want that...anyway her parents won't be helping us with her pregnancy and with the baby so we're on our own. (my mother is dead and I've never met my father) I know that she's going to be going through a lot with her pregnancy and I was wondering if anyone knew how I could help her get through with a little more ease. I'm working two jobs one full time and the other part time so I'm not around that much. But is there anything that I can do to be of any help to her or is there anything that I should look out for? I was also wondering about taking care of baby. If anyone has any tips about taking care of baby that would be a big help as well. Thank you for the advice and I will rate a five for any help.
Tim (link)
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Well hoss im 21 and my g/f is 19 she's 8 months pregnant and let me tell you its not easy.Things you can do to make her feel better is rubbing her back.Rub her feet. Tell her how much you love her and how happy you are that she's the mother of your child.Tell her how beautiful she is.Tell what a great mother she's gonna be.Times will be hard her moods will change by the minute and so will yours.In our realationship i know it sounds wierd but im the one that gets sick in the morning and really craves stuff.Its totally wierd.But remember its not about you or her anymore.Its about the child your bringing into this world.I guarantee you once her parents see the child there minds will most likely change. i really do wish you the best of luck with your g/f and your baby.I hope i helped ya out.everything will be alright
steven
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how can i lose pounds fast?! ill rate a 5! i need help! (link)
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Run alot and drink loads of water.Eat sensibly and the pounds will start dropping.Hope i helped good luck.
steven
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I have a friend named Rob who I've known all my life and he tells me everything. We both made friends with a new younger girl named Lena (we're in eighth grade and she's in seventh) and we have a great time together. Rob is a really nice guy, and I think that Lena is mistaking that for him liking her, and she's starting to like him. For example, whenever we are doing something, like bouncing on the trampoline, and Lena falls over, he's over there helping her up again, and she's mistaking that for him liking her. Rob has told me himself that he doesn't like Lena as more than a friend, but I don't want Lena to ask him out and break her heart. What do I do? (link)
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WEll if i was you i wouldnt get into it.Everyone has there heart broke at least once in there life.Its just a part of living.If it happens she'll pick herself up and go on!!good luck hope i helped!!
steven
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Okay, I wasn`t really sure what to put this under but okay. I am 13 years old and I have some clear, kind of gooey stuff that sometimes appears in my panties. I'm afraid to get fingered because of it. I'm afraid the guy will get grossed out. Could someone tell me what this is and how I could get rid of it?
Thanks I'll rate fives for good answers. (link)
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That can also be a sign of a yeast infection.If i was you id go to the doctor and at least get checked up on.hope i helped good luck!!
steven
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kay i have these friends that i meet in 6th grade ive known them for two years now and a short time ago they all got mad at me and started curseing me out. they wont leave me alone i want to for get them because they have mad my life a leaveing hell. they even got my best friend to curse me out and blow stuff of with me and go with them. we are goign to the same high school in a year and they wont stop. i dont kno what to do? im lost please help. thanx!! (link)
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the best thing to do is ignore them! But if it keeps up dont be afraid to stand up for yourself.Ususally when you stand up to one of them the other ones will back off.Dont let yourself get bullied.hope i helped good luck!!!
steven
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do foster homes keep brothers and sisters together (link)
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Yes they do now. A long time ago it didnt matter if you were related they would separate you but now they do there best to keep you together.hope i helped and good luck!!!
steven
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i am in love with like the most perfect girl and we've been together for a while and i want to keep making her happy. any ideas how i can keep doign that?
all answers would be appreciated. i rate highly. (link)
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Tell her everyday you love her and how much she means to you.Cook her a nice dinner with candle lights and a bottle of wine might help.You could also slide little love notes where you know she'll find them women love that.But most of all just be yourself and im sure your love will grow stronger and stronger!!Hope I helped ya out!!Good luck..
steven
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Hello there,
Do you realize that your suggestion:
"take a xanax and drink a six pack and dpression will leave!!!good luck"
... would likely result in that person's death? You were suggesting to a depressed person they they kill themselves in such a way that it wouldn't be obvious to them until it was too late. This kid steals mommy's xanax and daddy's beer... Well, unless he's a linebacker he's dead.
If you didn't know that, fine, edit your answer if you like.
If you did, you should be ashamed. You give really good advice several times and then this.
DangerNerd.
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thanks for the compliment!!! Ive already dealt with my little burnout brother lol sorry again!!
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i cant cope. My mom use to be an alcoholic my dad use to beat my mom my mom us when she was drunk adn now i love to get drunk because ut gets rid of my troubles and i dont know where to start. I looked afta my sis and mbro when i was 9 and now my moms clean and moved out of my dads house i dont know where start i love my drink but dont want to go the same way as my mom. I hold a chip on my shoulder but dont quite know to who and dont know wot to do about it. Please please help. Vicki x (link)
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Go to aa honey theyll greet you with open arms take it from a alcholic myself it will drag you down and turn your life around find a meeting and get a sponsor and itll work if you work it dont let alchohol ruin your life!!! I really hope you take this advice and good luck with the recovery!!! Dont wait go tomorrow i know its tough but you have to do it for yourself and quick because if you wait youll never do it trust me ive been there.im not trying to tell you what to do im just trying to help!!!!good luck
steven
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form my upcoming birthday me and a bunch of close friends are goin camping .. we have 3 sites booked and i know the pools will be open cuz they are after memorial day. but i was jsut wondering if anyone knows anything else we could do there for fun. most the poeple going have never been camping, and i want my party to be fun!...please help ...ill rate high! (link)
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try makin some smores thats a camping tradition with me and my friends other than that just chill back and relax and enjoy hangin with your friends happy birthday and good luck!!
steven
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in a month i have to live with my sister because i have no dad and my mom has 1 month left ...im only 14 and i just found out my sis smokes weed and shit wit her ex(father of her kids)....i found that out say last week...now today her kids (1+3) were in the car and she ran in the house because she stopped by for a lil quick visit and out my window i heard my nephew cryin so i ran out there and her car smelled of weed and i know her ex was in the car previously because ..well thats not important but it was horrible and i kno her ex is gettin her into all this shit bc she neva used to be like this til she met him i just wanna figure out a way to like get him away from her like have some of my friends as old as him to kick his ass or sumthin..........plz help me figure out a way to get him out of the picture i cant have my neice and nephew go through this... (link)
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well its hard because your sister is an adult and really thats her buisness who she dates and so on.But try telling her how you feel about her smoking around her kids.And just to let you know marijuana is not the worst thing that could be smoked around them be glad it wasnt crack.Hope i helped and good luck!!
steven
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i went to the beach last weekend..and i used sunscreen but i only applied it once..and im pretty pale....and i got burned really badly it hurt for like 3 days soo bad...well now my ENTIRE back is peeling as well as my shoulders..it is sooo effing grose...and ive been picking it...&& it itches and stuff..ive put lotion on but is there anything that will make it stop!? (link)
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use some aloe itll take the itching and burning right out!!
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I know this sounds stupid, but can you grow from drinking milk every day? Will it assist in your growing period while you are a teen? I'm medium heightwise, and I heard that milk can help. (link)
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milk will help your bones grow strong from the calcium i dont know if itll help your heigth at all
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okay. so i dated this girl for a while. and we seemed to have a really good connection with each other. we were into the same things, we were both sarcastic smartasses, and we both liked doing the same kinda stuff. and well when i met her she was in the process of breaking up with her boyfriend. and so i was more of the friend to turn to than anything else. then slowly we started to date like after they broke up. and for about a weekend we were very into each other, and things seemed to be wonderful. then as the weekend ended she said she didn't feel the same way about me as i did about her. and so i decided to sit back and wait until she was really ready for a relationship because after some talking we kinda realized she needed some time to get back into the swing of things. and it was during this time that she began to change. she became mean, she began just totally ignoring me for days on end. the phone calls ceased. there would be whole days when i'd hear nothing from her. then i'd talk to her a bit and that was it. and now finally i come home to find out she spent the last couple days drinking, partying, and hanging out with sleazy guys. and i instantly became very mad and jealous. and i just wanna know. is it wrong for me to be mad? for me to not want her around? for me to tell her she's changed and become someone i don't know anymore? i told her not to contact me any longer, and that she had become someone else, someone i didn't know or love. and now in hindsight i kinda wanna know: was it wrong? (link)
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No you wasnt wrong she used you hoss.You were totally right doin what you did if she really cares she'll wake up and realize she hurt you and she'll turn back to the person you know!!Good luck bud hope i helped ya!!
steven
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i was gonna visit my dad whos in jail but he cancelled my visit i dont know why. any way he rang me after and i asked him he didnt tell me but his coming out in a few months and asked me and my little sister if we wanted to live with him. i wanna but my foster family am telling me he ay changed so i dont know what to do? anyone help. plus i do love my foster family but i wanna live with my dad (link)
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ive been in jail and ive had to cancel visits too.Its because your dad doesnt want you to see him like that.If he has truly changed youll be placed back with him.Everything will happen in good time dont rush things.The foster family will make a great desicion im sure .Best of luck and i really hope things work out for you.
steven
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hi, i just want to know if anyone has some really good shooting tips for basketball. im a great player on defence but mmy shootings only like80 percent please help
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keep a good arch on the ball!!
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ive known this gurl for 2 years now and ive meet all her friends and we bacame friends but lately we do nothing but get into fights... im going to teh same school as them and they wont leave me alone they say i ahev no friends and when i get to ej i will have no friends because i am a skank i dont kno what to do i try ignoring them but they just wont stop......plaez help!!! (link)
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Dont get bullied stand up for yourself and dont be ashamed to do it.I went through the same thing when i was in highschool and i ended up bustin some guys teeth out.Dont let it get that far but dont be afraid to stand up for yourself.Because stick and stones will break bones and words will never hurt ya.Hang in there girl itll be ok!!good luck hope i helped!!
steven
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well me and my boyfriend are so happy together well he lives with his grandparents and his grandma doesn*t like me at all even though I never did anything to her well my boyfriend recently got a job and he works from 4:45 until 1:00 in the morning and his grandparents won*t let him call me when he gets home well I call him during the day cause he is home but his grandma only lets us talk for about 20 minutes so we never get to talk or see each other which is bad for a relationship but I love my boyfriend so much he makes me happy and everything but I don*t want a boyfriend that I never get to spend time with or get to talk to and it is summer right now so should I break up with him? or should I stay with him? I don*t wanna be lonely but if I have to I will plz help me I rate high! thanxs so much
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well long distance realationships dont work and it seems like even though your not far away thats what youve got on your hands! i would tell him how you feel and depending on how he reacts is what i would base my desicion onHope i helped ya out good luck!!
steven
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