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get him the fuck away
in a month i have to live with my sister because i have no dad and my mom has 1 month left ...im only 14 and i just found out my sis smokes weed and shit wit her ex(father of her kids)....i found that out say last week...now today her kids (1+3) were in the car and she ran in the house because she stopped by for a lil quick visit and out my window i heard my nephew cryin so i ran out there and her car smelled of weed and i know her ex was in the car previously because ..well thats not important but it was horrible and i kno her ex is gettin her into all this shit bc she neva used to be like this til she met him i just wanna figure out a way to like get him away from her like have some of my friends as old as him to kick his ass or sumthin..........plz help me figure out a way to get him out of the picture i cant have my neice and nephew go through this...
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right dont do what some people are teling you to do saying you cant do anything you have to let her realize the truth on her own thats stupid and it could end up killing her kids you cant wait there is no time these kids need to be loved and protected there in a horrible situation and you need to put a stop to this explain to your sis what this is doing to her kids and this isnt the way she should be bringing them up she needs to understand that this so called father of her kids and lover of hers is setting a bad example and is killing her and her kids he is a bad father and she needs to get rid and turn him in she wont do it willinglee or alone so you need to be with her every step of the way she might feel alone without him but she has got a family thats there for her and two lovely kids that need to be looked after she needs to be there for them and to be a strong mum she doesnt need this worthless man she has her family she has you and she needs to understand that tell her your not going to let this go bc its wrong and its harming people and if she doesnt join with you and put a stop to this then you will have to end up calling social services its the best way if you ask me bc if there mum decides to stay with this man and to carry on treating her kids this way then she isnt a good mum she is worthless just like him and she doesnt deserve to be a mum to them kids
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I'm with everyone on this. Turn that bastard in. Your sister could end up losing her kids to social services and that is definetly not what she would want, but she obviously is not thinking about the safety of her children. But after her ex gets turned in there will be lots of lingering issues... court- he will probably only stay locked up for a couple days and then be sent back home to await his court hearing. And you will get tons of shit for turning him in and for your sister losing her kids. So before opening all hell lose, I strongly suggest you try and find a place you can stay. Hopefully you have other family or some friends that will help you through this and take care of you at the time that all this goes down. ~Sherah
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You could turn them in to social services. You sister could loose her children though. I'm with dangernerd...turn him in every chance you get.
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Hello there,
I used to try to "save" people from stupid relationships... Then I figured out they didn't want to be saved.
There's nothing you can do to change her mind until she wakes up and realizes what she is doing. Then if he won't leave you can round up your posse... ;-)
DangerNerd.
P.S. If you know where his drugs are, just call and report him. Every time he gets out of jail, report him again. Eventually your sister may get tired of waiting on him. :-)
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well its hard because your sister is an adult and really thats her buisness who she dates and so on.But try telling her how you feel about her smoking around her kids.And just to let you know marijuana is not the worst thing that could be smoked around them be glad it wasnt crack.Hope i helped and good luck!!
steven
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