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kay well I was with this guy for a year i basically lived with him i was never home id go home to visit once ina while we told each other we loved each other and of course thought we would be together forever.. well forever doesnt last as we all know.. but he has a girlfriend now.. someone that ive known since i was like 5 use to be friends with then didnt like each other anymore.. when we broke up he told me he didnt wnat to be with anyone but then like a week later he was with her & still is but he always comes to me like im his back up girl he cheats on his girlfriend with me my question is do you think he still has feelings for me? or he just uses me because he knows he can? im still heartbroken and cant get over him but am living to live my life without him but it hurts even more when he uses me and tell me he loves me then leaves and then im just his friend again I wrote him a note the other day saying that i cant let him use me anymore because its only hurting me more and it not fair to his girlfriend. He tells her he loves her now but i jsut dont see how you can love one person then ina week happy to be with someone else and in 2 months tell them you love them.. thanx to anyone who trys to answer
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Thats a tough situation.If i were in your shoes i would quit talking to him and just lose all connections with him.If not he is going to keep using you. Theres plenty of other guys out there. Iknow its easier said than done but if you dont you will be at his beckon call everytime something happens between his girlfriend and him.You can do it.Good luck! Hope I helped!!
steven
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Forever can last that long if you care enough to put the effort into it. Don't give up that idea!
Yes, I think you are being used. If he loved you and cared for you and your feelings then why on earth would he be dating someone else? You know that. Now do something about it. Do not so much as talk to this jerk again. Find a guy who puts you first and doesn't need anyone but you. :)
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Damn thats pretty fucked up hun and im sorry.. Yes it sounds to me he is using you.. he most likely isnt gettin sex from his current girlfriend so he runs to you.. i know that must hurt to hear but thats probably whats going on with this guy.. He might and possibly still has feelings but apparently their not strong enough to only want to be with you and not that girl.. I can understand why you let him cheat on this girl he's with cause if my boyfriend dumped me and then got another girl and wanted to cheat on her with me id want it too cause i love him so i know where your coming from with that.. i think you should deff. give him that letter tell him how you feel get everything out.. and please dont let him use you anymore ven tho i know it will be hard and hurt but if you need some more information or anything leave it in my inbox.. much luv dez x0x0 ♥
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Guys can really suck sometimes. This is one of those times. To honest, even if he still did have feelings, how do you know he wouldn't do that to you? Cheat on you with some other girl. If he's doing this to you but still dating her, you should break this off now. Sadly, he's a jerk (in my opinion) & you deserve MUCH better. Writing him that note was smart.
Just remind yourself what he's doing to his girlfriend by cheating on her & that could end up being you. That should sway your decision. Good luck & if you need anymore help, let me know.
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Men are as what they say polygamous so in my point of view I really don't know if he has feelings for you still. All I know is that maybe he isn't contented to be with his girlfriend always. Loving isn't cheating so I think also he doesn't love his current girlfriend. Did he ever cheat on you when you were still in a relationship? You're doing right when you gave him a note and said that you can't let him use you. If he has feelings for you still, I think the proof that'll support it is if he'll break with his current girlfriend when you said that you can't let him use you. It's better to get hurt and go on with your life than getting hurt and being stagnant in a relationship that hurts more.
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