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My boyfriend and i have been going out for about a month now. My best friend had no problem with him until now. She says she hates him. What can I do to fix that? (link)
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Nothing ... you cant change sum1 they can only change themselves and if she dosent like him find reasons she should ... and ask her why she dosent like him
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Hi there, I'm 14 years old and I have a problem with self harm. It used to be controlable, but now it's an addiction. No one else knows, and I don't know how I can stop, because it's getting really bad. How do I control it?? (link)
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You should go to counciling i used to cut my wrist then i went to counceling .... it helped :)
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I am about to get my braces off in april. My question is does it hurt when they take em of and also how long does it take thx I rate every one (link)
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not long ... but it takes a long time to get the glue off ... and it kind of hurts ... it feels slimy too lol
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okay there is this guy, matt, and he's a- well- a bit of a slut. we are good mates and last year he got with my friend. not sex or anything but fooled around. i was totally cool with that coz he's a nce guy and everything. but a month or so later i realised i had feelings for him. i told my friend and she was like OMG go for it!!! he had a party, so after a few drinks to soften the blow, i told him i liked him. he was like. OMG i've liked you for ages. i was so happy!!! he kissed me and we were making out when my friend banged on the door asking for me. i ran out and my other friend had passed out. i looked after her and made sure she was okay. when i came out of the room i saw matt kissing his ex. after pouring my heart out to another guy friend i got over it and we kept being friends. we still are. he was like so into my sister so i introduced them but warned my sister about him. they hooked up (not sex) but she wanted nothing else. he was cut up about it but got over it. i havn't spoken to him much lately coz i been busy. but i ran into him at the mall yesterday. we chatted for a while and today he sent me a message saying hey gorgeous, i'm thinking of you. and i dunno whats happening. n e 1 that can help it would be appreciated!!! sorry it's so long. i rate! (link)
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Omg this sounds so fucked up to me you should leave him expesially if he likes your sis and is flirting with you and u r the 1 who said he was a slut !!
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hey...im guessing united is an all star team... whats their website...i cheer for celebrity cheer...im not sure if youve heard of us...but answer me back and tell me if you have
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Hi um yes it is a all star team no i havent heard of u but im sure yall r good :)
unitedpythons.com
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I live in an apartment building. I wanted to do laundry last night, but all 6 of the washers were being used. Two were no longer running so I decided to come back 20 minutes later.
When I did, the machines were still full of clothes. A little mad I decided I would come back in a while. When I came back, all the machines were off, but full of clothes, including the same two that had been off for almost an hour. And the dryers were open, so it is not like they couldn't use them. I got so fustrated, I just decided to not to do the laundry. This has happend before as well.
Is it acceptable to just remove other peoples clothes from the machines? And if so how long should I wait before removing them? I know it's kinda rude, but so is hogging the washing machine.
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I would just move their clothes and put them in like a bag or something so they arent laying arond ya know and then i would do my clothes and thats about it wait until their clothes are done then take them out
- Ashley
merry christmas
god bless
plz rate
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I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of weeks now, and things have been going pretty good. We dont go to the same school, but we do see each other almost every weekend. Well last weekend he asked me what i was doing because he wanted to do somthin saturday night. Well on Friday night i imed him and asked what he wanted to do, and he said that he couldnt do anything because he had to go to some wedding. I was kinda madd because i didnt know if he would have even told me about the wedding if i didnt ask him what he wanted to do. A couple of days pass and it seems like were getting more and more distant. Im goin to the movies soon with some friends and i want him to go so we can see each other. What all can i do so our relationship keeps going and doesnt just lose interest?!?!?! (link)
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Well tell him how you feel . Tell him you want him to talk more ( because you do ) and just tell him you really want to hang out with him more than you already am
he will understnad :)
- Ashley
merry christmas god blezz
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Well, I'm usually one of the people to give advice, but now I need it. Ok, there is 2 boys involved. I'll call them One and Two. One- my boyfriend who I like, but isn't suppostive enough, and is kinda shy around me. Two- my ex-crush who ended up being a jerk by flirting with me one day, and leading me on, and then going and asking some girl out the next day. And then he was rude enough to mention it to me. One is sweet and stuff, and I like him, but sometimes I don't like going out with him. I've already gone out with him, and this is the second time. My best friend was going out with his best friend, but she broke up with him. The next day, her ex-boyfriend started yelling at me, because I couldn't give him a reason why she did it that he thought was good enough. He was literally yelling at me, and One didn't do anything! He just sat and watched. Now Two just annoys me all the time. He brought his girlfriend to youth group, and started flirting with me right in front of her! I got soo mad!!! Who does that?!? But then, when I'm upset, he knows it. I don't have to say anything, he'll just ask me what's wrong. One just ignores this, or is just totally oblivious to it. It's like he doesn't care! Sorry it was so long, but can anybody tell me what they think I should do?
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depends i really dont understand what ur question is please ask me again in a webmail in my advice column
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pleaz help me, i dont no how much it hurts to get you belly button pirced! pleaz help me... i rate high! (link)
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it feels like getting ur ear pierced
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Last year at camp, there was this guy who's a little over a year younger than me that really really liked me and I guess I gave him the impression that I liked him as a friend. See, I was like the only one that was actually nice to him, and most people think he is reallyreally annoying, and so do I, but I didn't say it to his face. He was like in love with me or something and it drove me crazy how he was always following me around and stuff. Stupidly, before I knew he liked me, when he was collecting screen names, I gave him mine. When I found out he liked me, I figured he'd get over it during the school year and I wouldn't have to worry about it. I was really annoyed by his having to always hang around me, but turns out he was depressed and on meds and I didn't wanna ruin his life by telling him he drove me crazy. So when he brought up the topic of us going out, I told him I only liked him as a friend. He said that was better than nothing, and with the impression that I wanted to be his friend, (I suppose that impression was my fault) kept latching onto me and following me. The rest of that week at camp basically sucked but I figured he'd get over me. When I got back home, he of course kept IMing me. I figured he'd stop in a couple months. I didn't want to tell him I didn't really want to have anything to do with him, again, because of the depression thing. So I talked to him, and I really did give him a chance then, and I also did at first at camp, and I then knew for sure, for a fact, that I'd never like him and I really didn't want to talk to him. Howeverhe insisted I meet him at the mall on his birthday. I said I would, and decided after that, I would act like everything was alright, and we were friends, and then block him and claim that I lost IM in the middle of November if I saw him at camp. I've now followed through with the blocking him. But there is a very good chance that we will end up at the same camp session next year, and even though I no longer have to talk to him during the year, at camp he's going to assume we're best friends again. I don't want to hang with him AT ALL it's one of the few things I will not do to myself. But I can't really tell him that either because he's depressed and who knows what would happen. And I really have given him a chance, he's just not my type, and I feel bad for him because he's not ANYONES type. So I'd feel really guilty even if he WASN'T depressed. Please please reply. I have no clue what to do. I have asked so many people for advice, including a camp counselor whos a psychology major and always has a solution, and even she was stumped. If you can come up with anything please let me know. I also cannot just skip camp because it is the one part of the year I really look forward to and it's the best part of my life, but with him stalking me, it's not. (link)
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id say if u dont like him os much ignore him
OR FIND SOMEONE ELSE WHO WILL HANG WITH HIM
ps i think its kind of mean u dont like him your probally the only friend he has thats why he hangs wid u all the time
Duh
happy thanksgiving love Ashley
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why does it always seem that my mom nevr lets me do the things that i want to do but i always have to go where she wants to go...god i swear my life is going to hell...why is that? (link)
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i know you dont want to hear this but when you get old enough and have kids they are going to want to go to places you dont want to go and since you are older you go where u want
happy thanks giving god bless
Ashley
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how do u know if u have athsma. i think i do b/c i play sports & when we do conditioning after like 3 sprints i like cant breath i think its b/c my parents smoke alot & i have to be around it :-( can sum1 tell me how u know if u have it (link)
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go to the doctor and ask because honestly the way you described it you might have it
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ok here it is:
i was at starbuck ordering a vanila creaam. The person asked me what my name is (they always do that and they out ur name on the cup). well when it came out the girl (who looked about 18 shes HOT!!!) she thought i was about her age and im only 15! she gave me her # under the cup...
the screwed up thing is it is all wet and its messed up. and each time i go up 2 starbucks 2 get her # shes not there. Should i jus give up w/ her (link)
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yes because you dont know her but do what your heart tells u
Love Ashley
um bye
Happy- Thanksgiving
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There's this friend I have and her name is Kellen. She's really sweet, quiet, a good friend, and she's 15. And she has this boyfriend who is 18 and his name is Nick. He's fun, loud, and likes to mess around with everybody while Kellen is usually the girl in the back (I mean the girl who doesn't say anything unless she definetley has to answer). And last Sunday, Kellen, Nick, and I were hanging out at the mall. Kellen went to get ice cream for all of us and I stayed with Nick at the table. And Nick said "Well, you're getting more and more beautiful day by day. One of these days you'll be mine." I didn't say anything because I was embarrassed (and because I'm only 14). And Kellen came back and I pretended nothing happened because I also felt bad for Kellen. What should I do? Should I tell Kellen? Or should I leave it alone? (link)
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TELL KELLEN ASAP
the way it sounds she deserves better and your her friend so tell her
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k . well i'm 14 and i weigh about 145lbs .. well it hink that's a lot but no1 believes i way that b.c i mean i'm not skinny but i don't look almost 150lbs .. well i play soccer, bball, tennis/track and so i have muscle especially w. soccer - but i feel fat and i was wondering if i run like for 20mins on my tredmill 3times a week .. if i'll start loosing weight er at lest tone up - i'm very self-concious and i wanna get down to like 120lbs ..please help - i'll rate =)
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dear self consious
yes running will help alot but you also put in your add that you run track that should tone you up too if it isnt i suggest exercising
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hey this guy in school he is a guy who likes heavy metal! well anyway he let me listen 2 some of his favorite stuff! and seemed so excited me all his fave songs!! He told me that 2 need 2 have black stuff 2 actually hear this music! i had a shirt under my shirt and i lifted it up and said i'm afraid i don't!! he lifted up his white shirt and his abs wre right there!! ppl keep sayin' we're flirting but he denies it! and i find out that someone talked 2 him about it and that he knows i like him ... what do i do? is he flirting with me or not? i'll rate! :) (link)
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It sounds like he is and stuff so i think he is
Love Ashley - happy thanksgiving
god bless
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Ok, at the beginning of the school year in a new city, and at a new school, (I just moved here) the first day of school, theres this guy that asked me out when I never even talked to him once, not knowing him at all. Let's call him Bob. Bob has liked me from the first day of school till today. He's had many other crushes and girlfriends other than me but still likes me and flirts with me. As I got to know him, I started to like him. He isn't that hott, but has a great personality. He's the player type and if I went out with him I wouldn't be able to trust him. I really like him but I don't want to go out with him. I don't know why.. He's got a girlfriend right now and people say I shouldn't go out with him because he is a total man whore. At school he ignores me but glances at me whenever we pass in the hall. Do you have any advice? I'd be greatly appreciated!
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P.S. I'm 13 and in grade 8 if that helps. (link)
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Dear confused ,
you are def. confused my advice is forget about him and if he asks you out again do what your heart tells you because i guarantee you nobody on advicenators can tell you what to because you have to follow ur heart
Love - Ashley
Happy Thanksgiving god blezz
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Is Wiccan like some cult thing? (link)
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it is witchcraft and NO YOU WONT GO TO HELL IM WICCAN
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okay i just started my period. I have a few questions.
a)if when you put a tampon in, and in 6 hours later when you take it out. and theres blood on it.but when you wear a pad and you take it off, and theres no blood. is this a period?
b) can you bathe with tampons in?
c)is mastrubation with your period a bad idea
d)it acually hurts when i insert a tampon, could it be that i forgot to take a previous tampon out?
e)what exactly are cramps?
f)is it healthier to wear a pad or insert a tampon?
g) can you get pregnent if you are having your period?
h)is having sex with your menstrual flow an unhealthy idea?
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question a yes if you see a tampon wif blood that a .
question b i dont think you can bathe with them in
question c yes i think masturbation with your period is a bad idea
question d huh thats really nasty but you can feel tampons and i dont think you forgot to take it out it hurts because your sticking it in you DUH lol
question e cramps are like aches you get when on your period
question f it depends on what size you are if your big a tampon is better littler a pad is better
question g yes you can get pregnent with your period
question h yes thats really unhealthy
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Hi, I'm 13 and 4 months and I havent ever gotten my period... :(. Anyway the last week-ish i've been noticing stuff and I think it may be coming soon. I am eating A LOT, like the equivilant of about 5 full meals a day. My skin is going from oily to dry to oily to dry and back to oily again, and I have more pimples than I've ever had before. My boobs are extremely tender too. Discharge isnt an issue, I've been having that all the time for like a year and a half, and it's the same as always.... what do you think? Might it be my time??
Ps- today i'm also a lil sick, like congested, but I think thats an outside issue, i dunno if it matters, oh well.
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Yes you should have it here in another week or two i would say becuase a year or two after d-charge you get your period- plz rate me love Ash
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