hey, my name's Leah. I've been on Advicenators for awhile now. I'm 15 years old and I live in New Jersey. I really love helping people sort out their problems, and I try to be as sensitively honest as possible. I'll answer any question that comes my way, I'm not timid.
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Leah
Gender: Female
Location: New Jersey
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Age: 15
Member Since: October 18, 2006
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I'm 15/f.
I need soem really good alternative/rock bands! so anyone that could help please help!
thanks.
xoTiffox (link)
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well.. I love
-weezer
-John Mayer
-Garbage
-Stretch Princess
-The donnas
-coldplay
-death cab for cutie
-hole
-no doubt
-ok go
-red hot chilli peppers
-rooney
there's also
-the killers
-hellogoodbye
-artic monkeys
-the postal service
-panic! at the disco
-the Donnie Darko soundtrack has good alternative
-The Garden State Soundtrack as well
hope I helped:)
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So I'm gay not like flaming gay, but gay none the less... Last night was our homecoming dance and I brought a date which was a guy... I slow danced with him and everything and apparently everyone was looking at us because my friends warned me that I might get some shit on monday about it... what should I do? (link)
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Just tell them that this is 2006 not 1950. It's not like you were having sex with him in the middle of the dance floor. You didn't do anything that a straight person wouldn't do with their date. I don't know were your from (gay stero types is more common in the south) but people need to face the facts. over 11% of the population is gay. Good Luck. Hope I helped:)
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what are some good sites for AIM profile quotes.
like the cute onesssss or some from like the hills or laguna beach like
"love's not a maybe thing, you know when you love someone"- the hills
stuff like that..
thanks in advance.
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I like these:
Friendship multiplies the good of life and divides the evil.
-- Baltasar Gracian
"Those who think they know everything, are very annoying to those of us who do." - Mark Twain
"Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like no one's watching, and Laugh like no one's listening."
"True love is like ghosts, which everybody talks about and few have seen."
-La Rochefoucauld
"Never argue with an idiot. They'll drag you down to their level then beat you with experience."
Friends are like elevator buttons, they can either take you up or bring you down, choose wisely.
WHY?
1)Why do you need a driver's license to buy liquor when you can't drink n drive?
2)Why are cigarettes sold in gas stations when smoking is prohibited there?
3)When a man talks dirty to a woman, its sexual harassment,When a woman talks dirty to a man, it's $3.95 per minute.
"Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer , but wish we didn't .."
"here's my philosophy on dating. it's important to have somebody that can make you laugh, somebody you can trust, somebody that, y'know, turns you on...and it's really, really important that these three people don't know each other." -Brooke Davis
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and it may be necessary from time to time to give a stupid or misinformed beholder a black eye." -Miss Piggy
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hi! well ive been into tight-skin pants for a couple years now. like...ive sewed them myself makin them skin tight. but the thing is, now that these new "skinny jeans" are in, i admit i like them better then my old skin tight jeans. Also, the real thing is, that whenever i wore my skin tight jeans (all i ever had) i would wear my black converse! but those are crappy now i had to throw them away and honestly they dont look good with my skinny jeans. So heres my problem: i dont like flats. but skinny jeans def. dont look good with my new reg shoes. so what do i do about my flats problem? What other shoes look good with skinny jeans? And its winter so i cant wear flip flops. thanks so much (long question) plz help fashion! (link)
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Ok well I love skinny jeans, im also really tall (5'8) so i have no problem wearing ballet flats. But, scince you don't like flats I would wear a pair of heels or pumps. The jeans fall really nice on them and it makes your legs look even longer and slimer!
see, look how this jean is worn with a pump:
http://fashiontribes.typepad.com/main/images/skinny_jean.jpg
I also love to wear them tucked into boots. Like uggs.
Like these:
http://www.grooveeffect.com/images/Trend-boots.JPG
hope I helped:)
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alright, so first off i'll say i'm 13/f and I'm turning 14 in about 2 weeks. My best friend's birthday is in January, last year she didn't have a birthday party because her mom said she was too old and mature for birthday partys... well, lets say that I still want to be a kid and still throw birthday partys. I just thought about some ideas that I could have for the party. Here they are-
Hollywood theme-
everyone dresses up as a celebrity, then we have a red carpet at home where each person walks down and then they have to do what the celebrity does (example- christina aguilera- that person would have to sing) and then later do a craft project, we take cement and shape it into a star, then have each person put their hand and foot prints in, and also their signature, then let it dry and then they can keep it. Pretty fun huh?
well my question is... does this idea sound too childish? and are 14 year olds still allowed to have birthday partys? I really dont want my friends to go home after this party, saying "Oh my gosh, she threw a party that 7 year olds would!" I want a party that makes my friends say "WOW! That was amazing!" but still think I'm not childish.
oh yeah, and another idea was to split everybody into teams, then tye-dye T-shirts with team names, then play night games that have teams included... then when everybody is cold, we make a bon-fire and make 'smores. Does that seem too childish to you people for a 14 year old??????
THANK YOU FOR TAKING YOUR TIME TO READ THIS... REMEMBER, MY BIRTHDAY PARTY WILL BE IN 2 WEEKS, SO I SHOULD HAVE SOME IDEAS SOON! (link)
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I think the hollywood one sounds awesome. It seems much more fun than tose stupid "dance" parties people trow were no one does anything. The only thing is that it sounds pretty involved and expensive. Considering you only have 2 weeks I would choose the second one. It sounds cool. you could also pitch tents and have a sleep over.
Hope I Helped.
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my boyfriend who is a year older than me used to walk wih me evry morning in school, and like giv me hugs, but now all of sudden he wont walk with me or even like talk to me, he just pretend she doesnt see me, and if i talk to him he'll listen but he wont look me, he just looks right past me. I thought he was going to dump me but then he wanted to hangout after school. is he like embarrased of me, or do u think he is gonna dump me? (link)
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Yea.. Boys are sketchy. It dosen't help that he's a year older than you. I friends may rag on him about you or he might have feeling for other girls. But the question you have to ask is if YOU'RE still intrested in him. If not, I would end it because I t just seems too stressful. But if you do like this guy than just talk to him. I mean he's you're boyfriend. You never know, it could be somthing outside of school and he just needs someone to talk too. I tend to notice in all my guy friends that they go through a period where they lose intrest in girls and would rather just hang with the guys. I don't know what grade you're in, but it usually happens around 7th,8th,or 9th grade. But yea, Just talk too him. Don't you think you at least deserve an explanation? hope I helped.
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I don't know if i'm depressed or not. When I'm at school with friends and stuff, I'm fine, but when i'm by myself, the only thing I want to do is cry. My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me, led me on, and left me again, and I think that's the core reason why I'm like this. What can I do to be happier? My friends never call me, and when I call them, they either are busy or something comes up. Someone help me please. (link)
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Don't worry I used to be just like that. I'd cry like every day sometimes for just know reason at all. In middle/high school things can be crazy! I mean there's guys, bitchy girls, people you're not sure are your friends, rumors, drama, an extroidanary amount of pressure, and to top it all of crazy hormones. And thats not even the acedemic part. Everyone just wants to fit in and be liked. And don't fool your self kids are vicious, people who don't even know you can hate you and if they get to you, then they OWN you. I have to say it really helps to have someone to talk to, a sister or a cousin, preferably not in the same school (trust me it may backfire). At this stage in our lives we still are trying to figure things out. We are all rollercoasters of emotions! So, no I don't think you're depressed. Hope I helped:) Fell better.
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16-f. ive been with my bf for 3-4ish months and were both really comfortable with each other. last nite for the first time i gave him a handjob and he fingered me. thats the farthest either of us have gone, both with each other and just in general. i feel a little guilty about it. i dont REGRET it, because, yeah we were both a little nervous, i dont know what his reason was, but mine was i just didnt kno how to do what i was doin lol, but also bc it feels like such a sin. i mean my familys not all church-every-sunday-pray-before-every-meal kinda stuff, but we do have a sense of faith.. and believe you should wait till youre a little older and with someone you truly love before havin sex or anything. my bf and i have both talked about this stuff, and i told him i wouldnt have sex till we were together for AT LEAST a year if not longer, and hes totally cool with that and all, and it was a mutual decision that this is the farthest we go for awhile. but i just have this idea in my head that im like going against God because we did that, and its weird. if it wasnt for that idea that like my family would be ashamed of me or that im betrayin my faith [i mean i sin ive lied and i cuss and stuff] but this is bigger ya kno. i dont regret it and im comfortable with him and i feel like we were ready to go a little further so thats not the issue.. but i dont know what to think i mean i almost feel slutty doin that but when i think of other people doin it, it doesnt seem like a big deal to me. i guess im mostly worried about what my family would think/say if they knew.. ahh help? lol (link)
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Don't worry I think its fine what you did I mean your 16. I know girls who have gone ALL the way and they're only 13. I think it's normal to feel like that. It shows that you have self respect and good morals. As for you and your boyfriend I mean time will tell. But its very smart to set some ground rules that way he knows what he's getting into and can't say your a tease or anything. You should realize that you were are a very brave and strong person admit what you did and decide what's your best next move. Keep in mind, 1. he's your boyfriend, 2. it's been 3-4 months, and 3. It's not like it was some ramdom guy at a drunk party. Hope I helped:)
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I'm 15, 5'1 and I weigh 85 pounds.
No, I never had an eating disorder.
I really want to gain 15 pounds.. Because I can't fit in a size 0 or 1 in jeans. I would like my hipbones not to stick out.. or my shoulder blades..
I want some fat on me. But I dont know what foods to eat. I know fatty foods, but list some meals. I'm going to do a milkshake a day. Or close to every day. (Is that healthty?)
I have a very high metabolism.. I heard, you should eat at night or before bed because you won't burn off the fat or something ?
If people think losing weight is hard.. gaining weight is even harder.
I've been struggling with it for 2 years.
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Wow! That so cool. Well you could eat a bunch a fatty foods which would be fun, but the you might have mood swings, breakout, smell bad, ext. I would sugest eating lots of carbs. Breads, big bowls of pasta, bagels,...because they all expand in your stomach. Also Make sure to eat lots of whole grains, vitamins, fruits, and vegetables. Good Luck:)
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there are these boys in my grade. their the popular ones and i was online one night and they were on & were all like you're so ugly just go and die. no one likes you so just go to hell. now they call me gorilla b/c im so ugly. i've tried ignoring them but it dosent work. now all of the boys are saying it b/c they bascally worship the popular kids. i'm the only one they pick on. can you please give me some advice or comebacks?
thanxx (link)
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Omg! That's horrible! guys can be such d!cks. They don't even know you and they act like you did somthing terrible to them. I'm not actually sure what I would do but I can tell you one thing, Next time they IM you and say somthing hurtful, print it out. Then if you decide to take it to guidence and trust me they will get in MAJOR trouble. Hope I helped. Good Luck:)
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okay. i use clinique's 3 step skin care system. i have products from both skin #'s 2 & 3. on the 2nd step of the system.. the liquid stuff. .does that zap ur oil up? thanks. (link)
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I use the clinique too. The toner or "liduid stuff" is meant to be put on a cotton bal and rubed all over your face to get out the dirt, oil, ext. It works well but don't forget to moisturize afterwards! hope I helped:)
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Ever since this summer I've been more concious of what I eat. I am a very active 14/f. I have lacrosse practice for 1 and 1/2 hours three days a week, I have marching band everyday for 2 hours and I run between 3 and 5 miles almost every day. I eat about 2,500 calories every day(honest). I try to balance the amount of carbs, fat, and protien I get based on the recomended servings. My parents bug me a lot about me not eating enough. I have lost my period for a few months now, but the doctor says its not a big deal, it will come back. I have a BMI of 20, so I'm not underweight. But my parents make me feel like I'm anorexic or something, I overhear them talking about me a lot. Do I have a problem? (link)
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No way! I think it's great what you're doing.I've been around anorexic/belimic girls and trust me it's not pretty! Your parent are probally just over reacting they want you to love yourself just the way you are but may not understand the many pressures to be thin. I mean who would you rather belive a educated doctor or your parents? hope I helped:)
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I guess I'll start with some background information first. I'm 21, married, have two kids, working two jobs, and in college full time. I've been away from home and on my own for two years. My sister (I'll call Ann) is 25. She still lives with my parents. She doesn't go to college, and pays no bills.
So, why does my mom now so blatantly prefer Ann over me? I can have plans with my mom for weeks, but if Ann decideds wants mom for something, my plans will be canceled...even if I've put money into tickets or reservations.
I ignored it til today. I really need a new pair of shoes. The ones I'm wearing now are held together with tape, and my feet show through. I've been looking for new shoes for days, but I have funy-shaped feet and I can't find any. My mom promised me (now that I finally have extra money) that she would help me find shoes today. But, oops!, Ann wants ANOTHER purse and NEEDS my mom's opinion. I won't have time off again to find shoes until two weeks from now. Ann is free every morning (and knows I'm not).
Why does my mom always choose her over me? (link)
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This sound all too familiar to me. I'm guessing your mother is the kind of person who is always sorta "love the one your with". however it sounds to me like she is seriously being neglective toward you. I would sit her down and tell her how messed up the situation is. Don't be afraid if she gets mad or angry because remember, you're the one who's right. Hope I helped:)
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im a 14 year male and i just quit smoking after about 2 years of heavy smoking and i was wondering how long it will take for my lungs to start to get back to normal when im running and stuff (link)
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unfortunatly your lungs will never be back to normal. But since you are young, the damage will be very minor as you grow. as for running you should see a little improvement every time you run and eventually you will be breathing well again. hope i helped.
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im in a bad situation. see my bestfriend of about 2 or 3 years just told me alot about her life and there is some things that i should tell someone about..but i promised her i wouldnt and,her life just keeps getting worse and worse.I love her to death but i dont want to loose her as a friend if i tell someone.
what should i do?
age:13
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aww. Considering you won't even say what she said, I think it's probally pretty bad. I should tell you to tell a parent/teacher but the truth is if you do that she'll lose your trust and your friendship. I would invite her over and just try talking to her. The best thing you can do as a friend is to just listen to her and be there. Hope I helped:)
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Well I'm trying out for a choir, but lately my allergies have been really bad. My throat is always clogged, and I try out next month. What should I do?
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Drink tea with honey and lemon. It will cut down the mucus when drinken regularly. Also suck on some cough drops to ease the pain. If your addition is a moth away you should have pleanty of time to get better. hope I helped!
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