I'm 14 and a female. ok theres this guy that i really like and he wrote me a note and asked me if we could date, and i said i had to get to know him better. so we "talked" for three weeks and then i hear he didnt like me anymore and it was true. So i wrote him a note saying that we should just be friends, but thats not really how i felt, what do i do?
ask him if he is just saying that to cover up what he really htinks and stuff or wether you could give it another try because now you know each other and at the begginig you didnt which would have caued problems but now would be ok and just basically see if you could get another chance at the whole thing.
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ok, my question is...heres the story...i met this guy who i really like and who likes me and hes always working and whenever i call him his grandma always says hes not there even when he tells me hes going to be there and i think shes either lieing or he just doesnt wanna talk to me and i dont know what to do or what to think...hes a great guy but i mean it upsets me that i cant talk to him and i dont know how to handle this..i called him tonight and his grandma said that he wasnt there and i asked if i could call back and she said we're all about to go to bed...and then i said well can i call back in 10 mins to check and see if hes there and she said yes and then when i called back no one answered...i dont know what to do so if anyone has any ideas for me please let me know!!...Thanks
umm just go up to him at school you know and talk to him about it he is probably just shy or something like that or maybe his grandma is like an over protective freak that wont "let her baby get confused by some cheap whore" thats what my grandma said to me when she met my 1st gf but she wasnt she was a really nice girl and we are still good friends.
so ya just confront him and ask him about it. see if you can find out whats going on without trying to bring the grandma into all of this.
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one of my really good friends, we'll call her leah, and she is being a b*tch lately i told her who i have liked for a year (well call him bob) over the summer and i asked leah if she liked him and she said no. okay since october shes been flirting wtih bob like crazy right in front of me so she can make me jealous, but i dont have the courage to flirt with bob ( and im really shy) but right now were in a fight and she keeps on flirting with him even more so she can make me jelous. what should i do
knock the fuck out of her (just playing that was a joke) you need to build up the courage and talk to "bob" about it like maybe even ask him out but dont tell your friends about it b/c you want to keep it quiet and then just hope everything works out.
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OKay my 2 friends and i are in a fight because it all began when they started taking drugs, smoking, and drinking! i felt uncomfortable so i left them alone and i kind of ignore them too! so anyway today my other friend tells me to come sit at the same table as them i did! well they didn't give me the time of day! last i heard one of them is smoking weed afterschool and it all started with these girls they have been hanging out with! What should i do? My other friend is determined to get us to be friends again! I 've already tried talking to the 2 of them but they won't listen! What should I do? I rate!!
just tell them if they want you three to be friends that they need to be clean and sober without ever thinking about going back to drugs and alcohol as a fun thing to do or even just to do it for any reason.
hope i helped you out!!!
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My parent's are like, sexist. They won't let me hang out with boys. They think that I'm just going to go out and have sex with every boy I see. I tell them that all we're gonna do it hang out (which is true) but then they have to make up the excuss, "Honey we trust you, not the boys." Soo, what can I do to make them trust me?
just one day suprise them bring a guy over (one that you trust and has really good manners) then like kinda show him off to your parents they should like him b/c he will be nice and everything so that should take care of it if not i guess you are just screwed untill you move out (thats not a suggestion by the way).
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Okay hey
well, I have this really big crush on my chorus teacher. and this isnt one of those eww god these ppl have problems kind of things so dont think that. But anyways. im 16 and he is 26. He is really really cute and he is just so sweet and funny, and REALLY flirtatious. A lot of my friends see that. I even tlak to this guy online and stuff. and he blocks EVERYONE unless they are on his buddylist, and he put me on it. Anyways... I think about him non stop. And if i have a problem, then he is always there to help me out with it and everything. and if i am faking a guy problem thing, then he is always there to help me out. A lot of my friends say that they seriously with no doubt in their minds, think that he likes me but he just wont say or do anything becasue of his job. And everyday it seems to get more and more serious about him. And now he's all telling me to stop hanging out with my friends and everything becase they are bad influences( he said this after i asked him to help me with singing lessons) and that felt like soemthing a bf would do. And i would do anything in the world for this guy and its really serious... What do i do?
-Shakenya
did u ever think about it that its all in your head and that thats against the law . plus its just sorta wrong. anyway i think that he is just prob a nice guy and trying to help you out is just a way of him expressing himself.
p.s. you are a little freaky by thinking that you would have a intimate relationship with a teacher.
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what do the different color jelly bracelstes mean?
black means sex,blue maens oral, and thats all i know your welcome if i helped and if i didnt so there you go
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Ok..theres this guy that likes me and we aren't going out but we have been friends for a while now..well he asked me to go to a movie with him and I said no because I had to go Christmas shopping but my friends asked me what my answer was and I told them and thats how he found out I guess but I don't know if they told him about shopping and now hes mad because I said no and I have no idea why unless he doesn't know the reason why I said no!What do I do?
thats easy you just go tell him you are sorry for making him mad but you have to go shopping for christmas with your friends and that you had that planned already
maybe you could tell him that you will go with him right after you are done with your shopping or something like that to make it up to him.
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ok well i like this guy we'll call him bob..well bob and i had detention together during skool i had it all day he comes in for lunch..well bob sat n front of me n like kept turnin around n lookin at me and then hed pretend to stretch n then lean back on my desk with his arms on the desk for awhile. then he would talk to this kid brandon and then they started smiling and looked at me. so what im asking is what do you think that means does he like me or is he just doin that because he knows i like him? thanx a bunch ill rate high!
ok im a guy and i know why he is doing this he either wants to mess with you like your head (not your body) or he likes you and prob wants to go out just ask him what he was doing and then idk c what happenes
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ok i have been going out with a girl for quite a while now. we love each other both very much and we know what "love" is...but we have been thinking...about sex. we have already did a couple of things with each other already but other than that we are both still virgins but we are thinking about sex and we are going to go ahead and try it soon possibly even tomorrow or within this week...is this moving too fast...since we know each other and talked it through? and what should i do about this since its our both first time having sex? (we are using protection by the way) thanks for listening
ok dude if you talked it through and as you said you were using protection go ahead and get'er dunnn!!!
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okay.. i like two guys.. we'll call them ricky and nate.. okay.. well.. i went out with ricky and me and him were really close.. okay.. well.. then he went out with my friend.. and then they broke up! well.. me and him have been talking lately and we like each other again.. but him and mai friend who he went out with are really close.. and she says theyre going back out.. but he says theyre not.. but she does lie a lot!! so.. i dont know what to do about that.. and then there is this other guy.. nate.. and me and his "ex" girlfriend have hated each other since 7th grade.. well yeah.. i didnt know they were going out until i was in the hall and he was walking with his arm around me and she bumped me and was like.. "omg.. you slut! you kno im going out with him!!" and he was like.. "omg?? were not going out???" but he said it to her face.. so i dont think he was lying.. but i dont know!! all her and my mutual friends have told me that they are and all of his friends have told mw theyre not.. so.. i like two guys. but im not sure if they have girlfriends.. and dont say to just ask around or ask them.. bacause im getting different nswers from everyone!!!!
ILL RATE!!!!
go for "ricky" he seems like the nice guy and you said he likes you plus "nate" has an evil ex which will prob. mess u up in the long run so take a chance and see what hapenes
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this is for my friend but i'll put in a point of view so its like 1st person so its like her typing it
So i like this guy who is desprate for a girlfriend. He would do just about anything. Anyway I really like him and I want to ask him out. He will say yes just because he is desprate. Do you think this is right? I want something real not a lie. I'll rate (well my friend will but w/e) so thanks.
umm i think you should try to get a liitle bit of background about the guy and see if he is some kind of sick pettifile or like a rapist and talk to his friends if they are cool then you should be ok!!
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ok me and this girl are pretty good friends i mean we've done sleepovers movies went to a bat mitzvah together and went trick or treatin together!! well shes jewish and im not well newayz she recently sent out her invatations.... but im not invited! i mean i thought we were friends after all of that but i guess not! i almost cried but i didnt because i found out at school! but newayz ya! and when i ask her about it she just acts like she doesnt hear me or anything! it makes me so mad bc she invited people she barely knows and then she doesnt invite me! what shud i do!
ok well im jewish and what the firt thing you need to find out is if the other ppl are to
bc i dont think i would invite a nonjewish person to my batmitsfav it just doesnt work out so great any way if thats ot the case and she is just a bitch tell her that you are obviously not her friend and that you just dont like her anymore. that should get her attention.
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I have a friend. We've been bestfriends for 3 years now. Well lately, we haven't been talking to eachother. She found some new friends, as have I. But I mean, once in a while, we'll talk. But, she's become this total slut. Seriously. She'll makeout with any guy (no matter the age). Plus she cheats on her boyfriend. She also tells everyone that she's gotten drunk/high/fingered/given a blowjob/given a handjob/had sex. Which is so not ture! But everyone at school is thinking she's a whore. I know she doesn't do it. But I have a feeling that she might, someday. She's only 12. But, she does all these crazy things with boys. No one likes her anymore.
this girl is obviously not so smart on the way she acts but you need to tell her that if she does things like that that later on all the guys will be presuring her into sex and sexual content plus i have a friend that thought that was cool but she was raped and she aint thinking its so cool now!
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me and my bf have been together for a long time now. we haven't gone very far at all. he loves me and i love him but he is pressuring me into going further. i know for sure i don't want to because im not ready. im 14. i love him tho and i want to make him happy... what do i do? he respects me and everything so its not like he is like DO IT OR I WILL BREAK UP W/ YOU i can just tell he really wants to and he asks me if i will and stuff. sometimes he tries to do stuff and i tell him to stop but he keeps trying. later i talk to him about it and he says he jsut cant help it. ill rate
tell him if he really loves you and respects you as a person that he will listen to you and just back off. also tell him that you are still very young and do not need to lose your virginity or even rush things like "that" at all.you still have a vast future ahead and you need to really respect and truly love a person b4 doing things like that!
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Theres this guy. and hes my close friend and he tells me he likes me and thinks about me alot and loves my eyes.Then he goes out with my friend. But he apologized to me 7347 times and said hes goin out with her for the wrong reasons and that when we were with her the one time that all he could think was me and how he hurt me. And he still tells me he wants to be with me and that he likes me a lot and even told some of his friends he might break up with my "friend" n get with me. But then today on my advice page he asked me a question about her n how he still likes her n how he heard shes gonna break up with him n he doesnt want to ruin the relationship by doin it first if its not true. It hurt to read that and i dont want to ber mad at him because its not in my nature.idk if i should wait for him or should i jus move on?? please help when i ask him about it he says " ur paranoid i like u"
you need to confront him about it tell him that he needs to move on and just get find someone else that he could care about and trust.
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okay so my mom smokes and i hate it.. like all my clothes smell like smoke b/c our house always smells like it and my teachers look at me evilly b/c i smell like smoke but i cant do anything about it do you know any way to either get my mom to stop smoking or to like at least have my house not smell like it all the time?!
umm well my parents smoke there is a thing on tv that actually works to make ppl stop smoking its called "smoke away" or if you just want to get rid of the smell febreeze is great on getting rid of it.
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i'm a 17 yr old male that has a false reputation of being gay. i'm actually metrosexual and almost all the school assumes i'm gay. how can i show my peers that i'm straight without betraying who i am.
go ask some girl out that everyone thinks is hot and cool! duh man get with it and stop sucking those cocks!!
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im 16/f
my parents offerd to by me a car. whats a good 1?
it depends what kind of car you want i guess you could just get like a jeep or something
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