this is for my friend but i'll put in a point of view so its like 1st person so its like her typing it
So i like this guy who is desprate for a girlfriend. He would do just about anything. Anyway I really like him and I want to ask him out. He will say yes just because he is desprate. Do you think this is right? I want something real not a lie. I'll rate (well my friend will but w/e) so thanks.
PerkyPeacock answered Saturday December 11 2004, 1:01 am: honestly, none of us woulda known if you'd missed the first comment... but that's besides the point. tell her to follow her heart. but to be careful that he doesn't use her. or take advantage of her...
Cath answered Friday December 10 2004, 7:36 pm: Hi Sweetie,
No it is not right. If someone is desperate for a boyfriend or a girlfriend they have issues. They are not happy with themselves. And they are immature. You should like a person by getting to know them, and then deciding if you want them to be your boyfriend or girlfriend. Not the other way around. Anyone can do better than a desperate guy for a girlfriend.
Please be careful and take care of yourselves. Like somebody who actually likes you... not somebody who would say yes to you as well as another girl who asked him if he wanted to be her boyfriend. Well my best wishes! ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
xobrianna answered Friday December 10 2004, 6:50 pm: I do not think it's right at all.
Your friend needs to go to someone who actually likes her.
If she goes out with the desprate guy, once he dumps her, she might cry over it?
Which isn't worth it at all. [ xobrianna's advice column | Ask xobrianna A Question ]
Karen answered Friday December 10 2004, 5:57 pm: Nope, I don't think it's right because if a guy is desperate for a girl, that means he only wants a girlfriend and he won't care about you that much! Well that's what I think! Even if you do go out with him, he might break your heart at the end since he only wanted a girlfriend so he can actually say he had one and not even care about her! Do you get what I'm saying lol? Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
tyler666 answered Friday December 10 2004, 5:56 pm: umm i think you should try to get a liitle bit of background about the guy and see if he is some kind of sick pettifile or like a rapist and talk to his friends if they are cool then you should be ok!! [ tyler666's advice column | Ask tyler666 A Question ]
Katiesays answered Friday December 10 2004, 5:51 pm: I think that isn't right unless the guy really likes u. because if a guy is really desperate to get a gril it means he wont really care about u, he will just care that he has a girlfriend. so if ur asking if that is a bad idea yah it is!
hope i helped
**katie** [ Katiesays's advice column | Ask Katiesays A Question ]
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