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Hey I am 16 and that girl that everyone asks for advice. I love helping people out. Ask me anything! =)
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so today my boyfriend came over to my place and wanted to see my myspace. he doesnt have a computer and cant see mine so i showed him it. there were to comments left by two guys both were my cousins friend and i only have talked to them once and he got mad about them. they didnt even say anything bad just\" hey life is good thanks 4 askin..
oh thats cool your coming to our skool i like that trust me your going to have alot of fun there and no im not going to summer skool.
but are you going to summer skool?? \" and the other one said\"hey how you doing? hows things going wich ya it was a pleasure meeting you last time ^_^ hope your doing great! \"
nothin bad but the first thing he said was i knew you talked to guys online and that you cheat on me.
someone please help me out!
Hey your bf is really jealouse, just like mine. But he has no right to tell you who you can or cant talk to. Tell him that those guys are friends and that you have not cheated on him, and that you thought he trusted you enouhgt to know that. But atleast this guy cares about you..maybe a little too much but be happy. Myspace can cause alot of relationship problems, he doesnt have one. And imagine how you would feel if he did and girls where leaving him comments..If you would be ok with that then its ok, but if you wouldnt I think its best you do what me and my bf of 2 years did. None of us have myspace and we are happy about it.
Best of luck to you 2
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ok i am 14 and my ex is 15 i was out of town for like a month so i stop call him because it was longdistance when i came back i was online and i IM him and we talk i told him i love him and i said ok and then he said he met a gurl at a party and she ask he to go out wit her he said yes i was so pissed .now he tells me he wants me and i constantly remind him he has a gurl .i tryed to move on it just did not work .he wants to have sex wit me and i went over his house he was flirting wit me and i had a lot of fun but i really ,truly want him back my question is how do you get someone back you truly love???????
thanks in advance
That was so messed up from him! This is what you should do. Dont pay too much attaintion to him for awhile. Next time he says he wants you, tell him that he had you, and that he couldnt even wait a week for you. Tell him you really loved him(if you have the guts to) and you dont think he feels the same. And that if he did he wouldnt be with this other girl and he has to choose.
You cant be to nice other wise he will use you stay strong and dont let him see that you really want him back
good luck girl
if he acts like a jerk stop talking to him and move on
What is the best way to keep your legs smooth longer? I hate having to shave every so often, and i have to shave since i'm allergic to the like veet and cream things that instantly remove hair and stuff. So ya, how can they stay smoother longer?
WAX!
PAINFULL but worth it. Your legs will be super smooth and last for along tie. Besides that you can have laser hair removal, then your legs will stay smooth for a very..very long time. A year maybe two...maybe even for ever..not likely but maybe
my hamster jimmy just died on father day and today i got a new teddy bear hamster and iv never had one befor and i wanna know how to take care of it i also wanna know how old it is and if it help i have a pic of it on my myspace and myspace.com/alleyx69xlol and no im not trying to show off my myspace i just thought it would help if u no what it looked like i would alot like some websites on teddy bear hamster it would also be nice if you could tell me how to groom them and some websites with lists of foods they can and cant eat
Hello,
well the teddy bear hamster is a Syrian hamster. The care is basically the same as most hamsters this site is really helpfull:
http://www.petco.com/caresheets/small%20animals/HamsterTeddyBear.pdf
Some other sites you might use are:
http://exoticpets.about.com/od/hamsters/p/syrianhams.htm
and
http://www.sunseed.com/artccat46MYIS73.html
how to look sexy in underware if your a 13 year old boy
Well I dont see why you would be concerned about this since you are only 13 and I hope you are not getting yourself into something you are going to regret. Anyway It depeneds what you mean by "sexy". The best thing to do is to workout eat right and be confident. Thats as sexy as every person can get. Also buying the right type of underware mught help. I suggest unless you have the perfect body to stay away from tighty whities, besides boxers are hot =). I am sorry If I am giving you the wrong type of advice but I dont totally understand why you would want to look sexy in your underware if you are only 13.
okay i think every teen probably thinks the same thing at least once...are my parents doing this because "they care" or is it because they know it'll piss me off? (okay maybe not THAT thing but something along the lines of that) recently i was grounded because i took to many pics with my cam and i was talkin to "unknown" people on IM...YES i know its a bad thing! YES i know someone can be all yea im 16 and really be like 45 or something...i know all of this...but im just not scared. im also not one of those people who think oh it'll never happen to me because i very much know it could b me espically when you have....about 92 people on your buddy list that you dont know...only thins is i only talk to about...5-8 of the 92. okay still bad but whatever obviouly i dont care...right?....or do i? but any way only reason why im so mad about not being able to go on the computer any more (except when im doing homework...like im supposed to b now...)is because theres this one person okay two people i DO know who they say they are...person #1 is because i've seen the person on webcam and honestly i dont think you can fake who you are when ur live on a webcam...the other person i have their address and phone number also i've been talkin to that person for 7months so i dont think hes gonna come rape me...or something...and ya these two people i talk to about stuff i cant talk to my mom and dad about its just easier talking to people you dont know and well you become friends and i knoe everyone or mostly everyone thinks that talkin to someone on the net means nothing but you cant say that until you've been there because u CAN develope feelings for people...and now there just bein takin away and i dont know it just kinda pissed me off and i was thinkin about just going and buying a new mouse and keyboard because my parents took that away...so yea am i totally wrong in what i did and should i buy new things for the comp?
I think your parents really do care. And just because you have been talking to this guy online for 7 months doesnt mean anything. There are some real perves out there who spend alot of time talking to girls and becoming there "friends" till they can get there number and adress. And the person on the web cam can seem real nice and be and lets say you guy meet up and one day go to the movies. You never kno if they are some psyco path and you end up killed. You really cant trust anyone 100 percent and honest people who you meet online shouldnt be trusted even 50%. Its ok to talk to them if your bored I guess but not to be giving out any of your info, not even the school you go to. Your not wrong for talking to those people but your parents are just trying to protect you. I suggest talking to your parents about, talking not argueing. Tell them that you know you kind of messed up but you dont see it as such a big deal and would like to have your mouse and keyboard back...uhm just wondering...how did you get to this site without your mouse or keyboard?
ok well i have flab under my arm and i was wondering what can i do to get rid of it and what are some workouts that help the whole body like swimming, and what can i do to tone my inner thighs. plz help im really fat, and i hate it. ill rate 5s
Well you can do push ups or dips. Also you can get weights and bend over a bit with you arms bended at your sides and then straighten them back. As for full body work outs you should really get FitTV if you dont have it they have some great workouts on there, especially Gilads full body work out, you can also buy his tapes. Tae-bo also works well.
When ever my boyfriend and I become "mutually excited", I get really into it for the first hour to 45 minutes but then I just lose interest. This has happened with all of my previous boyfriends. The reason I ask now is that my sudden change in enthusiasm seems to upset my current partner, and I really care about him. What can I do to keep myself from losing interest (this happens no matter how much pleasure i am in)? what is wrong with me?
Thank you
Hmmmm...all I can say is try and have fun with it. Be loud! moan, scream, and laugh. Or add some food or toys or w/e your thing is. Try something new! Buy a kama sutra book and do the crazyiest thing you would be ok with. Maybe your taking your sex life too seriously and it can kind of bore you so have fun with it. Sex should always be fun.
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ok well im a 15/f and my bf is a 16/m. we have been together for over a year now and i know what people are going to say your 15 sex can wait and i know it can. i mean i want to wait until later on in life but yet i sometimes feel like im ready to do it with him.. i mean me and him have talked about it before and he says he thinks hes ready but it all depends on me. i mean i love him to death and never felt this way about a guy before..he tells me he loves me alot and wouldnt make me do anything i wouldnt want to..hes told me that hes never felt this way and wouldnt know what to do if he lost me. but i mean when i say i want to i know for a fact ill chicken out because im so self conscience and like because of pain and possible bleeding. we talked about it last night and like when he wants to and stuff but he told me its up to me. like how do i know if im ready? how bad does it hurt? and like would i bleed alot? like i dont want to screw up and stuff like im scared to do it how do i get over it?
sorry its so long
thanks
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Wow, I went through the same thing!!! My boyfriend was just as nice to me as your bf is to you. We are the lucky ones to find guys like that. And I feared the same things you do. And I would suggest not to do anything until you are sure. You can never go wrong with waiting, but if you rushinto sex you might regret it later. Your never going to get over that nervouseness, but you will know when your ready. Wait until the time is right. When I finally lost it, it didnt hurt at all. The things that you are worried about you shouldnt worry about at all trust me. Everyone is diffrent on how much it will hurt, but it will definatly hurt more if you are all tense. So when you two feel that its the right time try to relax, and dont worry about screwing up, its your first time and you will learn from it.
Im 14, 5foot 7inces and I weigh 130pounds. I have alot of belly fat. I keep lossing weight but not the belly fat. So what should I do to loss the belly fat and some pounds. Thanks. I rate 5s for good advice.
--->Mandy
Well fat is energy stored in your body. Most fat is stored in or stomach and thighs because it can hold more without affecting our balance as much. When you excercise your body needs energy and if you excercise enough it will go and break it down from the fat. Now if you keep losing weight and not from you belly then maybe its because of the type of excericses you are doing or the type of diet you have. If you dont excerise your weight loss could be muscle loss (muscle weighs more than fat) Or if you dont eat alot you motabolism gets slower and your body goes into starvation mode so whatever you eat gets stored at your belly. It really depends on how you are losing weight. Tell me and I will tell you how to burn the fat around your stomach.
If it is you and your partners first time having sex ever, is it even possible for one of you to get an std from the partner?
It is unlikely but you could still get it. Also you never really know if your partner is telling the truth about there first time. Maybe you both could go get tested. But even if your results come out negative there is still a window period that some std's have before showing up on tests. So the truth is you never know. Just pratice safe sex unless you are planning on staying abstinent your whole life. It sounds harsh but its the truth.
Okay. Im 13/f looking for some good excercise tips for over the summer. I need to tone the area around my stomach and my thighs. Any advice anyone? I will rate! Thanks =]
To lose fat do some cardio like running or swimming..or w/e you like to do. To tone up your tummy Pilates work great! For your thighs squats and lunges work really well. Dont froget to stretch before and after your ruitine. Also for any excercise program eating healthy and good portions of food maximize results.
Hope that helped =)
14/f
for the past few weeks i have been getting a brownish discharge on my underwear. i am not on my period right now so i don't think it's that, but what are some possibilities and what can i do?
thanks!
Well that s normal if it is just after your period because you are just getting rid of some extra blood. But if you are no were near getting your period, that could be a sign of infection. Tell your mom and go see a gynecologist.
alright so im (15/f) and all of my friends have done stuff with boys. i havent. is that wierd? i think im just scared because once i find someone i really like i dont wanna be like hey yeah i dont know what the heck im doing! lol soo what should i do.
NO thats not weird at all, and if you find someone and you want to try, then try. It really depends on what stuff your talking about though...But it is not weird at all, I didnt do anything until I was almost 16, some people dont until later. Its totally normal. But if you want to you shouldn't be afraid, just make sure its with a guy you trust and please be safe if you kno what I mean. If you need aditional advice just ask
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I know that this is a weird question, but what exactly is a rim job?
I wasnt sure so I looked it up, but its licking your partners umm butt-hole. yup. It explains it on this site
http://www.pussycatmagazine.com/archives/Octoberissue/sextips1.html
But dont worry theres no pics
ok so i have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has dumped me 4 times and ive dumped him once and it's usually over a stupid fight and a day later he relizes what he's done and ask me to take him back, and i do. So it's summer and we dicided to keep in touch and stay togetasr. He recently got a myspace and is leaving all these girls picutres comments say damnn or cute pie, and gorgeous and stuff like that. I'll admit it i am jelous but should I be mad also. I dont want to confront him that would be way to awkward , i just dont no if i should be mad. Thankyou!
Girl..let me just say this...My boyfriend did the same thing cept he met up with one of the girls and cheated on me with her...
You have to talk to him about it. Ask him why he would be leaving comments like that, if he argues with you tell him "Look I am not trying to get into a big fight, Its just that reading those comments really made me feel bad. I mean would you like me to be leaving guys comments like that?"
Overall I suggest neither of you have a myspace, it just causes problems. I forgave my boyfriend and we both got rid of or myspaces. We have now been together for a year and 8 months and are happy.
If he wont get rid of his myspace and you cant take him leaving those comments, leave him (**FOR GOOD**) before he brakes your heart.
is talking to yourself healthy or is it a sign of a mental illness? Because i talk to myself a lot. is it healthy
I can tell you dont have a mental illness cause if you did chances are you wouldnt think you would...you get me? But in my opinion it is a bad habit so try and cut down on that =P.Even if you did answer your self back and had a conversation or 2 with your self when you are bored it could be normal, but if it really bothers you go see a shrink. I think your ok though.
I really need to lose a couple pounds before the 8th grade formal. I am a 13 year old girl. I have a really flattering dress and its black, but my stomach hangs out...What can I do to lose weight so I look good in it? My formal is on the 16th.
WOOOOOH sry just noticed that today is the 10th, well you can lose some but dont expect a major difference. Here is some advice
Well you need to do some cardio not just sit ups because sit ups will make your muscles stronger but your fat will probably still be there. Burn off some calories by doing something you like everyday. Maybe dancing or bikeing or swimming. If you have a tread mill or something use it. I use something called a superbelt. It wont make you lose fat but make you sweat more around your stomach, so you lose the extra water weight. Buy one of those and use them with your cardio excerises. There cheap I got mine at the dollar store.
Also What is really good to flatten out your tummy, Pilates it really works buy a tape or join a class. ::But dont froget the cardio::
Try eating 6 small meals a day. It boost your motabalism and keeps your blood suger stable. Maybe eat half of what you normally eat in each meal and add some healthy side dishes like fruits or veggies.
Its not going to be easy to change your life style like that but it will really help keep you healthy and looking good, Plus you will have more energy by that time. So try and keep it up even after the formal.
Hope I helped =)
hey i have like dirty blonde hair (and it usually gets blonder in the summer) i've heard that putting lemon juice in your hair and going out into the sun gets it blonder, and i tryied it but it didnt work! i re aplyed a few times too. but i just got a bottle of lemon juice from like kroger, is there a cirtan kind that works better, also i herd that putting like camimile tea or something in your hair makes it blonder.....does that work? any advice on what to do and use?
Hey what you can do which is much easier is to put real lemon juice in a spray bottle and put some conditioner and mix it all up. Spray alot of it in your hair and comb it threw(avoid getting it on your skin) Then blow dry your hair with the heat on high. It works and is lot faster than baking out there in the sun, also you can control how blonde it gets and stop when you reach the right color. The camimile lightend my friends hair but thats because she used a perfume that had camimile in it and she used to put in her hair. It took like 2 years though so yea. Hope I helped
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ok so last month around like may 3rd i got my first period. and it lasted maybe like 5ish days. (but it was only really heavy about 3 days) anyway..about a week past after i got it..and then i got it again! i know that when you first get it, it's irregular, so do you think i will get it this month? i'm just really scared that i don't have it or get it on monday, because i am going to a waterpark with my 8th grade graduating class.if i do happen to get it, (which im really hoping i don't), what should i do? i haven't started using tampons yet. i dont know???? any advice? thank youu.
Well, there is no way to tell so dont worry too much about it. I noticed the more I worry about when my period will show up, the worst it's timing will be. So just be prepared. Take pads or tampons in your purse. You can put on a pad before it starts to prevent any embarasing moments, but I do not recomend putting on a tampon unless you noticed it started or are sure its going to start that day. And if you never tried a tampon take a pad also, some people are uncomfortable with tampons and you will want to have a pad with you just incase.