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Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do? (link)
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If you really love him then you shouldn't care what other people think. You should go out w/ him.
~soccrchick~
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I've had a hamster before (when I was really young) and since have gotten into reptiles a lot, and have snakes and lizards and all that. So I'm pretty used to handling a lot of animals, (and, well, I wouldn't do something idiotic like holding a rodent before handling my snakes.)
I think rats are one of the most intelligent species of animals, and make great pets. I've always loved them, and I'd like to get a young rat. - I'm not sure how to take care of one, though. Are they OK in a regular cage? In a tank? Is taking care of a rat more complicated, or about the same as a hamster? If I do get one, I want it to have a full life. How long do they usually live?
I tried looking info up on these guys but everything was contradictory, depending where I got it from. Thanks for anyone who helps, and please - no comments on rats and snakes being "gross! eww!!!11oneone!!". They're really nice animals and beautiful creatures.
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Owning a rat is like the same as having a hampster, you can keep it in a tank just no wheel and they are very nice pets, but i don't know how long they live. sry
~soccrchick~
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ok so you met this guy and you like fell in love with him and he liked you for awhile but he lives in a different city and you talk to him all the time and you see him occasionally but then he starts liking this other girl who is a slut and your still like in love w/ him and you cant get over him even though you have tried.and then you thought you were finally over him and then you saw him for a weekend and fell for him again and that is what happens everytime you see him. what do i do? (link)
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There are two ways to do this, 1) try not or never to see this guy then you will stop thinking about him 2) When you see him pretend to not seen interested and just think about something else
I hope this works
~soccrchick~
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ok, well....for the basics..I have had sex with 2 different people in my entire life (and to make things worse, they tell people i did it with them like a WHOLE BUNCH!!!) , and now all of this persons friends call me a slut and say im sloppy seconds (because, i am now dating ther friend.)And, Im going to have to go to school with all these people next year...sooo, basically what im asking is how do i get these people to stop calling me names? I rate HIGH!!! please HELP! (link)
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You should tell the people that you had sex w/ to stop telling other people, and then you have to tell everyone who calls you a slut that it isn't any of their bisneuss then they will stop calling you a slut.
~soccrchick~
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hey i need your help i just saw the guy that i lost my virginity too and havent seen for 5 months. He started flirting with me again and told me he never meant the stupid shit he said in the past. He then told me that i could call him whenever i wanted and if he ever hurt me again he would let me kick him where it counts. Then he said he loved me dont call me stupid or anything but i really love this guy. do you think he was just telling me that to get down my pants or somthing please help me i really am confused and it actually hurts realyl bad! (link)
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He may really like you. And you should talk to him first befor you go have sex w/ him or what not. If you really like him then go for it.
~soccrchick~
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I need a way to dump this guy im going out with but like not, its not you, its me thing cuz thats soooo old, anyway..just plz ill rate high if you give me a way to dump him and i just wanna it to be the way it was were we were good friends..but i odnt want it to change when i dump him and i dont want him to hate me!
Thanx in advance
xoxo
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You should tell him that this realationship isn't working out and that you still want to be friends w/ him. Be very nice when you are saying this and then he will understand.
~soccrchick~
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theres a guy, and he keeps on lying to me!! i really want to confront him w/o being mean, but it needs to stop!! I'll rate HIGH for good answers!! (link)
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You should tell him that you like him as a friend, but he needs to stop lying to you. And then say can we start over.
~soccrchick~
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Well I am kinda in a long distance relationship and it is hard because i dont get to see him like everyday. I am only 13 and i am a female and I think he is the one and I love him every much. Do you think this will last forever????? NEED HELP FAST!!!! (link)
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Well, no I don't think it will work, unless you both want it to. You must keep in touch everyday and try not to get bored of him.
~soccrchick~
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(How many times has THIS question been asked?) Okay, my stepmother hates me, or rather, she hates my mother and takes it out on me. Everything I do is wrong to her. Once, my cousin and I were fighting over a pillow, and she tells me to stop pulling on the pillow or I'll rip it, and my cousin didn't get in trouble, even though he hit me several times. She insults my choice of clothing/music/accessories. She once told me my mother cheated on my father, and I know that isn't true. She used to go into my room and go through my stuff. It drives me insane. Does anyone have any advice? (link)
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There are many things to do about this, one way is to tell her that you don't like her and confront her that she doesn't like you and then tell her that you both should just leave each other alone. Another way is to tell your father about this, or tell your mom. Or the last way (i would do this) tell her to get out of your life and that you hate her and thhat she is ruining you life.
~soccrchick~
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Me and this guy are friends right now and I feel we have a close connection since he always seems to want to talk to me. But he has a girlfriend....so tell me please, how do I get him to like me as more than just a friend OR ask me out? Please help it would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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You should first tell him that you like him more then a friend. I know it might be hard to tell him but tell him at the right moment. Then ask how he feels about you. If he says he likes you as a friend then you still should be his friend but try not to get emonital about it.
~soccrchick~
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I would like to ask something. My best friend and I experimented and were both girls and were both 13. We kissed each other, felt on each other and kissed each other's neck. As the days go on after we experimented I haven't had any thoughts about other guys. My friend and I act like were a couple or something. When she goes to her dad's house we miss each other more, I want to hug her and never let her go and we talk about experimenting again like it's just a regular thing to do now. Does that mean we like each other or that were lesbians? (link)
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Yes, it may mean that you are a lesbo, but that isn't bad. You must tell her how you feel about her and then be open to what she has to say. Maybe you guys should have so space from each other and then you will know if you really like her or just as a friend.
~soccrchick~
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Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do??? (link)
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Well, this is a hard one. If you really like him and you can trust him then go for it. But on the otherhand if you don't trust him don't. Just do what you feel is right.
~soccrchick~
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Well, I got into a fight with my friend , shes been my friend since 1st grade. and i'm in 9th grade now. I got into a fight with her because she gave my purse to someone without asking me, and she wouldn't tell the person to give it back. so i said until she gives it back im not talking to you. she started flipping out swearing, calling me fat and ugly and i couldn't get a boyfriend. THEN, i was going to forgive her until she told my other ex-friend marie that i talk about her all the time, and told her everything i said about her (which was true), but i don't think she should do that, i can't trust her or anything . i don't think i can forgive her.. what would u do?! (link)
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Well, you should try to forgive her but then tell her that you didn't like what she did. Then if she does it again then you should dump her as a friend because you will get more, and you don't want a friend that you can't trust.
~soccrchick~
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I didn't know what to put this under. My mom and I want to help out with the tsunami disaster by sending $, but my mom doesn't think it'll help. Like it won't be enough. What do you think? Should we send the money or no?
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Well it is helping a good cause. You should send the money. Just think if your house got washed away. And maybe even worse some of your family and friends died. The money would help. You should send money even if it isn't much, at least you are trying to help.
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okay so here it is. i wanna break up with my boyfriend and its Friday and we go back to school Tuesday. Hes suppose to give me my christmas present at school. Should i break up with him on the phone tonight or tomorrow that way he doesnt have to give me my present or should i break up with him on Tuesday. i need major help my mind is going crazy. (link)
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I woud call him and tell him that you want to break up with him. Before he brings a gift for you because that would only be using him.
~soccrchick~
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i have the habit of bitting my nails. =( i dont want to bit them...but i cant stop! i would do anything to stop bitting them!!! i dont want to bit them anymore and everytime i try to stop i just can't stop myself from bitting them! PLEASE...if you have any ideas on how to stop, please tell me!!! (link)
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I also bite my nails, but I know of a way to stop. You can put bandaids on them or you can, but discusting tasting stuff on your nails so you won't.
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My dog is going on ten (thats like around 70 in human years) he's always been kinda weird but I love him so much. He's on medication because he's a shar pei and has a short attention span and stuff. His meds are kinda like the add medication for dogs. Anyways he also has seizures. He doesn't get them to often but when he does they scare me a lot. To top it all off about a month or two ago he has to have a tumor removed from his left armpit so that he wouldn't die. Recently we've noticed its come back on the other leg. The vet can't do anything about it and he's going to die. I don't know how I'll survive without him. I've known this dog since I was like 4 and can't remember not having him. Please help me to figure out what to do when he is gone. I no I'll miss him a lot. (link)
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keep a pic of ur dog and try 2 get over him or think of the happy time u 2 had 2gether
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ok, i have this boyfriend which i love very much and hes moving to california in 30 days and im thinking about breaking up with him because i think it would be better to not see him b4 he goes so i wont be as devistated s i would be watching him leave in front of me so should i break up with him or not? (link)
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Yes, you should break up w/ him and get over it
~soccrchick~
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