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helllloooooooooo!! i got bored one day and my friend had told me about this site so i thought i should sign up!! so here i am full to bursting with advice for stuff!
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ok so i know this kid name allison and i like her alot shes like super awesome what do i do???
well just marvel in her awesome glory.....ok i can't find you and it makes me sad lol
ok so theres this girl i know named allison and shes really really awesome and i like her alot but she has a bf what should i do???
~wade i mean umm stranger.
ugh...ya know i was so excited about someone asking me a question and you just killed it lol
*sigh* k real answer coming talk to her..duh lol
okay so i have upper abs, but what are ways to get lower abs? cardio & running which i'll do when its warmer but what else? crunches don't work so don't say them haha.. thanks
what i did was i watched a basic pilates video and then combined those crunches with what i was doing. my crunches mostly worked my upper abs but pilates works your lower abs as well. good luck!
15/f
Now I'm not planning to be doing this (so don't worry) but if a girl and a guy are fooling around and undressing, wouldn't it be unattractive for the girl to have obvious tan lines? I was really pale but I recently got a tan from going on vacation, and I think my bikini tan lines look a little weird. It's not like anyone will be seeing me in less than my bikini, but is it worth using sunless tanner to cover it up?
Maybe I just worry to much but I've wondered about this for a while. Thanks for your opinion!
i hope not! i have a tan line from my shorts and shoes from last summer during band marching practices! but odds are that if you're into the fooling around then neither of you will notices the tanlines. i dont think you should use the tanner because you never know if it wil turn some weird shade or something or if it will even look right, so you should prob. just bear the tan lines. good luck!
14/f
alright i play lacrosse, and after practice every day i always get really hungry... or at least i feel like i am. i usually dont have dinner until an hour or two after i get home. but i dont want to keep eating until im full right when i get home because then i cant eat my dinner... or i do and its a problem. i havent quite gotten down the whole snacking without having to be totally full thing yet. haha but are there any types of foods in particular that would be good to hold me over till dinner and that dont require much preparation? and how much should i eat for a snack sized portion of it? thanks
you can either eat som fruit or vegetables or you can go to the store and buy things that are in snack portions like granola bars. there's this one really awesome one i think it's a trail mix bar and it has some nuts and berries in it and one will usually keep me full for awhile.
16/F
105 lbs/5'4"
I recently came out to my family that I've lost 10 pounds in the last two weeks due to not eating and throwing up when I do eat. Now my parents want to send me to an in-patient facility for rehabilitation. I'm really really scared/angry because I think that I can beat this or figure it out myself with a little help from my family...I'm not even that underweight. I feel like this whole thing is ridiculous and I shouldn't have tol them about it. What should I do? I need to convince them otherwise very soon...
i was anorexic and with the help of my friends and bf i was fine by the time my parents found a therapist for me. i really didnt want to go but i did anyway just b/c i didnt want to bring up the subject again with my parents and i was in it for less than a year and i personally saw no change in my behaviour. i think i wouldve been just fine even if i didnt go to therapy. try to deal with it yourself or get your friends to help you overcome it and if you cant then go to the facility. good luck!
I started playing volleyball and im on the team now. My friend (P) made it too and she's with 1 of her best friends. All the other girls on there I really dont even know them...and the problem is they are not friendly. They are nice and friendly to my friend (P) but not me. Im nice to them but alls they do is completely "ignore" me. Its very ah-nnoying. And everytime I go to practice I feel like a loser because not only are they not even talking to me my friend (P), she is getting all the attention because shes so sweet and shes totally leaving me out of it. So I feel like a pathetic loser now everyime I go to practice. Its Like everyone hates me. I love volley ball but I hate everyone on the team. What Should I do about this? Should I quit?
i know how you feel, the same thing happened to me while i took a dance class last year. i had some friends in the class but the rarely talked to me and were like best friends with each other. id dread going to every class but once i got into the routine i loved it and i only stayed in it for the recital at the end of the year. i think you should stay in it since you love it and you dont want to quit and the team wins all there games and you're left sitting there wishing you hadnt quit. good luck!
13|f
ok. so, last night i got realllyyyy bored, so for the first time ever i watched porn. and i realized i am personally ready to have sex right now. and i now none stop think about how i want it. jkas. is this normal. do i really wnat it? am i just thinking that from the porn ?
it is normal...i felt the same way. i knew i was ready to have sex with my bf but when i looked at all the consequences(sp?) (pregnancy, std's, aids,hiv) i realized that i wasnt really ready. it was just a random teenage want of sex. just watever you stop and think about it first, odds are you're not ready yet and it's just and urge you're having.
Hey, sorry if this is in the wrong category, but I wasn't sure what to put it in.
Well, to start things off, I'm very self conscious. I think I am fat & ugly & just not a cool person.
Last night, I was at the pool & I was wearing a bikini. There were two of my guy friends there & one of my girl friends. I started feeling really self-conscious & I sat on the step of the pool [still in the water] hugging my knees. My two guy friends asked my friend what was wrong with me, so she came over & talked to me. They found out that I thought that I was fat & started rambling on about how I wasn't fat & how if I was any skinnier that I'd be anorexic...etc. It helped a bit but I still feel so self-conscious.
Now, for the guys on this site, do ya'll think really confident girls are attractive? or the more humble quiet ones?
& How do i get to feeling better about myself? I hate being the party pooper when it comes to swimming & such. Anyone got any good advice?
I rate high for thought-out answers.
Yea I know exactly how you feel. Except I didn't tell anyone about it and I actually became anorexic. I told my bf and one of my friends and I did feel better but still fat+ugly...But know I feel better because know I'm eating healthier and going to the gym. What I really recomend is dancing. I try to dance every night in my room for about 30 minutes. And Im trying to teach myself bellydancing and what happened to me was I thought I would never let anyone see me dance and I avoided the mirror at ALL costs but I tried dancing in front of the mirror...and it was just wow...all thoughts of me being fat just vanished and the only thing I thought about was the music...Just whatever you do..don't develop and eating disorder because soon enough it's all you can think about and it sort of takes control of you and it's horrible. Good luck!
"hope i helped"
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How can you decrease the redness in your eye if you have pink eye?
when i had pink eye i went to the doctor and he gave me and antibiotic and a steriod drop. and with the combo of the two the redness went away in a few days. but go to the doctor first and keep in mind pink eye w/o anitbiotic treatment is contagious!! good luck!
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ok.. well i like this guy and he is morman, im christian , and well i was wondering what i can do or not do around him and what the differences are?
thanks
well im baptist and my best friend is morman and i dont have to act any different around her. just do the obvisous and dont say anything bad about them or anything about how some mormans are polygamysists(sp?) and you should be fine. good luck!
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is Dihydrogen Monoxide living,non-living,or dead?
di means 2 and mono means 1
so its H2O..water
Hi, my name is Jenna. I'm only twelve but I really need some good advice. I think you can help me. There's this boy at school I really like but he has a girlfriend. I really want to let him know how I feel but I'm afraid to tell him. I give hints to him but he just doesn't get it. What do you think I should do? If you could help me I would greatly appreciate it! Thank you sooo much!!!
Sincerely,
Jenna
Hmm...wellll...is he really into his gf? If you still want to try to give him hints then maybe try to make the hints more noticable. Or, you can always try the failproof plan, ask one of your friends to tell him that you like hime. That way, you dont have to worry about embarrassing yourself in front of him but hes still going to find out. Or if you get a blast of courage you can tell him yourself. good luck!
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okay i am in a new relationship with this guy that i have known for about half a year and we work together and we just started dating, officialy. wed been on a few dates before and all but anyways i was just wondering i know us girls seem to think about guys like crazy! haha but i was just wondering do guys think about us girls as much as we think about them? im just curious if he ever thinks of me too. lol. i know i sound dumb haha but opinions are great. question is do guys think about their girls as much as we think about them?
well lol i also always think about my bf. and several of my friends have told me that my bf talks about me constantly. so that makes me kinda think that yea they do think about us lot
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i love my bf. alot. but you see the other day we got in a fight because this other guy was at my house. alden * my bf * thought he was over there to see me but he was over here cause my brother invited him over. later he apolizged and said he was sorry. i did too. i dont think he is really okay with it though. if he thought i was doing something with him, does he trust me or not?? i told him that he needs to trust me but he didn't say anything. HELP!
The truth is, all guys are insecure. They are really just like us, they need to be told that they're loved. He's just jealous cause he really loves you. I'm sure he trusts you but was just a little upset because he just got a little jealous. Maybe you should try to plan something where the two of you can spend the day together and show him how much you love him and that you'd never do anything to try and hurt him. good luck!
"hope i helped"
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everyone says that if you've been dating over 5 months you should have sex. i've been dating my bf for 7. no i dont want to have sex right now at this age. but my mom says she hopes/wants me to have sex AFTER or WHEN im married. i dont know if i can wait that long. but i dont want my mom not to trust me and get mad at me. help!! please!
Okay first off....forget what everyone else says! It's your decision. Yes, it's actually something you should discuss with your bf first, but only when YOU'RE READY!! In my opion you should wait until your married. But you shouldn't even think about having sex with him until you're sure you're ready to. If your mom gets upset you should tell her that it's your life and you really think you made the right decision. good luck!
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There is a young man I really like, who is also a good friend of mine. He likes this other female who is, really, the ideal girl. Even though she rejected him, he still wants her. I know I can't compete with someone like her, but still, how can I gain his attention (without being a whore, that is)?
one thing to do is if hes ever upset about something, be there for him. doing that will let him know that you'll always be there for him. now onto the fun stuff! always smile!! and when he tells a joke, no matter how stupid it is, laugh! and also wearing makeup might get him to notice you more if you dont wear it all that much. and just drop subtle hints that your interested in him. ifs hes smart, he'll notice. good luck!
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Ok,
I have a boyfriend BUT the thing is that I am not allowed to have one. I don't know how long my relationship will last before my mom and dad find out...but I really like the guy. If I tell them I have a bf they will freak out...I really don't know what to do! PLEASE help!
(14/f)
yep. got that problem too! im 13/f and ive been going out with my bf for a little over 2 months now. i didnt tell my parents. well, i told my mom but only because she asked. what id advise doing is probably keeping it a secret unless your POSITIVE that your parents wouldnt try to break you up or wouldnt completely and totally freakout. thats what my plan was/is and things have been working out fine. good luck!
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13/m
ok so i've been trying to ask this one girl out at school, but i just can't work up the courage to ask her. . . . i thought about aim or email, but she doesn't have either, so i have to ask her in person, and i'm kind of a coward when it comes to this stuff. . .
thnx
just go up to her and say "will you go out with me?" if she says yes then congrats to you!! happy dating! if she says no then you can always still be friends, which means that there might still be a chance for you. she might start liking you if she knew how you really felt. and odds are shes probably been waiting for you to ask her out. good luck!
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~*skippy_pebbles*~
I love knowing that my boyfriend is caring and trusting but I can't help but feel like I need to watch him. I know he likes me and doesn't want to be with anyone else, but I can help checking the comments he gets from other girls on Myspace or how he looks at other girls. I know its pretty normal for any girl to do that. When he doesn't message me (when he's online) I get nervous that he thinks I'm insane or something. Yet I know that he probably isn't paying attention to the screen, is busy, etc. I've never been like this with any of my other boyfriends and he makes me nervous/intimidated, (In a good way) because he's exactly the type of guy I've always wanted. I just don't want to lose him but I know inside he likes me a lot. How can I deal with these somewhat jealous feelings I get when he talks with other girls and understand he likes me not them? Sorry if that sounded conceited, I'll rate.
i know EXACTLY how you feel..if my bfs online and hes not talking to me i get upset and really sad cause im talking to my BFF and shes talking about the things my bfs talking to her about usually its about my BFF's boyfriend. but knowing that hes talking to her and not me really hurts. but i just keep telling myself that im the only one he loves. and when you get a message your just so happy, ya know? but if you start feeling really jealus or upset then maybe you should try talking to him about it. but just keep thinking of how much MORE he likes you than all those other girls!
"hope i helped"
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