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ok. so, last night i got realllyyyy bored, so for the first time ever i watched porn. and i realized i am personally ready to have sex right now. and i now none stop think about how i want it. jkas. is this normal. do i really wnat it? am i just thinking that from the porn ?
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Well i know this was submitted a while back but i do have advice for this. Lol. Well your reaction is very normal. However you didnt really think it through. The conciquences the benifits everything! Now my opnion is as long as you are mature and ready then it doesnt matter what age you are. When I was around your age i was very mature and i did do sexual stuff. But thats the thing, everyone is different. I dont personally know you but you could be a very mature 13 year old. Being ready emotionally is sometimes very hard to be. You should know what you are doing in life and who you really are. You could be ready but im not really sure because i do not know you personally. Just look deep down inside your self think long and hard about this, then, maybe you will realize what your real opnion on this is. Remember to think about whether its right not just that you want it. Now make the right decision please. If you do decide that you are mature enough to handle this big event then make sure you do it with someone you are in love with and use protection!
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it is normal...i felt the same way. i knew i was ready to have sex with my bf but when i looked at all the consequences(sp?) (pregnancy, std's, aids,hiv) i realized that i wasnt really ready. it was just a random teenage want of sex. just watever you stop and think about it first, odds are you're not ready yet and it's just and urge you're having.
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its extemley normal to want sex while your at that age and after... just control your emotions and dont do anything stupid or something that you would regret later
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It's very normal for you to feel the way you do. That doesn't mean that you are ready though. Physically ready, yes of course you're ready, but sex is much more than that. There is a huge emotional load and tons of consequences that come with it that you aren't ready to handle. I'm not ready for it and I'm almost 21, not to mention I've been engaged for a year. Don't get me wrong, you're not a horrible, terrible, immature person if you have sex when you're a teen. Most people lose their virginity in their teens. The real question is, how many of them realize that hey, they really weren't ready at all and now wish that they had waited? The answer is a lot. Bad things can and will happen to you if you're not careful, sometimes even if you are. Remember, sex is primarily about reproduction. Why risk so much when you can feel just as good without intercourse? If you don't have a boyfriend explore your own body. If you do, experiement with sex acts other than intercourse. You're horny just like every other teenager. Think with your head and don't make a decision for unnecessary, short term pleasure like so many teenage moms and dads have done. Take a look at this website and reevaluate if you're ready or not. There is a lot of really good information if you browse around the site, too. Good luck!
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Keep something very firmly in mind: PORN IS NOT SEX.
Porn is idealized. It is fantasy. It has just as much to do with actual sex as Indiana Jones has to do with archeology.
In porn, there are no consequences, no emotional entanglements, no accidental pregnancies, and no STDs.. No one in a porn movie cares if she is labeled a slut or a whore. No one suffers any pain (unless they are totally willing), and even then there are no permanent scars, either emotional or physical. Every sexual encounter in a porn movie is done without a second thought, and everyone is always perfectly happy about it afterwards. There are never, ever any regrets.
It's a lie. Or, to be more charitable about it, it's a performance, It is certainly NOT reality.
Do NOT base your decisions based on this kind of source material! Understand that reality and fantasy will clash, and reality wins every time. If you rush into sex, you WILL have regrets. At the age of 13, you are not ready in any sense - emotionally, physically, or legally.
However, your reaction is perfectly normal. That is what these movies are designed to do: make people want to have sex. And you probably do genuinely want it, but you are NOT ready for it. You are ready for the FANTASY. The reality, you will find, is much different. Whether it is better or worse depends on many things, including how old you are, who you do it with, and for what reasons.
Here's the one lesson you should take from a porn movie: Everyone in them is over 18 years old.
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You're 13. There is NO WAY in HELL you're ready for sex. You're young. You might be ready physically, but mentally & emotionally? It's impossible. You just had feelings from watching the porn. You won't be ready for sex for a long time.
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Porn is usually nothing like the real deal. When you watched the porn, it turned you on. Most likely you masturbated, or at least wanted to. This may make you feel like your ready to have sex, but truth be told, watching a movie won't help you make a decision on such a major topic such as this. When I was your age, I used to say I was ready to have sex all the time, but I really wasn't. Just wait it out, and you'll most likey realize you aren't ready to have sex. What you're feeling is normal.
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Hey,
It's normal for people your age to go through that kind of stuff. You're definitely not ready! There's too many consequences for such a silly action! It's just from the porn.
PS: what does "jkas" mean? haha.
-Jam
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