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So, I'm a sixteen year old girl, and I live in Ontario, Canada. I LOVE giving out advice. All my friends come to me for advice because:-I tell them the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
-I don't sugarcoat things. If your relationship is doomed, I'll tell you. I won't say "just talk to him" or stuff like that.
-I don't judge. Well, I do judge a little bit, but who doesn't. But, you can tell me you just had sex with 309573458346934584357 different people, and I'll still love you none the less.
-I'm just a normal person, and I probably go through the same everyday crap that the rest of you go through.
So yeah, feel free to drop me a line. As far as I know, I've never screwed someone over with my advice!
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Okay, I'm 14 years old, a male, and I am a homosexual FYI. I lived with my mom until her drug problems escaladed and I had to move with my grandparents. During that time, I became friends with this guy who I am friends with but am totally not attracted to whatsoever. I stayed there for a few months and we signed up for summer P.E. together and everything was going good. Then, I moved with my mom again and I became friends with this other guy who I am totally attracted to and I guess that kinda boosts his personality. I ended up blowing my other friend off and dropped out of summer P.E. to be with the guy I like/love or whatever. Is it bad I kinda ditched my best friend even though its my life and I should be able to do what I want and if this other guy makes me happy that should be the only thing that matters right? Anyways, my summer P.E. friend calls and says I blew him off to be with Ronnie and smoke drugs which isn't entirely false and he hangs up on me. Is it bad that I did this and what should I do now. Also, remember its too late to sign back up for summer P.E. and its also nice to know my summer P.E. friend is a republican and doesn't know I'm gay or anything like that. Please help me out of this bind.
Well, ditching your best friend like that was a shitty thing to do, he might have only signed up for that PE course because he knew you were going to. But fact of the matter is you do have to do what YOU feel is right, and you want to do with your life. Although you should probably apoligize to this friend of yours and try to find some way to make it up to him. Hard feelings are never good, and they may come back to bite you in the ass someday.
Good luck!
To be blunt about the situation, I want this guy and I feel threatened. I hang out with this guy and this other guy and I feel that I'm in competition with the other guy for this guy. Is there anyway to seal my victory even if that be for something bad or misfortunate to happen to the other guy? Give me your advice. Oh and Im not going to kill him if thats what it sound like lol.
Hm, someone sounds a little insecure. Either that or you're greedy and what this boy all to yourself... but hey, who can blame you? I can't honestly say I haven't felt that way every now and then.
What you should do is make this guy realize what a great person who are, do something for him so he can see what an awesome friend you are, then he may become more interested in you.
If you start dating, he'll naturally want to start hanging out with you more than his friend. But if you don't like his friends, I don't think you should get involved with him, as it will just lead to fighting and whatnot.
How exactly is being anorexic bad for you? People has said that if you're anorexic your body loses all these nutrients but what are the actual like 'symptoms' you get if you're anorexic. Besides dizzyness and fatigue.
Thanks I'll rate 5 for any decent answers!
Anorexia is bad for you because people are supposed to eat. You need nutrients to get through the day. You need food to live. Plus, who wants to weigh 90 pounds? Some peope have come close to death because of being anorexic, it's just not natural.
well one of my really good friends has this notebook that she writes all her feelings in I guess its a way to get rid of her stress..but anywayz i read it last night and it talked about getting raped and why did it have to happen to her and stuff..well i asked her if it was true and she didn't answer me i kept asking her but she said she didn't want to talk she cuts and I can't get her to stop..how can I get her to open up so I can help her? i dont want her to hurt herself more than she already has! Plz help! Sincerely, *Concerned*
It's good to see that you're a concerned friend, but you shouldn't have read her journal. That must have really hurt her because she may have been about to open up some more.
So, since you've seemed to have gone a couple steps backwards, you might be able to get her to open up some more by telling her things you don't tell anyone, this way, she'll feel like she's you're confidant, and then she may feel the same way about you.
Good luck!
I'm 16...I recently applied for a part time job at tescos, my local store is recruiting because they're extending the store. It would be handy to work there because it's fairly close to where I live and it's a big store and the kind of working environment I'd prefer... anyway my friend also applied there at the same time as me and her application got accepted and she now has a place there. I got rejected :( I know she had very open hours written on my form whereas I cut off weekend evenings and some weekday evenings (which when I applied I couldn't actually work because I had other commitments) but now my weekend evenings are free and I was wondering if it would be wise to reapply? Or should I just find somewhere else? I would really like to get a part time job here but do you think they might have my name listed somewhere and... boot me off or something lol... I reckon my hours are the reason my application was rejected. There was also some questionaire thing that could have been the problem but I'm confussed, should I go back to the recruitment office and explain to them my hours are better would it be possible for me to reapply or just reapply or leave it?
Any help would be greatly appreciated =)!
Definatly reapply. Keep on putting your resume in until they accept you. You gotta be super persistant with this kind of thing. Drop your application/resume in once or twice a month and every now and then go in and ask to speak with a manager and ask about the status of your application. Don't let them forget about you. If you're fresh in their mind, they'll remember you next time it comes around to hiring again.
Good luck!
By the by, I know it's hard being aggressive with resumes and stuff, but it's the only way to get yourself out there.
does anyone know a good exercise for getting rid of love handles? i'll rate ya high!!
Chop em off.
Ok so my boy friend and I were making out one day when he suggested sex, I said i didnt think I wasnt ready! and he got really pissed off and his face turned red and his head was shaking you could see his veins! He started cursing at me and called me the c word! I started crying and begged him to stop because he was scaring me! He slapped me and forced my shirt and bra off, i was pushing him away and then he took off my pants and underwear he started licking me evry where, I tryed to get him off but he wouldnt stop. The next day he left 26 messages on my cell phone saying that he was drunk and he was sorry! I love him half to death but I dont know what I should think of him! Please please Help!
GET RID OF HIM!!!
This guy is serious band news, being drunk is NO EXCUSE WHATSOEVER for him to do that to you. You may "love him half to death" but you shouldn't have to put yourself through that. If you need help I'm sure there's a sexual assualt clinic that will be more than happy to help you.
I wish you good luck. Feel free to leave me questions in my inbox.
I'm scared, i dont know what to do. Should i involve myself into sexual intercourse? Theres this boy, and i've known him for four years.. He has been t here for me through everything. I recently dropped the highschool scene and went for cyberschool.. It was all because of some friends that wern'et being so friendly... And out of all people he dumped his girlfriend because of me and took my side on it. My bestfriend was his girlfriend. I sorta felt bad about it... But then he told me all the stuff she did to him and how she hurt him. She had cheated on him... and she admitted it to us. He has been there through everyhting... We talk all the time and we are each others best friend. We want to take that further but not sex... When it does come up though... Whhich could be at any given time... How should i react? Should i just give it up? I'm scared because i wouldn't know how to telll my mom... Me and her are sooo open with eachother and i tell her EVERYTHING. but what happens when i lose my virginity and need to go to the gyno? We're gonna hangout at his place this Thursday and i get to meet his family... They are soo nice to me on the phone... hope they are in person to... wish me luck...
Please help.
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Before you put yourself in the situation where sex may happen, make sure he knows where you stand and how far you'll go. I think that if you were ready for sex, you wouldn't worry about it so much, so you might want to wait a while. And if you're so open with your mom, she'll more than likely understand. If this isn't the case though, you might want to get someone else to take you to the gyno. I tell my mom almost everything, but I leave some details out. It's normal, she shouldn't expect you to tell her ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING.
good luck.
How do I get people at school to see the real me? Everybody judges me except for my friends. I love listening to hip hop and rap and people are give me a weird look when I tell them I just got the new 50 cent CD or whatever. They also drop there jaws when I cuss. They say, "Wow..I never knew you cussed! I thought that was against your religion or something!" Just because I'm a christian doesn't mean I try to be perfect or anything...I am just like everybody else. And people also think that I am really reserved and I'm not AT ALL! I'm very gregarious and open..at least when I'm around my friends. They see the real me but most people just judge me. What can I do so that people won't be so judgemental? I was thinking that maybe it would help if I was a little more talkative at school w/ people who aren't necessarily my friends so people can see my other side. It just really pisses me off when people judge me this way!
I'm guessing you're either in high school, or you're in middle school, either way, you shouldn't pay too much attention of what people think. The only thing that's important is what people you care about think of you. Otherwise, do what you want and be yourself. Ten years from now it really won't matter.
one of my best friends ever is friends w/ my enemy ((lets call her sam))! no one in our skewl likes sam except for my friend because she lies, shes a slut nd a bitch!! its one thing when youre excluded w/ yur bbf! its another when the person who took yur place is your enemy! wut can i do? how can i make her understand?
Now, now, namecalling is not the answer.
what shows on broadway in new york city do you recommend besides the lion king? (already saw it)
Rent was excellent! I also hear Spammalot is great.
Ok, my girlfriend is pregnant and she's really worried about it. We're both 19 and this wasn't planned or anything. We talked about it for a long time and we both agreed that we want to keep it. Her parents disowned her when she was 18 becasue she started to see me, because she was raised catholic and I'm not catholic. I felt that was rediculous because I have nothing against catholics and I was willing to join the church if it meant I could be with her but she decided that she didn't want that...anyway her parents won't be helping us with her pregnancy and with the baby so we're on our own. (my mother is dead and I've never met my father) I know that she's going to be going through a lot with her pregnancy and I was wondering if anyone knew how I could help her get through with a little more ease. I'm working two jobs one full time and the other part time so I'm not around that much. But is there anything that I can do to be of any help to her or is there anything that I should look out for? I was also wondering about taking care of baby. If anyone has any tips about taking care of baby that would be a big help as well. Thank you for the advice and I will rate a five for any help.
Tim
Dear Tim,
It's great to see guys like you who actually care and are willing to do whatever it takes. It's refreshing, really. Now, anyways, on to your problem. I would have to say that although money is a very important thing in this day and age, and the only way to make it is with your jobs, you're still going to have to be around. It will be hard, and your girlfriend will probably be upset that you're not around as much as she'd like. I'm sure in the end she's going to appreciate everything that you've done so far, because it sounds like you're a mature, responsible young man. I'm sure there's many agencies that deal with this sort of nature, so, if you call up the Planned Parenthood, I'm sure they might have a name or two for you.
Goodluck!
-Siobhan
ok there is this contest titled "does free speech really matter?" and the requirement is to make a movie,documentary, music video, etc that is 4 minutes or less. any ideas on what i can do??
i've recently been really into making funny videos with my friends..that is why im so interested in this contest. over the summer we are planning on going to NYC for the day... i was thinking doing a documentary in NYC and in it i try voicing my opinions or something?? i need some help with ideas as you can see lol ...so any suggestions are welcome
You shouldn't be asking us, because then you aren't rightfully winning the contest. It seems to me like you have no belief in free speech, and therefore should not even think of entering this contest.
As for the movie script contest, are we going to get any royalties? No? I didn't think so. Be creative, sweetie.
okay so ive been goin out with this guy for like 2 months and we're both 14. i really like him alot and i want to invite him over to my house. but i dont know how to keep him entertained... because its not like i can have him in my bedroom because my parents will b home. what can we do? i never had a boy over to my house before so im kinda new at all this. please help me quick. and i dont want some things like play board games... cuz thats lame... or do alot of people do that with their boyfriends and girlfriends?
Just chill out on the couch and watch some movies and eat junk food.
Do you guys think it's okay to think that no matter what you do to me, if you apologize and are sincere about it, I will forgive you. That's how I've always been. I just feel that it take courage to apologize to someone after you've hurt them and if you do do it then you are truly sorry. I know sometimes people just throw around the "I'm sorry's" but most don't. Everyone makes mistakes (I know I do) and they need to be forgiven. What do you guys think of that?
I'm normally able to forgive someone just by putting myself in their shoes, and trying to think about what I would have done if I was in their situation, because, I figure that if I would have done it, I would really hate it if someone didn't forgive me for doing something was may have just been my natural reaction.
All my friends are very touchy-feely sort of people, we always hug each other loads and don't mind being close, both guys and girls. I really like this guy, but due to some unfortunate and complicated circumstances he is ignoring me (I haven't done anything wrong).
But the thing is, he is still the same with all his other friends, and I get very very jealous whenever I see him hugging his female friends, or walking with them in a two.
How can I stop myself being jealous? I don't have a claim over this guy, and I feel so upset whenever I see him like this now because I really do like him.
(It wasn't so long ago - a few weeks - that he liked me. But I didn't like him like that then, and now that I do...I haven't told him this yet but anyway...).
The jealousy is killing me!
Just talk to the guy, if he's mad at you in a way that he's giving you the cold shoulder, that means he probably still has some feelings for you. You should let him know how you feel about him, and he should come around.
Good luck!
ok... i like this guy but i cant say his name, so ill call him MR. BIGGLESWORTH.....and he is dating one of my friends...and the other day my best frined told him i liked him alot and that i was practically in love with him(and i am but that wasnt the way id hoped he'd find out)and he didnt say anything but that copuld have been because his gf was right there idk.....but i really want to go out with and i want him to go out with me to...........on wednsday of last week we were in lunch and he sits about 3 tables over from mine.......and he kept callin my name and when i would look over to him he'd cover his eyes like he was playing peek-a-boo with me and he kept doing it.....then i went to his table to arm wrestle him and he kept letting me win and then finally he plaid for real and he said that if he won that we had to do stuff but he was joking........then i went to go back to my table and he wouldnt let me leave without giving him a hug...........and when he gave me a hug he touched my butt...i know that sounds bad but he only did that when he liked me.......i just want to ask that from what i just wrote....do you think he still likes me or not?i rate good if your answer is good
He may like you, but he has a girlfriend. I'd stay away from him, as, if you tried to take things any furthur, his girlfriend would get pissed and may try to start something.
(17, f)This summer I am going to babysit my ten-year-old cousin, because she doesn't want to go to the local daycare. She lives far away, not so far away that I can't do the job, but far away enough that I only usually see her twice a year. My problem is that I can't stop thinking of her as a little kid. That's just how it is my mind, for some reason. I want to treat her like she's more mature, but still somebody I am responsible for. How would I do that?
When you talk to her, talk to her as if she's one of your friends (but don't swear or talk about "innapropriate things" that you would normally talk about. Figure out what she's like, and ten year old girls are generally a bit more mature than ten year old boys, so she shouldn't be too much trouble. She probably just wants someone to layback and watch some tv and movies with. You probably won't get the vision of her as a little kid out of your head until you start babysitting her and realize that she isn't a little one.
ok so im homeschooled... and next year i'll be going into 9th grade. I'm still deciding if i should keep homeschooling or go back to public. All my fiends want me to go back. I want to too but then i have two places i wanna be at.. I love being homeschooled and all but i feel like im missing the socializing... so im not sure which i should go to...
what do you think?
plz help i needa know!
i rate
By being homeschooled, your missing out on some of the big things that happen to teenagers. Being in high school really matures you, and you learn a lot of life lessons that you more than likely wouldn't learn by being homeschooled.
Ok sorry that this is long but please don't pass over it I really need help.
My parents aren't divorced but they both cheat on each other they basically both get with anything that moves of the opposite sex. My dad is always drunk and is very abusive. My mom isn't physically abusive but she just tells me that I'm a waste of life and that she wishes she never had me and that I'm such a huge mistake and bla, bla, bla but her boyfriend Tom hits me all the time and even rapes me sometimes. I've gone to the police before and they took my parents side because to everyone else they look like such nice people. But at night they're druggies and alcoholics. I even went to social sevices they put me in a home for a week where I started cutting and then they put me right back with them! Lately I met a guy who uses drugs and I've been going out with him. And we were using and did some things and now I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do. He was arrested for possesion so I can't go to him. I can't go to my parents. I really don't have any friends who aren't stoners and all they care about is how they're going to get their next fix. I don't know what to do. I've already tried killing myself and it didn't work. I'm soo scared I don't know what to do. I was going to run away but I know that I'll just end up somewhere where there's drugs and I'm really trying to stop. What can I do about all of this? Please help me
Oh my.
I really don't know what to say. You have to get help for yourself and your unborn baby. To get this help, you should find some sort of counselling programme within your city. They'll more than likely have the right people and resources to help you through this terrible time in your life.
If you ever need anyone to talk, my email is in my advice column.
I wish you luck.