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Ok I started this advice site to help out others. My friends say I give good advice but they could just be saying that to be nice lol. Tell me what you think by rating me (1-5, 1 l worst, 5 best). Good or bad, your rate will be appreciated!! Thank you!!
About Me
Basically I'm 13 and i love to draw, swim, play volleyball and soccer, dance, sing, and hang out with friends. i love collecting purses haha, i have this huge purse collection in the back of my closet, most of them i never even use lol. i also like the shop and travel. i make madprofiles and i LOVE movies haha. i pretty much like anything non-academic related lol..god i'm so glad summer's started. anyways that's pretty much all about me!!
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I think you have to be an advicenators member..i'm not really sure, so you have to ask me a question and when you log onto your username, under My Questions, you see my response and you are given the choice to rate it from 1-5. I think that's about it, cyass!
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Hey . Well I have a boyfriend and we have been datin for a month , one week , and 4 days . But we go to different schools ( different countys ) but next year I MITE go to that county along with my sister whos already been in those schools for 2 years . but my sister has told me that he likes someone else who goes to those schools . =\ I said I was goin to ask him about her but she said that will only make me look like im jealous . And I am . I dont know why though I dont know her but I am cuz I dont want to date someone who likes someone else . =( .. what should I do ?!
Thanx Alot !
Miss Confused // Jealous
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you are his girlfriend after all, so you should feel jealous. it's perfectly normal for girls to feel that way. you should ask him about the girl, think about it-if you don't, you'll just spend all your time worrying and wondering about her. ask him. and just because you're going out with someone doesn't automatically mean that you can't like anyone else. as long as your guy doesn't actually DO anything with the girl, that should be alright. maybe it's just a little puppy crush, you know, the one that's absolutely harmless. the only way you can find out is when you move to his county and "observe". it's your choice and if he likes her, you can dump him for someone else who'll like you and ONLY you. but remember, it's normal for you to be jealous k? good luck!! :)
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heyy i was trying to rate you but it wouldnt let me so i just thought i would just tell you on here. I think you give the best advice and if you didnt have this site i would be lost you are such a great and caring person and im soo glad you do this i rate you a 5 on all of them =) (link)
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aww thank you!! haha well you basically go under "your questions" and see the question and underneath you can rate me...yeah i think you already knew that but JUST IN CASE lol. that was really sweet lol well thanks again :)
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hello ms. shortiebebe. my name is Suneil Raghvan. I am kind of concerned about my life since everyone around me says im a little weird. I think its not weird for a guy like me to love the colour pink and me to only hang around girls and cry everytime i get a 90 and under on a test or quiz. I am a very sophisticated and elegant young man from the very rich country of India. India might not be really rich in real life but in my dreams and justice of peace i think it's rich and very pretty and hott. My question is "what does sexy mean" this girl names Aya asked me a question called "Do u think ur sexy its a poll" i thought she meant its a pole. i became very low blood pressured and i fainted. What does sexy mean? Is it appropriate? Tell me! thank you. I pray and support your future and past family and generations and ancestors! (link)
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wow that was a very interesting...lol. maybe the reason people think you're weird is because you act sort of gay, not that it's a bad thing but liking pink and all lol yeahh.. plus 90 an below isn't necessarily bad but whatever. anyways sexy means like having a sex appeal to the oppisote sex (or same, whatever), or in other words-hot, attractive, good-looking, gorgeous, beautiful, etc... i don't know, it may not be appropriate, you may get very low blood pressure and faint again. hopefully it won't pass on to your future generations of family. good luck! :)
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Hey .. i really need your advice .. these 2 girls im not qonna mention there names but today i qot on the computer and the one was like sayinq my hair always looks bad and stuff and that i have no friends and she never really was my friend to beqin with and that she used me on the field trip , i just dont know what to do anymore .. there like ruining my life !! .. And shes like i quess you dont qot any friends if you have to hanq out with your cousins .. but trust me i have friends i can name so many but i aint qoinq to .. i kno a lot of people that think shes a ____ .. Please help me .. !! i dont know what to do anymore .. Signed - MiiSz Confusued !! (link)
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she's a bitch, ignore her. she's purposely trying to do this to you to low your self-esteem. you have tons of friends and you know it, so that girl is not even worth your time. next time they say something bad to you, just ignore them, because they obviously don't tell you the truth. on the computer, just block them or don't reply but in real life, whenever she talks to you, try to make it as short as possible or walk away. she's rude to you so why can't you be rude back? it's not like you're physically fighting back or anything. plus most people think she's a ______ so that says a lot about her. if you don't ignore them, they'll just ruin your life even more, and i know it's going to be hard to do that but it's at least worth a try. ignoring them makes them think you're "boring" and bullies usually only bully people who actually get emotional about it. hope i helped..good luck! :)
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im 14 and a girl. I have a brother who failed a few times but he is 17. I have a tendency to date older guys. Right now i like this guy Chris and he told me that he liked me too. but there are 2 problems. he is 16 and he is my brothers friend. I dont kno weither or not to give him a chance or like put his life in danger. my brother is very protective and crazy. + i dont go to school with Chris till next year. what should i do??
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it's fine for a 14 year old to date someone who's 16. that's actually pretty normal. but maybe you could talk to your brother ahead of time, just possibly warn him. if he's extremely against you going out with him, tell him it's not fair because you both like each other and if he still won't let you, maybe you and chris could date in secret. some people date secretly so you could try that with him. it really is unfair if your brother is keeping chris away from you, so you can do it without him knowing if you wanted to. or you could wait a while, you can't have much of a relationship with chris yet really, but next year you can because you'll go to his same school. good luck!! :)
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ok so um my grandpa raped me and im pregnant what should i do get an abortion or not? (link)
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wtf you got raped by your grandpa!!?? dude that is so sick..it's up to you like your baby is going to be really weird, like it's dad is pretty much it's great grandpa and omg maybe you could or not i don't know it's up to you but i'd set it up for adoption so you won't kill a life.
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okay...i got invited to this really slutty girls party from school she had all these REALLY HOT guys there. they all got sooo drunk and one asked me if i wanted to give him a blow job, i said yes and did it. he told everyone at school and my mom found out and she wont let me go out anymore and is planning to kill the guy i did it to, well not really but his mom relly gave him a really bad punishment and im so upset and still have the taste of penis in my mouth!! what should i do? signed i need a new toothbrush (link)
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avoid the guy because you're obviously disturbed by this, plus he's a huge jerk by telling EVERYONE about this. as for you, don't give random guys you don't even know blow jobs, that's a totally slutty thing to do. the guy shouldn't have told anyone, so it's his fault he got punished by his mom. my only advice really is to just try to forget about it all and make sure you don't do something like this again. good luck!! :)
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sappy acorn is sooooooooo cool!!
she gives the best advice on advicenators and anywhere else =] id be screwed without her ! (link)
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aww thank youu!! :) that was really sweet lol. it's no problem at all haha especially since its summer so i have like all the time in the world... well thanks again babes =)
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ok so my grandpa called me fat so.. i went to a party and got drunk and got pregnet to prove him wrong because i couldnt stand it now i dont know how to face my mom with this i think she is going to kill me especially wen she finds out i did it because my grandpa called me fat and on top of that how do i tell my grandpa it is all his fault?? and i am 12 years old
-- fattie bo battie ( i felt like rhyming sorry)
thanks so much i really need the help and QUICK (link)
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right if your grandpa called you fat then why the heck did you get yourself pregnant? that's just going to make you fatter..it's called diets and exercise hun. making him think ur fat just b/c you're pregnant doesn't work. and just tell her it was your grandpa's fault but i don't know if you can convince her because what you did was very weird and stupid. i don't know, just tell your grandpa is was his fault by calling you fat. that was pretty funny though, i liked the fattie bo battie part. good luck!! :)
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Hey..I really need your advice on something..im going out with this amazing boy and he makes me so happy and hes so sweet!! But his friend is kind of sendin me some mixed messages. He touches me sometimes and I never know what to do.My boyfriend does not know about it and I dont plan on telling him because its not like I try to stop his friend. Could you please tell me what I should do?! Thank you I appreciate it. (link)
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Do you actually like his friend? from the way you put it, it seems that you like your boyfriend a lot, but you seem to also like his friend a bit right? it seems as if you like your boyfriend more though, and you wouldn't want to lose him. next time his friend starts like touching you, tell him to STOP, no matter how much you want to do whatever with him. or you could try avoiding his friend. if your boyfriend finds this out somehow, he'll be really hurt so you might as well try to stop it now. if you can't totally avoid his friend, try being with the friend around lots of people. he'll only make moves on you in private so stay in the public. unless you actually like his friend more than your actual boyfriend, that's basically what you should do. good luck!! :)
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ok i am 16 and my boy friend and i have been going for 3 years // we havent broken up a single time =) (thank god) ok and the other night we were just laying around holding eachother watching "closer" ([ not really watching it thou ]) and all my friends have been sayin "dont have sex yet!! it is to mature" but i am not trying to brag but im the most mature outta all of my friends ... but brant and i decided to have sex and it was beautiful i feel soooo much closer to him now than ever we havent done it again and we used protection but my question is what happens if my friends find out and if they will like flip out and ditch me ?? what sould i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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if your friends ditch you just because of that, they're not "real" friends. it was your decision, they shouldn't be able to control your choices. discuss with brant NOT to tell anyone, because it's sort of a personal thing. except that possibly may not work because guys tend to like to brag about these things sometimes, or just won't understand why you don't want him to tell. if your friends find out and ditch you, then explain to them how it was your choice and you loved him enough to lose your virginity to him, and they can't control what your decisions are. tell them you're sorry that you went against what they said but still. if they still ditch you, there isn't much you can do really except make new friends who won't ditch you for doing something you wanted to do. like just be really personal about this situation and hope for the best that your friends won't find out. good luck!! :)
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is taking diet pills safe? or risky? is it like taking drugs? because i dont want to do that ! (link)
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i'm not really sure, i've never taken diet pills before. i'm sure they're okay but you should probably ask your doctor or someone. sorry i couldn't help :(
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OMG!! u give the best advice ever!! u rock!!
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aww thank you lol..anytime :)
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im 13 and im going out with this really great guy, mike. there are a couple of problems with this relationship, though. first of all, he is my best friend's ex boyfriend. they broke up a few weeks ago and she claims she is totally over him. she even likes another guy. but since i have been going out with mike, people have been asking her arent you mad at melissa (me) for going out with mike (her ex boyfriend) and though she says no, i still feel bad! also, all of mike's friends hate me. i really don't know why, but they have always picked on me and say stupid stuff and sometimes even harrased me. now, they're all on him for going out with me, and i feel extremely bad. he says that it doesn't bother him, and he'd rather go out with me then have some of them as friends, but i know he's kind of lieing. i have told his friends not to be on him about it if im the one they hate, but they obviously dont listen. do you think i should break up with him for all of these reasons? or what should i do to fix the situation? (link)
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that's horrible, you shouldn't let them get to your head but you have to consider how your friend and boyfriend feel about this. i don't think you should worry about your friend that much, it seems almost 100% sure that she doesn't like him anymore. but your boyfriend...that could be a problem. i still don't think you should break up with him because of this, it might hurt him. even if he was sort of lying, that still means he cares about you since he even took the effort to make you feel better. maybe you could talk to him about the relationship being sort of a secret, so the guys won't pick on him anymore. and to fix the situation, ask your friend what she really feels about this, in a serious tone so she knows you mean business. she needs to be honest, and that should probably put that case behind. about your boyfriend, try your best to ignore those bitches, they have no life. as for your boyfriend, you need to ask him about all this and have him tell the truth. tell him you MIGHT consider breaking up with him since it's real tough on him, but don't actually break up with him. good luck! :)
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ok...im 14 i went out with this guy for like 4-5 months...he said i was the only girl he told that he loved n we had problems but we sooo loved each other...n then over spring break we didnt see each other that much n i went places n people told him that i flirted w/ other guys-which i didnt...so we broke up n like not even a month later my best friend likes him! the one who i went crying to when we had a fight or whatever n she goes out w/ him!...she still is n i know he still likes me but really likes her-im still in love w/ him and he is always flirting w/ me when we're in social studies(he sits behind me)n today i was turned around n we were like joking around n stuff n hes wrote down i love you....not n then he was like well maybe i dont know...under his breath n i was like ok n i wrote down i heart you...not n i was like your too mean to be loved(i was joking around) n yeah...i dont know what to do...tell him how to feel...and i dont know how to tell him or what to say..help me please!
p.s.-me n my friend(the one w/ the boi) got in a fight over him but now were friends...they always hug n kiss right in front of me..what should i do???
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i think you should tell him how you feel, even if your friend is going out with him. it seems pretty obvious that he still hasn't gotten over you. you could say that you haven't stopped liking him since you broke up and all that. after you tell him that, he might confess to you his true feelings too. don't hook up with him, he'd be cheating on you with your friend. if she found that out, you could probably say goodbye to your friendship. and your friend *and the guy* shouldn't KISS in front of you really, your friend and he knows you still like him so thats sort of offensive (they do know..right?). if you hang out with them all the time, yeah they'll have to eventually kiss themselves in front of you but that's still not ALWAYS. next time they do that, all you can do is try your best to ignore, no matter how hard it is. maybe you could try hanging out with only one of them at a time, so you won't have to see them kissing. good luck!! :)
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Hey this is the girl Shayna who asjed about Trey, Trent, Logan, and Matt.. well I have gone out with all 4 of them before. I just didnt write that me and Matt had gone out. But we;ve tried going out like 5 times, but ntohign to serious.. ugh idk it was kinda just me and him joking around. But me and Logan have gone out twice. (i said we were each others first loves so we would kinda gotta go out :-p) But idk.. soo okay i just wanted to say that.. lol. (link)
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oh lol haha sorry i'm not a very good reader. ok thanks for telling me that and making it clear. hope my advice helped :) cyass x33
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I just started tanning and ive gone a couple times. The other day i went with my mom nd she told me to keep my bra on cuz its not safe to go in with out. Is that true because i didnt think you could get breast cancer or any thing from tanning i thought it only caused skin cancer.
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yeah you can get breast cancer from tanning, and skin cancer too. i'm not really sure how..i sort of blanked out on this part i biology class lol. ask someone who's like actually smart. or maybe your mom just doesn't want guys to check you out. haha good luck! :)
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Okay I was going out with this kid Trent who was a year younger than me, so I'm in 7th grade and he was in 6th. Im in the Junior High school and hes still in the Elemtary. Okay so guys in my shcool think im "hott" so like Trent thought I was gonna cheat on him? so he dumped me. Ugh what ever. So then I went out with his friend Trey. Hah Trey and Trent. Anyways, so me and Trey went out for like 4 days, and then Trey dumped me cause hes like "Trents my best friend and he loves you and it's not rright going out with you" so UGH!! And then this kid Logan who I've liked for like a year, wlel me and logan we're each other first loves, so like we still like each other.. hah slutty i know. So like Logan dumped his gf cause he said he'd been thinking a lot about me and wanted to go out? And so yeah i wicked wanna go out with Logan, but i still have mixed feelings for Trey and Trent and idk what the helll ta do!! PLUS to make matters worse.. I just found out my best friend, Matt, likes me!! And he's moving nect door to me.. And like when Me and Matt first met he liked me but i didnt like him.. He liked me for a whoel month and i didnt like him. So then when he finally relised I didnt like him, he didnt liek me anymore. Then as wierd as this sounds.. i stared liking him. But then i kinda stopped and idk.. and so now he likes me and idk if i like him? Plus the fact hes gonna be my new nextdoor neighbor.. ugh please help.
-Shayna.. oh and im 13 (link)
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i think you should go out with logan, because trent and trey already dumped you so you may not get another chance to go out with them anytime soon. and as for matt, you haven't even made up your mind whether you like him or not. plus you really want to go out with logan too. even if matt was your next door neighbor, that doesn't mean you HAVE to go out with him. you'll see him more often but if you break up and have a hard time, it'll be real hard to ignore him. just try dating logan and see how it goes. if you realize that you do have feelings for matt after all, decide who you'd rather date: matt or logan? and if somehow out of nowhere, trent or trey ask you out again..uhh yeah once again decide who you'd rather go out with. i'd actually choose logan or matt because you never even went out with them before. good luck!! :)
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okay...well there is this guy i like..sorta its more of a 'he is SO hot' kinda thing nd he likes me too...but he has a girlfriend...Both of his parents are gone ((passed away)) so he's living with his girlfriend. He alwasy complains about her and it is SOOO obvious that he is just using her for a place to stay...i know that we cannot be a couple cause of that, but he is so hot...lOl i dont want to sound like a whore...but i really want to screw him, and he's made many moves on me. I dont know if i should go along with it though... or not Because he has a girlfriend... wut should i do?
xO hOrny hUnny Ox (link)
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well you could go along with it because he obviously doesn't even like his girlfriend. but it is wrong on the other hand, so ask him if they are going out at all. maybe he could break up with her but still live with her? nah probably not. the right thing would be to not make a move with him because that'd be cheating. plus you're risking him losing his home, and you don't want that to happen. maybe you could still hook up a bit but don't get too far, because the consequences are pretty high. and make sure his "girlfriend" never finds out about this lol. i don't really think you should screw him..like not all the way because what if you get pregnant and his girlfriend finds out and kicks him out and yeahh... sorry rambling on lol. so i'd just say that you shouldn't go too far with him mainly because he's not really "single" but at the same time not "dating" anyone either.. well good luck! :)
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me and my frends caitlin , Ti-Ti, and me( of coures) i liked Ti-Ti's brother and then he asks caitlin out and so they start like going out and then like when she sleeps over Ti-Ti's house she has sex with Ti-Ti's brother when Ti-Ti falls asleep now they have been broken up for like 1 month now and yesterday me and caitlin where at Ti-Ti's house and then caitlin starts talking to Ti-Ti's brother and then me and Ti-Ti go up stairs and there down stairs alone then i come down stairs and see then under the covers then i rap the covers off and Ti-Ti's brother is on top of her with his boxers on and she has no pants on or no under wear and i think he was like butt fukking her but idk and Ti-Ti never new the stuff that they did only i did and then yesterday i had to tell her everything and now what wood you do to your best friend if she did that to your brother and they had sex and they butt fukked and your best friend kept it from you and kept lieing to you bout it??
~ the friend that cares!
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are you asking me what Ti-TI should do to caitlin? well uhh buttfucking your best friend's brother can definitely ruin a friendship. like did Ti-Ti even know they were going out? i think you said that caitlin kept lying to her about it...Ti-Ti deserves to be mad because her best friend lied to her A LOT and went behind her back. i think Ti-Ti will probably never look at her brother or caitlin the same way ever again. i mean, imagine your brother and best friend having sex...ugh. i seriously feel sorry for the poor girl, it must be real hard on her. i don't really get what you're asking though, like how can you save the friendship or was it a good idea for you to tell her? sorry make it clear to me lol i'm just stupid..anyways good luck! :)
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