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ok i am 16 and my boy friend and i have been going for 3 years // we havent broken up a single time =) (thank god) ok and the other night we were just laying around holding eachother watching "closer" ([ not really watching it thou ]) and all my friends have been sayin "dont have sex yet!! it is to mature" but i am not trying to brag but im the most mature outta all of my friends ... but brant and i decided to have sex and it was beautiful i feel soooo much closer to him now than ever we havent done it again and we used protection but my question is what happens if my friends find out and if they will like flip out and ditch me ?? what sould i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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if your friends ditch you just because of that, they're not "real" friends. it was your decision, they shouldn't be able to control your choices. discuss with brant NOT to tell anyone, because it's sort of a personal thing. except that possibly may not work because guys tend to like to brag about these things sometimes, or just won't understand why you don't want him to tell. if your friends find out and ditch you, then explain to them how it was your choice and you loved him enough to lose your virginity to him, and they can't control what your decisions are. tell them you're sorry that you went against what they said but still. if they still ditch you, there isn't much you can do really except make new friends who won't ditch you for doing something you wanted to do. like just be really personal about this situation and hope for the best that your friends won't find out. good luck!! :)
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