ok...im 14 i went out with this guy for like 4-5 months...he said i was the only girl he told that he loved n we had problems but we sooo loved each other...n then over spring break we didnt see each other that much n i went places n people told him that i flirted w/ other guys-which i didnt...so we broke up n like not even a month later my best friend likes him! the one who i went crying to when we had a fight or whatever n she goes out w/ him!...she still is n i know he still likes me but really likes her-im still in love w/ him and he is always flirting w/ me when we're in social studies(he sits behind me)n today i was turned around n we were like joking around n stuff n hes wrote down i love you....not n then he was like well maybe i dont know...under his breath n i was like ok n i wrote down i heart you...not n i was like your too mean to be loved(i was joking around) n yeah...i dont know what to do...tell him how to feel...and i dont know how to tell him or what to say..help me please!
p.s.-me n my friend(the one w/ the boi) got in a fight over him but now were friends...they always hug n kiss right in front of me..what should i do???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? shortiebebe021 answered Friday May 27 2005, 9:40 pm: i think you should tell him how you feel, even if your friend is going out with him. it seems pretty obvious that he still hasn't gotten over you. you could say that you haven't stopped liking him since you broke up and all that. after you tell him that, he might confess to you his true feelings too. don't hook up with him, he'd be cheating on you with your friend. if she found that out, you could probably say goodbye to your friendship. and your friend *and the guy* shouldn't KISS in front of you really, your friend and he knows you still like him so thats sort of offensive (they do know..right?). if you hang out with them all the time, yeah they'll have to eventually kiss themselves in front of you but that's still not ALWAYS. next time they do that, all you can do is try your best to ignore, no matter how hard it is. maybe you could try hanging out with only one of them at a time, so you won't have to see them kissing. good luck!! :) [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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