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really great guy - really bad friend problems

Question Posted Saturday May 28 2005, 2:39 pm

im 13 and im going out with this really great guy, mike. there are a couple of problems with this relationship, though. first of all, he is my best friend's ex boyfriend. they broke up a few weeks ago and she claims she is totally over him. she even likes another guy. but since i have been going out with mike, people have been asking her arent you mad at melissa (me) for going out with mike (her ex boyfriend) and though she says no, i still feel bad! also, all of mike's friends hate me. i really don't know why, but they have always picked on me and say stupid stuff and sometimes even harrased me. now, they're all on him for going out with me, and i feel extremely bad. he says that it doesn't bother him, and he'd rather go out with me then have some of them as friends, but i know he's kind of lieing. i have told his friends not to be on him about it if im the one they hate, but they obviously dont listen. do you think i should break up with him for all of these reasons? or what should i do to fix the situation?

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shortiebebe021 answered Saturday May 28 2005, 7:55 pm:
that's horrible, you shouldn't let them get to your head but you have to consider how your friend and boyfriend feel about this. i don't think you should worry about your friend that much, it seems almost 100% sure that she doesn't like him anymore. but your boyfriend...that could be a problem. i still don't think you should break up with him because of this, it might hurt him. even if he was sort of lying, that still means he cares about you since he even took the effort to make you feel better. maybe you could talk to him about the relationship being sort of a secret, so the guys won't pick on him anymore. and to fix the situation, ask your friend what she really feels about this, in a serious tone so she knows you mean business. she needs to be honest, and that should probably put that case behind. about your boyfriend, try your best to ignore those bitches, they have no life. as for your boyfriend, you need to ask him about all this and have him tell the truth. tell him you MIGHT consider breaking up with him since it's real tough on him, but don't actually break up with him. good luck! :)

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