Im a guy who has experienced a lot of things in his short life, ask away if i can help, i will.
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Last Update: April 19, 2006
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i just got a tampon in for 1st time. but it wont go in all the way, like a little less than half is out. also it hurts a tiny bit to walk and to sit straight up. i have to sit forever in school tomorrow. what to do? please help quickly and thanks!
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Im no expert or anything...however my mother prevented my sisters from using tampoons until they were old enough...Another suggestion that would most definetely help you out with your problem, is to use maxi pads. no pain there.
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well.... a few weeks ago i was scared and frightened that i got a STD cuz i had some itching and buring in my vagina .....later my boyfriend told me that his mom was a nurse and somtimes it itches cuz of fricktion and not enough lubrication... it only burns at night ...sometimes in the afternoon and right when i wake up.... ....can this be c caused by not enough lubrication or was he lying?....if it is caused by not enough lubrication how do i help to ease the pain alittle? (link)
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I cant believe your skanky, dirty no good self gave me a 1 for telling the truth. Good thing i dont give a rats ass bout ratings...stop hoeing yourself
Sometimes in life people need to do a bit of thinking before they do things that later on they may regret. Perfect example here, I dont know how old you are and frankly i dont care, what bugs me is the stupidity of the matter(im not trying to insult anybody). The way I see it, if people want to become sexually active, I believe that a litle research prior to the "big night" should occur, and its obvious by the number of questions asked on a daily basis here that most of these people playing adult games have not researched enough. Like the old saying goes, "you play with fire, your bound to get burned." Learn your lessons litle boys and girls, in this day and age stupidity and ignorance will get you killed. Get with it.
ps. on a side note, friction would be bothersome at all times, however a yeast infection would do the itching part...good luck with that. Next time be smart and use a rubber.
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In fifth grade, my first year at the school I made a friend...lets call her friend1. We were not best friends, we did homework and went over to our houses and stuff but we didnt sleep over. We also lived close. Then, in the middle of the school year, i met someone that lived closer to me. And we did sleepovers, homework, and projects together. Lets call her friend2. Well, in sixth grade, friend1 got a little mad at me becuase i didnt go over to her house as much and i was spending more time at friend2's house. Also, whenever i went over to friend2's house i felt like i was leaving my bros and sises alone. What should i do? I dont want my friends or family to get mad at me.
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Well, I believe that people have a right to live their own life. As far as your friends, why not try to get friend 1 and friend 2 together and maybe they will become friends and the three of you can start hanging out. This is really the only choice you have as far as keeping everybody happy is concerned. If friend 1 and friend 2 dont become friends, you will be forced to choose between them both, if thats the case, go with the one you feel is a better friend and you like hanging out with the most.
Your brothers and your sisters need to understand that you have a life of your own, therefore, they need to know that from time to time you will hang out with other people...just tell them you love them, and try to hang out with them whenever possible, and everything will work out.
Good luck, i hope i helped.
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ok so...
me and my boyfreind hang out a lot and well its always awkward like after hes done fingering me or something like that...like i dont know what to say or what to do or everything like that. soo does any one have any pointers? (link)
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Just tell him you enjoyed it, and as far as what to do after, make sure you please him too, it wouldent be fair for him if he got nothig out of it. Bj if you want or just a hand job, us guys like handjobs just as much.
PS. stop feeling awkard, the fact that he has seen and touched your lower parts, indicates that you feel comfortable with him, so stop sweating it, if you have nothing to say dont say anything, believe he wont feel bad if you dont say anything.
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I just got my car serviced and they told me that I needed to replace my brakes, front and back. I asked them how much it would cost and they told me about 450 dollars. Well that is a lot of money for me because I only work part time and I rent an appartment. Does anyone know if they are trying to rip me off or is this the normal price that they charge to replace brakes? (link)
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It depends on the kinda car you have. $450 is way too much money, unfortunately that is the kinda price a lot of shops will try to rip you off for. My advice to you is to go your local car part store, Im not sure where you from, in Canada, its Canadian tire, and in the states i believe its auto Zone. Either way, go to one of this stores or look around and you can find set of brakes from like $30 dollars. Ask one of your friends or acquanintances, Im sure somebody knows how to do the brakes. You could also buy a book that shows you had to do all this kinda repairs to your car on your own. There is no reason why you should have to pay more than $150 for new brakes and labour. Be smart and shop around.
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i am like terrified to see touch or suck my boyfriends penis what should i do? am i weird? (link)
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Nothing wrong with you, Ive had girlfriends with the similar problem, where we date for a year have sex and everything but she will not suck me off. Maybe you just arent used to it and feel nervous around it. If you really like this guy and want to, i guess you could try to blow him, and eventually experience will alow you to feel comfortable. On the other hand if you do not want to suck him off, dont. If he loves you he will understand, and if he talks shit about this, the more reson not to suck him and dump him.
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i'm ugly, but i want 2 be pretty. i don't think I'M boy material. some people say i'm pretty, BUT i'm NOT attractive i'm afro american. i have short hair, dark skinned 5"5 and skinny. i want to be attractive how do i do that? i know there's ways like making myself in2 some slut. like TIGHT tank top or VISIBLE thong but i want to be original not fake! how am i going to do this??? please help (link)
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Wow never mind what i said, by the looks of things maybe there isent beauty in you period. I get a 2 for trying? good thing i dont give a shit bout ratings, just thought it was kinda rude and uncalled for, but whatever.
Ive said it before, and i will say it again. You need to do some deep soul searching, once you do that you will realize that you are beautiful in every way. The first thing to do is to stop disrespecting your self with your bad self steem. Look in the mirror and try to count the number of things that make you pretty, and after you realize that it amounts to a shit load you will see what im talking about. Beauty is on the eye of the beholder, in this case you first need to see yourself for who you are, see how beautiful you are. Once this is accomplished i gaurantee you will look beautiful to the rest of the world.
BTW no need for tight hochie gear..be yourself
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yeah, i know... i really regreted it.. and i'm really sad and mad at the same time, i shouldn't do that.. he has a gf and i don't want the same thing to happen to me.. i do believe in karma that's whay i don't do things that will hurt feelings of other people, but i dunno what the hell came into my mind to do things like this.. I really want to forget it but i don't know how... (link)
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No need to beat yourself over the head because of this. Shit happens, we aint all perfect. Just next time try to think with your head and not your clitoris. pardon my language, i know im nobody to be talking to you like this, but the way i see it, you asked so i must answer.
But like I said, dont even sweat any of this, everybody makes mistakes, however, what makes a great person is accepting a mistake was made, and learning from it.
Good luck
PS. im sure you are a good girl that just got a litle bit carried away.
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can people give me ideas for valentines day? i need to get my bf something but dont know what.. any answer in better then none( not dumbass answers) 5's for all who try. (link)
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Your age would have definetely been very helpfull. Now as a guy i can tell you that for myself there is nothing better than spending the whole day with my girlfriend doing romantic things. As far as presents(this is were the age would have been a big help)One time my gf rented a hotel room with a jacuzzi, when i came in there she was naked in bed with roses all over the place, we made love all night. That was the best present ever. If you are not sexually active, stay that way and buy him cologne and a dozen roses.
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I'm 18 year old and a tourism student.. I met this guy who's the same course as me when we went on tour last week. He's really flirtatious, he has a girlfriend but he still flirted with my bestfriend because he thought that i'm snobbish.. But we talk with each other once in a while.. But at the end of the tour, he sat beside me on the bus.. He slept on my lap, held my hands etc. He started flirting with me.. He didn't mind that the friends of his girlfriend were also there.. Foolish of me, I flirted back.. I gave him my number.. After few hours, he called me and picked me up in my house to go to his house.. That's the time he told me that i'm the one he likes, but he first flirted with my bestfriend because she already smiled at him but I didn't.. I mean, why should i smile with him? I didn't even know him.. We drank some beers, and because i was tired because of the tour, i just slept in his house.. And we had sex..(i just know him 4 3 days before we did it)
Yeah i'm stupid because at the first place, he has a gf, we don't love each other but i do like him because he was sweet.. On the next day, i visited him in his house and it happened again.. He told me not to go there without telling him because maybe his gf is also there. My friend told me that he likes me the way he treated me and he protects me.. like he holds my hand, he holds me when we needed to cross the street, feed me, and something like that.. That made me really like him..
But, when we saw each other at school again after like 2 days, he ignored me.. I don't know what to think.. He didn't even came to me, he just smiled a bit, that's all.. What should i think now? He doesn't call me anymore.. Did he realized that he really love his gf or he just wanted me for sex? (link)
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Damn how naive can you possibly be?
The fact that you slept this guy after knowing him for 4 days leads me to believe that you are used to being treated this way. I dont mean to be rude but holy shit, where in all of this, did common sense step in?. Lets see, he has a girlfriend, flirted with your friend, and then had sex with you. Girls like you make it easier for guys like me and obviously the one that made a fool out of you to satisfy our dirty selfs. Did you honestly think he liked you?. The dude had a girlfriend, i mean come on that should have been your very first clue that he was a no good son of a bitch looking for an easy pece of ass..Lucky for him, he knew just were to look. Its kinda sad when i hear or see girls alowing themselves to be used and degraded, damn woman you make it so easy for the guys.
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I believe in abstinence, which is not having sex until you are married. I was just wondering how many guys would dump a girl who wouldnt have sex with him if they were going out? Guys tell me if you would dump me. (link)
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Some guys are assholes and expect to get sex. I myself love a girl who is clean and knows how to say no. I dated my girlfriend for over a year before we got sexualy involved. I was her first and we had sex only when she felt she wanted to lose her virginity with me, not once did i demand things that i knew of the bat she wasent interested in.
If a guy dumps you because you wont sleep with him..than that tells you that he wasent worth it, and u are better off.
Take it from me, guys will love and respect you more if you wait.
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I stayed over my friends house one weekend and her brother is my bestfriends boyfriend. That night me and him stayed up and hung out and played around (like hittin eachother with stuff and pushin eachother of the bed) and he said 'You know what? Dont tell Cjay(my bestfriend) this but I think I'm starting to like you. I didn't like him before he said that and I started to like him.And they are the type of couple that break up everynight and get back together sooner or later, and this was a night they broke up.Then we stayed up all night watching movies and playing around and holding hands and stuff, nothing bad. But Cjay found out and she told me to stay away from her for however long. Her b.f told me that he ment that he liked me, and not to worry b/c he'll fix everything. I don't want my best friend to hate me, but I like her b.f....Idk wat to do.... (link)
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These is one of those moral dilemas. But honestly whats the matter with you girl? The golden rule must never be broken, its a vicious cycle that follows if the rule is broken.
Never ever, and i mean ever date a friends ex boyfriend. I know that deep inside you you are hoping for a romeo and juliet kinda scenario, you feel like he really likes you, and in your mind you believe that you like him. Fast forward 3 months where you guys brake up for whatever reason, there wont be a cjay to help you get through the hard times.
In reality, only you know how close of a friend cjay is, just remember that real friends dont come and go, they remain for ever. There is millions of dudes that you can fall for, so stop fantasising about cjays guy and save your friendship, in the end she is the one you can count on.
It is a know fact that the average relationship doesnt last longer than 3 months, the average friendship lasts years...you do the math.
The answer to your problem is not as hard as you think it is.
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ok, im asking the guys on this one bc i want a guys point of view but the girls can answer this one if they want. well there's this guy and i liek him alot. he flirts with me all the time but he has a girlfriend. he'll like put his arm around me and stuff some days and then some days he completely ignores me and im so sick and tired of this and i just wanna know what hes doing and ugh im just really hurt!! please let me know thx guys (link)
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Well my friend, its obvious the guy really wants nothing more than to get his ego/confidence up. The fact that you let him flirt with you when you know he has a woman, kinda tells him that you would be willing to "get" with him if the opportunity came..He likes you, however, not the way you are hoping he likes you. Trust me i know what im talking about, ive done it in the past, it gives me a thrill to know that even though i have a girlfriend, i still got my player skills. Dont mean to sound rude or nothing but girl you need to stop feeling hurt over this no good dude, pay no attention to him, stop flirting with his ass, and get yourself a boy who is willing and interested in you, for you. Shit tell his girlfriend if you must, he will leave you alone
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Okay, y'all...I am a fellow advicenator. I am just wondering why advicenators who have NEVER had sex or don't know what the hell the are talking about are answering sex questions. These people actually might just TAKE your advice...at least learn about what you're answering before you hit submit. Oh yeah, and for all of you who think wearing TWO condoms is cool...you are so wrong. (link)
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Im a guy with a girlfriend, i also have had sex thousands of times with her, not to mention the sex ive had with other girls in the past, as a matter of fact i had sex like 2 hours ago, and i will most likely have sex later on tonight. The point of my story is that people have the right to say whatever they feel like saying, same goes for answering questions based on theory not practice. With the anounts of sexual experience i possess, i still dont know everything there is to know about sex and women, so if somebody else wants to give it a shot and try to answer something let them. If you dont like reading it, dont. I mean damn i just wasted my time reading and answering your player hating question. It is kinda obvious that you are one of these "people" who took somebody elses sexual advice to heart and made a mistake...im sorry my friend but next time use common sense.
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Today at school something really sad-mean happened to a friend of mine and we were all talking and thinking about stuff and we were wondering....
Why are guys such jerks towards fat girls?
and why don't they liek to date chubby girls? how come they only like to date girls who are sticks with a drawn on face?
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Im a pretty good looking guy who has dated all kinds of girls, never a extremely fat girl because the opportunity has never appeared. I can honestly say(not stereotyping, its just in my case) that I had the most fun with the chubby ones, they are great in bed, and most of the times, they are not stuck up, and they always keep it real. I love my chubby girls, like the saying says " more cushion for the pushing.
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Ok well there is this girl who told me she loved me but she broke up with me like 2 weeks ago then made out with her other friend that she liked the next day. I was wondering she does love me again and stuff and i love her but i dont kno wut to do. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you.
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Probably not the kinda answer you wanna hear, but the way i see it, she is playing around without really sitting back and realizing that she is hurting people while playing this evil game of hers. My advice to you, is walk away as soon as possible, I,ve been through situations like these before, and believe girls like this always end up hurting guys with good intentions like us.
In other words this chick is trashy, and you best believe that if you stay with her there will be the same kinda issues over and over.
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I like this guy a real lot where when i think of him it seems like I escape from reality. Well a few weeks ago 2 of my friends told him that I like him and he told them that I'm just a really cool friend. well ever since then he has been hanging around me more, talking to me more, making jokes, and helping me when I've had problems. My friend says that he's been spending a lot more time with me than he used to and it does seem that way. all i want to know is what he really thinks. can anyone help me? (link)
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No idea as to what exactly he is thinking, however as a guy myself, i can tell you that he is obviously interested in you, hence the hanging out and beign helpfull to you...He might be kinda shy to make the first move, so its totally up to you.
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hella huge problem... i have a bf. no one knows about it. we decided to keep it low. super low. but my best friend and her bf want me to date this guy that is really cool. i like him. and my bf. and then there is a freshman, that i like. but want to get to know a lil bit better. i dont know what to do. all three guys like me. but i dont know what to do. can anyone help me
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Dang this is definetely a hard question..you could maybe start by thinking of reasons as to why you like each one of the three. If its a phisical thing, i suggest you dont get involved with it, follow your feelings, think of who makes you feel the best and why. Im sure you will figure it out on your own, just make sure you dont hurt the people around you with your decision.
Sorry if i dident help..i tried
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im a girl 14 in 8th grade and im 215 pounds and 5"8 and im ugly wht should i do i have and ab lounger but i can resist junk food i always try to go on a diet is they're any way for me to stop craving fat food because i relly wanna be pretty for my semi formal and summer 2006 (link)
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First thing that you must do, is stop putting yourself down, just because you arent 115 pounds does not in anyway make you ugly.
In my opinion, self love and respect can help you achieve anything and everything. So starting tomorrow, look at yourself in the mirror and list the number of things and reasons that make you beautiful. Do this and reduce your junk food habit, thrown in some exercise, and I guarantee you that with time you will feel beautiful just like you should.
Ive also heard of people loosing quite a bit of weight by mantaining a protein diet, and avoiding all sugars.
I hope I helped
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One day, lets just say "Bob", he wrote me a note saying 'hey, and somehow we got into a sexual conversation. He was asking me ?'s such as, who did you make out with and did you ever give head? Later that week, we started talking online alot. We started liking each other. While all this happening, he had a long term girlfriend, although they broke up about 9 or 10 times. They broke up about 2 weeks ago, and have stayed broken up. I talked to a few people and they said that he might be trying to get a fast fuck. They said this because it was a little weird that he just now started talking to me. Before this we never spoke. Do you think that he is being truthful or is he trying to use me? (hes called me several times and has asked me to hang out)
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Im not the most saintly man on the planet, however im hoping my past deeds/experiences can somehow help you out.
Many years ago, i broke up with a girlfriend of 1 year, as soon as it happened i was hurt, and dient know what to do with myself..my friends advice was " get a quick piece of ass with the first girl that shows interest"..Unfortunately me beign a man, I went and did just that. I began to speak to a girl that i had barely ever spoken to, i managed to get her to sleep with me.
Thats the end of my story, i hope it gives you some ideas of how the mind of a guy works.
by the way, after sex, i never spoke to the girl again.
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