i'm ugly, but i want 2 be pretty. i don't think I'M boy material. some people say i'm pretty, BUT i'm NOT attractive i'm afro american. i have short hair, dark skinned 5"5 and skinny. i want to be attractive how do i do that? i know there's ways like making myself in2 some slut. like TIGHT tank top or VISIBLE thong but i want to be original not fake! how am i going to do this??? please help
Additional info, added Thursday January 19 2006, 5:01 pm: and i'm not talking about innerbeauty or something like that. so don't say something like that PLEASE. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? jesa21 answered Thursday January 19 2006, 5:00 pm: please dont dress like a skank, thinkin it will make you look better. im sure your very beautiful, but i know its easier to build self esteem when you feel like you look pretty. theres lots of less drastic, an SLEAZE FREE, ways to enhance your appearance.being african american i think offer's even more oppertunitiys for changes, like you could try getting long flowing weave, or if you prefer it short try some blonde highlights they have specific brands for your hair type. you can also try different make up styles, but dont overdo your make up, less really is more. ive always felt a subtle color eyeshadow (shimmery colors are popular right now) eyeliner and mascara were all anyone really needs, skip the fruity colored lips, an go for a more natural, untinted lipgloss with high shine. medium size hoop earings of silver also help to brighten up your face. other than that theres just basic things like moisturizing your body everyday to keep your skin healthy and to avoid dry skin. if you really want to change your clothing style, go for trendy, but classy!these things are all on the outside but all it takes to start feeling better is liking a few things about yourself. after that youll have no trouble building self esteem. all women are beautiful, because we have the ability to constantly change our styles without anyone wondering why,and dont you forget it! [ jesa21's advice column | Ask jesa21 A Question ]
rudy answered Thursday January 19 2006, 4:44 pm: Wow never mind what i said, by the looks of things maybe there isent beauty in you period. I get a 2 for trying? good thing i dont give a shit bout ratings, just thought it was kinda rude and uncalled for, but whatever.
Ive said it before, and i will say it again. You need to do some deep soul searching, once you do that you will realize that you are beautiful in every way. The first thing to do is to stop disrespecting your self with your bad self steem. Look in the mirror and try to count the number of things that make you pretty, and after you realize that it amounts to a shit load you will see what im talking about. Beauty is on the eye of the beholder, in this case you first need to see yourself for who you are, see how beautiful you are. Once this is accomplished i gaurantee you will look beautiful to the rest of the world.
BTW no need for tight hochie gear..be yourself [ rudy's advice column | Ask rudy A Question ]
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