ok, im asking the guys on this one bc i want a guys point of view but the girls can answer this one if they want. well there's this guy and i liek him alot. he flirts with me all the time but he has a girlfriend. he'll like put his arm around me and stuff some days and then some days he completely ignores me and im so sick and tired of this and i just wanna know what hes doing and ugh im just really hurt!! please let me know thx guys <3
Cj answered Monday January 16 2006, 5:54 pm: AS a guy, i suggest you don't hang out with him.
He likes you and flirts you, but that is cheating cause he already has one. when he is ignoring you, it is probably because he and his girl had a beef about him hanging out with other girls.
He is also checking out his options. you are his option in case......... ie. you are the rebound plan. If you are not # 1 then why should he be your number onein your life.
NOw lets say you ignore that advice and despite everything, you and he hook up. He will not be stright with you for he will always be with other girls besides you.
Comprende?
So just don't get mad, and chill without him like you are already doing, and try to advertise yourself to a type of guys you like.
ADvertise being the operaitive word,
(look pretty! not sexy and advertise to sell your soul)
rudy answered Monday January 16 2006, 4:25 pm: Well my friend, its obvious the guy really wants nothing more than to get his ego/confidence up. The fact that you let him flirt with you when you know he has a woman, kinda tells him that you would be willing to "get" with him if the opportunity came..He likes you, however, not the way you are hoping he likes you. Trust me i know what im talking about, ive done it in the past, it gives me a thrill to know that even though i have a girlfriend, i still got my player skills. Dont mean to sound rude or nothing but girl you need to stop feeling hurt over this no good dude, pay no attention to him, stop flirting with his ass, and get yourself a boy who is willing and interested in you, for you. Shit tell his girlfriend if you must, he will leave you alone [ rudy's advice column | Ask rudy A Question ]
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