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Best Friends Boyfriend....
I stayed over my friends house one weekend and her brother is my bestfriends boyfriend. That night me and him stayed up and hung out and played around (like hittin eachother with stuff and pushin eachother of the bed) and he said 'You know what? Dont tell Cjay(my bestfriend) this but I think I'm starting to like you. I didn't like him before he said that and I started to like him.And they are the type of couple that break up everynight and get back together sooner or later, and this was a night they broke up.Then we stayed up all night watching movies and playing around and holding hands and stuff, nothing bad. But Cjay found out and she told me to stay away from her for however long. Her b.f told me that he ment that he liked me, and not to worry b/c he'll fix everything. I don't want my best friend to hate me, but I like her b.f....Idk wat to do....
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i say chix over dix but that doesnt always work out..if you really like this guy then you should do something about it.its your friends fault for not having a stable enough relationship with this guy if she really did like him. she gave him a chance to like someone else it just happend to be you. if you guys are really good friends youll get over it but you should talk to her.
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It sounds like you may have been the catalyst that led to their recent separation. In which case, you need to ascertain what were the causes of the constant breakups between your (ex) best friend and her boyfriend. If it's a flaw in her personality that had caused the drama between them, then you really ought to consider having a chat with her and making your case. T
ry to convince her why it would never work out between the two of them. In fact, if you really want to be devious about it and are willing to do whatever it takes to get the guy, you might want to fill her pretty little head with the idea that there's nothing wrong with HER and it's all HIS fault. Ergo, she should break up with him because she deserves better. Lead her to that conclusion, let the situation cool down, and then date the guy.
If the boyfriend is at fault most of the time, then you need to ask yourself if you *really* want to be with somebody who isn't mature enough to make up his mind whether or not he wants to be in a relationship. He might be a complete idiot who can't make up his mind if his life depended on it. Hell, most guys are like that and it only gets worse with age.
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i dont think yu should go out with me.. i mean how woudl yu feel if she went out with yu EX boifriend.. like before you do anyything put your self in the othere persoons shoes and see how it would fell..
&& hope i helped
^^ hopfuliii its gonna be okay..
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omg please dont DONT go out with him i was in your best friends shoes once and it hurts like heck when your best friend goes out with your "ex" it doesnt matter that they keep brekain up ona nd off its not worth losing your friendship over and if you do your friend might have regrets about you!! that will be horrible, and rmemebre buds are FOREVER but boyfriends come and go guys will always changea nd your friend is going to stick with you till the end
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Don't let a rush of feelings cloud your best judgement. Such a guy won't tell you if the same situation happens to you. Say you started dating this guy and he ran into someone else he liked. I imagine the same thing would happen.
Besides, she's your best friend.
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i dont want to sound harsh and all and i no you might give me a bad rating but i got to speak up on this one. i think its wrong and dirrty that your taking your bestfriends ex. she just broke up with him the day before you "found out" you liked him. obviously shes not your best friend if your willing to take her ex boyfriend. i think you need to thikn about what your donig. dont label this girl as your "bestfriend" if your going to easily ruin the friendship.
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she is not a she-witch as stated before.
put yourself in her position. really.
she is your best friend. don't you talk about the guy you like or your boyfriend all the time with her? you won't be able to do that if you go out with him without it affecting your relationship. if you were ever to go out with him it would have to be after they were broken up for a WHILE and she was completely over him.
i jut don't think its a good idea.
tell him that you like him, but you just can't do that to your friend. and stick to it.
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These is one of those moral dilemas. But honestly whats the matter with you girl? The golden rule must never be broken, its a vicious cycle that follows if the rule is broken.
Never ever, and i mean ever date a friends ex boyfriend. I know that deep inside you you are hoping for a romeo and juliet kinda scenario, you feel like he really likes you, and in your mind you believe that you like him. Fast forward 3 months where you guys brake up for whatever reason, there wont be a cjay to help you get through the hard times.
In reality, only you know how close of a friend cjay is, just remember that real friends dont come and go, they remain for ever. There is millions of dudes that you can fall for, so stop fantasising about cjays guy and save your friendship, in the end she is the one you can count on.
It is a know fact that the average relationship doesnt last longer than 3 months, the average friendship lasts years...you do the math.
The answer to your problem is not as hard as you think it is.
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If she is your best friend she would be happy for you. If this guy likes you then hey go out with him he sounds like a better friend than the she-witch.
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