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Does anyone know how to get rid of highlights? Mine have kind of faded but I want them to be gone quicker. Any suggestions besides going to the hair dresser?
you can dye your hair one color if you want but be careful that your hair isnt damaged from highlights and if so then wait to dye your hair because it might start to fall out but if it does just use the shampoo nioxin it really works
well my best friend was like a really good girl that did NOTHING wrong... and we've been friends for a longg time and our parnents are good friends too. but lately she has been getting in trouble and getting grounded..she smoke cigarettes and done weed sometimes and we got in a fight about that because im TOTALLY against it people have asked me to try it and im like nope..never! and my parents asked why she is always in trouble and im like well..because she tried weed and smoked some cigarettes..and theyre like SHE DID WHAT? theyre all worried that i did it and stuff and theyre like you better not do that! since im over at her housel ike 24/7. now my parents and my whole family think i do it or whatever just because she did it! she doesnt even really do it anymore and i always yell at her because its soo bad for her! i dont want my parents to think i am a druggie because im not i would never do that and ive told them that but i dont think they believe me!! what should i do?..i cant stop hanging out with my friend because i would die without her and plus i only really hangout with her and my other friend! ahh this is horrible!! :[
ive never tried ciggs or weed or anything in my entire life!
you should talk to your parents and try to convince them that you do not do any of that and if they still dont beleive you ask them to go get you a drug test becaus the drug test will not lie and if you smoked weed that usually stays in your system for a while and they will be able to find it in a drug test.
ok so i'm overweight and i hate it wat hate the most is seeing skinny girls in bikinis so i recentley went on a cruise and decided i was going to be one of them. i want that so bad but i don't know how so wat i'm asking for are suggestions on how to start my diet, how to resist, and any other thing that you can think of. i really do need help on this one.and also i need to know how to drop as much as possible before october! thanx a lot i do rate
well if you want to loose weight real fast go to the gym and get a trainer i got a trainer and i lost weight in 2 weeks because he made me work out alot and i ate healthy food. but it also depends how over weight you are because i was 120 and i just wanted tomake my stomach harder. but for me it was 2 weeks because the personal trainer really helped m eout.
hey im 13/f
k i wanna know how to keep my clothes from not shrinking when i wash/dry them. i buy like cute clothes and then like a month later they begin to like get a little smaller and its not becuz im growin if u have anything tell me.
wash them inside out and in cold water that usually stops clothes from shrinking
So I had a friend back three years ago. And back then, we were too young to date, but we both really liked eachother-- just didn't tell one another. But I knew he liked me and he knew I liked him. He went to this private school and I hadn't heard from him in three years when I saw him at my day camp--- we are counselors at my camp. And he is so different and some of my friends like him, though he doesn't like them, and I think I might.
Or I wanted to talk to him more than we did today because I really enjoyed it.
Is there anything I can do? We haven't been frieds in so long and we are both so different.
i think you should tell him how you felt three years ago and be friends with him and just hang out like go to a movie or just hang out , outside of your camp.
im 13/f and whenever i go swimmin i get a little darker and i like my skin tone the way it is how do i go swimmin and still not get a tan?
you should wear alot of sun block that would help. but when i go swimming i always go swimming wtih my make up on like foundation and when i wash my face when im done swimming im not that dark. well i dont know if that will work for you but that works for me.
im going to be 17 years old in a week. and ive never really had a "real boyfriend" before. i mean i went out with like 3 guys, but that was all in middle school, and it wasnt anything like people have now in high school.. tomorrow im going to this party with my friend, and ive been praying all day to let me find a guy that wont just try to get in my pants and then leave. thats what always happens. it would make my birthday soo much better if i could just find a guy that i connect with, and that is actually interested in me and not only sex. especially the first night we meet. there are guys that want to meet me in person and hang out that are from myspace, they are my age and live by me but for some reason i always turn them down. every single one of them. does that mean that non of them are "right" for me? or am i just shy? i dont know.
tomorrow i want to get to know a guy and maybe even go on a date or two after the party. and then hopefully it can lead into my first real relationship
but i dont even know how to get started with that. i dont know how to act or what to say or anything..and how do i know that they actually want to get to know me and they arent just using me to get some? how can u tell the difference?
if anyone and everyone could help me in any way possible to make me think i might actually meet someone tomorrow night i would appreciate it soooooo much.
i always wish on stars that i see and i pray that i find a guy, but it never happens.
i really really think i deserve this. i know i can get a guy, because i do think im pretty. so thats not the reason.. but i dont know why i cant ever find someone that i like enough.
thanks sooo much xoxoxo
i think you should just relax and go to your friends party and try to take to a nice guy you find. and your friends from myspace that want to meet you i personally dont think you should meet them. well if you want you guys should set up a meeting place and go with a few friends. i have heard alot of bad things that happen from my space. but just relax you will find a nice guy sooner or later.
im 13,about 5'5, and i weight 184 pounds.i know i am much over weight.im not exactly sure how much i should weight.
before i go back to school, i want to have lost a good amount of weight(i go back to school around the end of august).what are some workout plans, without using any machines, that will help me?i want something high intensity, something that will deffinetly give me good results.
also, does anyone have experiance with the Cross Crunch Abdominal Exerciser, or the Zone Pilates?do these really work?i am interested in buying either one or both of these, but i was wondering if they really do work.would they help me loose weight?what other things help like that, but dont cost too much?my friend reccommended a yoga or workout ball.dothose help?
i really need help, and i am tierd of always being "the fat girl".i want to look good and show everyone when i go back to school.it is also something that i want to do for me personally.i've struggled with this for a long time, and i want to put an end to it.
thank you to anyone that can contribute!!
hey, i have the cross crunch at my house and it does not work. well it didnt work for me at all. they tell you just 12 crunches to the right and left that doesnt do nothing. i even tried to do more crunches with the cross crunch but i just think its stupid. well the best way to lose weight is just do sit ups at home and eat healthy food.
ok so i have some stretch marks embarassing to. well i'm losing weight and i was wondering if i went down to like 110 or 100 lbs would the strech marks go away and if not are there any ways i can make them go away. i rate.
The strech marks will not go away but you can down to your local pharamacy or drug store like walgreens and get some cream for scars or things like. or maybe you can wait and see if they go away but i doubt it they would go away.
I have curly hair a little below my shoulders and I really want it to be straight. With the straightener I have right now it takes me about two hours to straighten my hair after I shower, so it's starting to prevent my from showering as much. What kinds of good cermanic hair straighteners/products are there? I did some research on an Oblivie Hair Straightening System, does anyone know anything about that?
get the strenghten from the mall, it use to take me 2 hours to do my hair but now it only takes 30 minutes it saves alot of time and its relaly good for your hair. its about like 120.00 dollars though so i dont know i fyou wanted that one but it saves you alot of time and doesnt damage your hair at all.
For a cell phone, does it cost money if you want to keep your provider but change your number for privacy reasons? If so, how much?
Or does this depend on the service itself. Thanks, any info is appreciated.
if you have cingular then they charge you 36.00 dollars to change your phone number.
my mother made me get these stupid acrylic nails!
besides the fact that they hurt, i can't take my contacts off. i've been crying hysterically for the past few minutes because i can't take them off. and my mother won't let me take off the acrylics. i'm so mad. is there any easier way to do this?
when i get my nails done andi have to take my contacts out i just wash my hands and try them real well and when i reach to take my contacts out they usually just get stuck to my fingers becasue they are supper dry. i think you can try that though
I love my best friend to death! Lately it feels like we're not as close though. We go to the same camp, but I feel like I'm always fighting for her attention against this other girl who she is good friends with from school. I feel like everytime I bring it up, she only ends up getting upset, and its not doing any good, its only pushing her farther away. I dont want to lose her, but it feels like theres nothing I can do, she seems from past expierences to go through her her "best friend" is rather quickly. last year, she was best friends with a girl she now barely talks to (no fight, they just grew apart) and a girl she was best friends at the beggining of the year they are now just rele good friends (once again no fight just grew apart...well thats not true they got in a lot of little squabbles which also scares me cuz we get in squabbles to). a few weeks ago we were getting in a lot of little fights, and I asked her if she thought we were ok, and shes like yeah there not that big and its just cuz i talk to you more than most people. Im very confused, I dont want to try talking to her again and end up saying the wrong thing, that will just land us in another fight, push her farther away, or make me seem clingly and needy. please please please give me some guidence.
you do not want to sound desparte for her attention now. i think you should just give her some time if you guys are good friends or best friends then you guys should just relax and let things go the way they are going. if she really considers you as her best friend then she will try to work things out with you. i dont think you should be the only one trying to make things better in your friendship. i think you should just let things go the way they are going and wait and see what happenes. i think if things are ment to be then they will happen
I have a car but only my permit. My boyfriend has had his license for awhile, but no car! This whole situation gets frustrating because it'd be easier to get around if one of us was driving. My mom is strict but she likes my boyfriend. How could I convince her to let my boyfriend drive us around in my car sometimes? He's trustworthy and a great driver.
I don't think you should let your boyfriend drive your car around because no matter how long you have had your drivers license you can always do something wrong. what are you going to do if your boyfriend hits another car or hits something? your going to have another problem to tell your mom and how are you going to tell her that. i think she would be real mad if she found out your boyfriend messed your car up even if it was an accident because your insurance will be going up. i thought i was a good driver until i was driving my parents SUV and it had some 24' rims on it and one rim is 1,000 dollars and i scrapped the rim into the sidewalk crub while trying to park. i didnt know that was going to happen and it did and i always thought i was a good driver because i was driving for a while. i think if you let your boyfriend drive your car your giong to be taking a risk.
Okay, so my older half sister and brother have planned this trip to Florida, 5 days in Disney World!!! I was really excited...until I found out two things...
1. My sister and brother might be bringing their side of the fmaily that I've never even met. Which includes parents and kids. (I do NOT like kids) I'll just feel like a blacksheep.
2. PANIC! AT THE DISCO is playing the SAME DAY I'll be GONE!! (San Diego, August 1st)
My mom has allowed me to choose whether or not to go. Should I stay and experience an awesome Panic! concert or spend 5 days in Disney World with people I don't really know????
I don't want any regrets...
i think you should go to the concert because going to disney world with people you do not know will be boring. trust me i have been to plenty of places with people i didnt know and it has always turned out being boring because i feel left out and things dont always work out with the people you dont know and you go places with them. its better if you just go to the concert and enjoy your day there.