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I know you're going to hear this question come up a lot very soon, but I decided to ask mine earlier.
Christmas is soon and I need some helpful hints on what to get my boyfriend. He's really into druming, like drumline and D.C.I stuff. He's into death cab for cutie, polyphonic spree, ben kweller.
I had an idea to do something with buttons like these http://www.cinderblock.com/wc.dll?WebStore~RViewItem~DFC~DCB-BUT1~SID=05111516115258312562 but I'm not sure what to do with them. If I get a bunch of them from his favorite bands, what is a CREATIVE thing I can make him along with another present? [I don't want an answer saying make a collage.]
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get him a hoodie of his fave band or something. that way you can use it too! LOL
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I'm about to turn 21, and I've been with my first and only boyfriend for about a year and a half. He adores me and I believe that if we were to stay together he would love me until he dies. Unfortunately, I am not so secure in my feelings.
There are some down sides to the relationship:
A) I am a dedicated student while he seems to have little ambition. He dropped out of college and works at a fast food place.
B)Because I'm in college we are living in two different cities.
C) He is extremely insecure. He gets unreasonably angry with me when he knows I've spoken to another guy. He has also told me that if we ever break up he would be too upset to want to get back together.
D) Because I haven't had a previous relationship, I often have doubts. I'm not unhappy in the relationship, but sometimes I wonder if there is a better match for me.
Should I end a relationship I am comfortable with for the possibility of one that is 'ideal' for me? (link)
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dump him.
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ok...I went out with this one guy for about a year and we've been broke up for a few months now and im starting to fall for his friend...well him and my bestfriend started talking but they didnt like eachother that much they talked for about a week and then he told her that he wanted to play the field awhile or whatever and now i've been talkin to him on aim and like hes really sweet and he wanted to know when we was gone hook up or whatever and he swore to me he wouldnt do me wrong and all that stuff and hes really sweet and i think im fallin for him...but my ex doesnt really approve but hes startin 2 come around but my bestfriend didnt like it at first but now shes tellin me to go for it and stuff and then she talks bad about me behind my back...im really startin 2 like him and i think he likes me(or so he says he does) but i dont want to come inbetween him and my ex and hes scared hes gone come inbetween me and my friend and its really complicatin because we like eachother and we're talkin about hooking up next week or so should i go for it or should i just tell him we should be friends?
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well i say try it.
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Which of these boys should I ask to my winter formal? I go to an all girls school, so for the winter formal, all the girls have to ask the guys. Vote who you think I should ask:
guy 1: Pretty much my best guyfriend. Hang out with often. Am comfortable with. Nice, friendly, social, and a bit geeky. He's a dork. Mama's boy. Boy next door. Not a great dancer. Haha. Currently has a crush on me that I just found out about from my friend.
guy 2: Older than me by two grades. Friendly, but speaks really quietly. Has recently asked me out to see a show with him but I couldn't go. A bit boring to talk to on the phone. Sweet and laid back. Can actually dance. Never hang out with him in person.
guy 3: My personal crush. Asked him to formal last year and got turned down b/c he didn't know me that well. He now knows me better this year. Funniest guy I know. Always makes me laugh. Sweet and friendly and social. A nerd. But still social and outgoing. My friend thinks he has a crush on me because of the attention he gives me when I'm around. But I don't think so. He doesn't really like to dance. Smart. There's another girl who really likes him. I want to choke her. Well. Not really. Okay, yeah I do.
So give me feedback! WHICH ONE? (link)
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ok ask #3.
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Is it possible to fall in love with someone if you're not attracted to them pysically?
I have feelings for an older man (he's 45 and I'm 26). He isn't very good looking, he is overweight and has grey hair.
He is really nice to me though and we get along and have a lot in common.
Most younger guys that are cute don't make me feel the way he does.
Should I go for him or just stay with guys that are closer to my age? (link)
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go for a guy your age.
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i just turned 21. i would like to get pregnant with my bf of 2 years but b4 i do so i need some advice into easier ways to get pregnant faster. is there a time in which we could try wich would make it easier? is there any hints into what we should do for example i heard if you both have an orgasm at the same time would that make it easier to concieve? Well please help i rate 5s for people with lots of advice! (link)
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ok well you can get pregnant the week before and after your period. so those would be target weeks. there is no real way to make it easier. it just happens.
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Me and my boyfriend broke up last week! im not taking it too well! i have cryed everynight since that night! i love him soooooooo much! he means the world to me. hes my everything. i mean he still wants to b friends but i codnt put myself thro that much pain! i want him bak and im planning on talking to him. but honestly i dont no wot to do! i mean he used to care so much about me! i dont no wot happened. i mean u cod tell just the way he looked at me that he loved me. and now all of a sudden he just doesnt have feelings for me anymore! i dont no wot i did! i havent exactly been the same ever since. everytime a see him my heart tears apart all over again. i saw him hugging one of his girl friends (not girlfriends one of his friends thats a gurl) and my heart literally shattered! i started ballin in the middle of the hallways. i just dont no wot to do. how the hell can i get over him! i mean i dont wanna b like this but i wanna get bak together with him. im not ready to give up on him quite yet. we went thru everything together! he was always there for me and i for him! i was there wen he got himself into trouble and had to go to juvi, i was there for him wen he was depressed, and wen he got put on housearrest, i was there for him wen his grandpa died, and I was there for him to offer a shoulder to cry on wen his ex girlfriend had an abortion on their baby! i mean he took my virginity! he wod always b VERY prtective over our relationship and very protective over me! i dont no wot i did wrong! i cared so much about him. i loved him with all my heart. i mean he used to compliment me so much! said i was sexy, smart, funny, caring, nice, kind, and sweet! i just dont understand! (link)
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talk to him. and well just know that sometimes we do things to protect others.
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ok i really like this guy and he always is being sweet and stuff and always asks to play the question game so he can ask me questions and i have to answer them too and he tells me i am so gorgeous and he is just ginuinly the nicest guy i have ever met and hes cute... and i know hes not just using me for sex and stuff because he believes in abstinance but eh only catch to him is that he has a girl friend but he like asks me questions that you dotn ask a girl you dotn really ike and stuff and so i play along is that wrong... and should i wait for them to break up... pleas help if youcan
love lacy
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well i soo invented that game! but yah its wrong IF you date him while hes with her. its wrong to make him cheat or to help him cheat.
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i have this little probelem, i am afraid to make out with anyone because i think i will be bad at it. i have never made out with anyone before, and my old bf was a little weirded out by the whole not making out thing. what do i do?
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just do it. follow the other person... its easy!
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My boyfriends(mike) best friend(Eric) who I am also pretty good friends with told me that Mike told him that he wanted to break up with me and that he regrets giving me a second chance.
He broke up with me a few months ago for reasons I wont say but we got back together. Now, we've been getting in all of these little annoying fights so I guess that would be his reason for saying that stuff to Eric.
But, when I asked Mike about what Eric said he said, he swore on his life that he never said such things.
So know I don't know who to believe. I totally trust my boyfriend so I think I'm leaning towards him. But then again, what reasons would Eric have to lie to me?
I know this isn't a lot of information because you guys obviously don't know me of the 2 guys but who would you believe?
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ok if your bf says he doesnt want to break up with you. why worry about it?
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Does anyone know where I can buy scarves? Rate 5's. (link)
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walmart
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do you think im a nerd b/c im on the middle school orchestra? be honest...i wont get mad if you say yes...im just curious (link)
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the only reason people call them band nerds... is becuz people in band dont have alot of free time... so they dont have alot of time to do anything with friends so they get seen as nerds.
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This girl and I have been casually dating for a little more than a month. She's only 14 and I'm 17 but I genuinly like her. I'm not using her just to get some, I don't even want to do any more than kiss her. At the beginning of the relationship she told me she had only held hands with a guy before. I was skeptical but went with it. Now, she just told me she's had sex, but it was when she was only 9 years old. I'm not upset that she's not a virgin, I don't want her for that. I'm upset that she lied to me from day one. I'm not even mad, just really disappointed and very hurt. I've told her everything I've done with every girl I've dated. I live by the basic rules: Don't lie and don't cheat. She wants to go out with me know and I don't know if I can. I've been hurt before, and recently, and if she's lied once there's no saying she won't do it again right? I know it might sound like I'm overreacting but I really don't think I can take being hurt again. Please let me know what you think I should do. (link)
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well your right. but maybe shes ashamed that she had sex and didnt want you to know yet becuase well she didnt want you to reject her? maybe she didnt want you to think bad of her. well just think about that and the age thing shouldnt matter.... im 14 and my bf is 17.
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I was searching through some xangas and I came across this girl that I'm not too fond of. I stopped to look at all the pictures she had thinking it might be pretty funny. I found multiple pictures of this girl, with my boyfriend on his bed. Nothing sexual, I think, but the fact I'M not even allowed in his room let alone his BED kinda ticked me off. Am I wrong to be upset that he had a girl that EVERYONE knows is basically a slut on his bed with him?
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yes be mad. you should really talk to him about it and be very mad.
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are there any other web sites like crush007? the one where it claims it will give you your love and sex life prediction if you answer the questions honestly. thanks! (link)
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http://www.catchcal.com/play/index.asp
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So I have this friend whose a guy. (I'm a girl btw). I was going out with this amazing guy for about 3 months. Well I thought he was ohh so amazing until I figured out how he acts towards other people. And things went bad and we were over. So my friend is really cool and he was always telling me about this mystery girl who he was obsessed with like I was always thinking he would make a great boyfriend for whoever she was. Then the other night he told me that girl was me. And then I kinda got freaked out and thinking about im. I mean he would be a great boyfriend and he's cute and funny. But I just don't know what I want to do right now.. stay single or go out with him.. I'm afraid if I decide to go out with him it'll ast a long time... umm I need help! (link)
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date him! date him! date him!
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Im 15 female
A lot of my friends like to drink and smoke pot. I don't like it. I had my fun with that already, I smoked pot when i was in 6th grade and stoped when i saw my brother get locked up for it. Yeah and i had my experience with alcohol i drank and i puked my guts up and now i wont ever drink again. well at least not til im old enough. But anyway my friends are always drink like on the weekends and they always ask me to go but i just go to my boyfriends house and hang out and what not. I always find my self thinking that im better than that and i don't want to ruin my life with that stuff.
Is this normal because i always thought that teenagers will like to drink and get in trouble and just do bad stuff just to make a laugh? Am i abnormal? (link)
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no your smart. dont ruin your life with that stuff.
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what should i do? so here's my situation.. i like this guy named joe. he went out with one of my friends, i mean she's my friend but shes not like my best friend or anything. well they just broke up in septemberish, but they're still hecka close, they're still best friends. anyways, i always thought he was hecka sweet and cute but like i could never like him because he liked his girlfriend so much, but now that like they know they dont like eachother and hes single i can like him. anyways we hung out on friday we went to the mall with two of our friends, one a girl and one a boy, but he was being all flirty with me and stuff so i was just like okay but then like the more i talked to him and stuff the more i realize how perfect he is. then later we went to our other friends house and we were watching movies but we were hecka tired and he layed next to me so we were like spooning and he put his arm around me and fell asleep on me. he also always tells me how pretty i am and all this stuff. and like he goes out of his way to bring me into a conversation. i don't know what to do. do u think he likes me or what? and if he does should i even try to go out with him? i dont want to tlak to his ex girlfriend jsut yet. i'm not going to say anythign to anyone yet. i mean if i find out he likes me, then i'll do something, but i was jsut dwondering if he does what should i do? do you think my friend would be hurt even though they broke up mutually and they're still best friends? i dont know so my two questions are.. do you think he likes me? and if so, what should i do about it?
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he likes you. date him.
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What style of sunglasses are in style right now? I've googled and nothing came up. Are big square frames or aviators better for a petite brunetter? Black or white? Thanks so much!! (link)
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white aviators!!! if your punk... if your prep... then go for the big white frames.
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ok i'm 13 yrs old and a little bit emberessed to sayt this but here i go...my boy feind wants to finger me and i'm kinda scared and i just don't kno what to do..i mena i want to but i'm just askin muh self questions leik will it hurt wll i cry ..what should i do please help ..thnxx (link)
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well see my advice is going to be straight forward i have (a bunch of) points.
1)i wouldnt advise doing it at all....it leads to other things. you might end up doing things your not ready for.
2)nothing good can come of doing this.
3)it shouldnt hurt. if it does he is not doing it right.
4)your 13. dont do it.
5)if it embarrasses you to say this then your not ready and well you just arnt ready. dont do it.
6)if your scared your not ready.
7)your not ready. dont do it.
8)if you do chose to do it. if it hurts tell him, if you dont like it. tel him.
9)if you dont want to dont.
10)if he tries to do it anyways... say no. he should respect that... if not... wow your in trouble.
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