So I have this friend whose a guy. (I'm a girl btw). I was going out with this amazing guy for about 3 months. Well I thought he was ohh so amazing until I figured out how he acts towards other people. And things went bad and we were over. So my friend is really cool and he was always telling me about this mystery girl who he was obsessed with like I was always thinking he would make a great boyfriend for whoever she was. Then the other night he told me that girl was me. And then I kinda got freaked out and thinking about im. I mean he would be a great boyfriend and he's cute and funny. But I just don't know what I want to do right now.. stay single or go out with him.. I'm afraid if I decide to go out with him it'll ast a long time... umm I need help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MELiixMARiiE answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 4:45 pm: Well already by seeing you say " I'm afraid that if I decide to go out with him it'll last a long time"... that already shows that you don't like him at all ( well at least not like that ) because you don't even want to have a long relationship with him. I would just tell him that you don't want to have that kind of relationship with him, just a friendship. Only go out with him if you want to and you want it to last long. I hope I helped.
smn7291 answered Monday November 14 2005, 8:17 pm: if you are AFRAID of it lasting a long time, then maybe you dont really like him. The problem is, if you dont go out with him his heart will be broken and things just might not be the same... but the same goes for if u do go out with him and u guys break up... [ smn7291's advice column | Ask smn7291 A Question ]
iSpEaKsPaNiSh answered Monday November 14 2005, 12:10 am: what's wrong with it lasting a long time? as long as you are happy with him..
if you are really more into being single right now..let him know. tell him exactly how you feel. don't go out with him unless you like him back..otherwise you will feel trapped. [ iSpEaKsPaNiSh's advice column | Ask iSpEaKsPaNiSh A Question ]
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