what should i do? so here's my situation.. i like this guy named joe. he went out with one of my friends, i mean she's my friend but shes not like my best friend or anything. well they just broke up in septemberish, but they're still hecka close, they're still best friends. anyways, i always thought he was hecka sweet and cute but like i could never like him because he liked his girlfriend so much, but now that like they know they dont like eachother and hes single i can like him. anyways we hung out on friday we went to the mall with two of our friends, one a girl and one a boy, but he was being all flirty with me and stuff so i was just like okay but then like the more i talked to him and stuff the more i realize how perfect he is. then later we went to our other friends house and we were watching movies but we were hecka tired and he layed next to me so we were like spooning and he put his arm around me and fell asleep on me. he also always tells me how pretty i am and all this stuff. and like he goes out of his way to bring me into a conversation. i don't know what to do. do u think he likes me or what? and if he does should i even try to go out with him? i dont want to tlak to his ex girlfriend jsut yet. i'm not going to say anythign to anyone yet. i mean if i find out he likes me, then i'll do something, but i was jsut dwondering if he does what should i do? do you think my friend would be hurt even though they broke up mutually and they're still best friends? i dont know so my two questions are.. do you think he likes me? and if so, what should i do about it?
17/f by the way
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MELiixMARiiE answered Monday November 14 2005, 8:26 pm: I definetley think he likes you. It sounds like he likes you ALOT which is awseome! No guy would do that stuff if they didn't like the girl =] I think its good that your not telling anyone yet so then no word gets out to the ex-girlfriend incase she might get upset. I'd give her some time for her to calm down and get over this whole thing also, and then I'd try to talk to her. Just ask her if it's alright if you could go out with him and everything and just talk to her about that and get that out of the clear so there's no lurking jealous ex in the background or anything. And then after that, I think you should totally ask him out =] It sounds like you two like eachother alot =D I hope I helped.
Advicelady6798 answered Monday November 14 2005, 2:49 pm: Chances are if they broke up they are not going to get back toether because the rpoblems they had are still going to be there. I think he likes you alot and you should go for him if you like him to. Its ok i am sure she wont mind if you go out with him. Maybe if you found someone for her you wont have to worry about that problem. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
karenR answered Monday November 14 2005, 12:25 am: You know what? Sounds to me like he just may like you.
I think if he asks you out and you want to date him you should.
Its hard to say how your friend will react. It could be that you'd be better off if you had him talk to her about it. It really doesn't matter though. Maybe you could hint at it by asking her how she thinks he feels. Was she around when you two were spooning on the couch? If so and she was okay with that, I doubt you will have a problem.
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