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Age: 15
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Well Im 15 and im 9 and a half stone, the doctors say that my weight is perfect for my age and my height. but i still have a big stomach. its so annoying. My mum said that my weight is alright and always calls me skinny but im not! I need to lose some weight but if i lose too much the doctors put me on steroids. so how can i lose my big stomach but stay at 9 and a half stone? is it even possible? thankyou so much
luv shelly (link)
Yea, do crunches and stuff. www.toneteen.com
Hope I've helped!




-Brianna


There's one girl at my school, who I really did like. We were always best friends, but then in the middle of the year, she liked me too. But when I started to talk to her about this situation, she always ignored me. Than I found out that she got a boyfriend. I'm okay with it, since I always try to support her, but she always kind of puts it in my face like, trying to make me feel bad. I'm really uncomfortable when I see them together. But it makes me feel better because the guy she's with is like, my best friend. I don't know if she did this on purpose, making my best friend her boyfriend. What do you think I should do? And why do you think she did this? (link)
I think you should talk to her about it and ask what happened to her liking you. It sounds like she is trying to get you jealous. Some girls are like that. Tell her that you don't like how she rubs it in your face that she has a boyfriend and whatnot. Just talk to her. Good luck!




-Brianna


i was wondering if anyone knew of any good websties that you can find good love or friendship poems or quotes .... thanks for the help (link)
www.quotemania.2ya.com

^its great!




-Brianna


okay, on thursday...we walked by this guy and i said "wow, hes hot" and he looked over, but it was like a slow turn not like he heard or anything. but then he smiled at me when he saw me...
Friday- he saw me playing cards w/ my friends. and walked over and asked me if he could play. I think he said 1 secntence to the other girls. And he would stare at me and act emmbarrassed when we BS-ed him (we were playing BS) and talked only to me...
Anyway, my other friends like him and so do i. And it bugs me when my friends like the same guy
MY QUESTION-- do u think he likes me? And how can i get over my problem w/ friend liking the same guy? (link)
Yes I think he likes you since he focused all his attention on you, rather than on your friends. Just tell them that you really like him and it bugs you that your friends like him too. Just remember, he likes you not them so don't worry about them liking him!




-Brianna


So my boyfriend and I started officially "going out" on wednesday. Whereas before we were just dating and such. We were never really talked on the phone before other than for him to call and make plans and to tell me he was coming to get me. So anyways I would really like to talk to him, I texted him yesterday but he hasnt called me yet. Do I just wait untill I see him again or untill he calls or do I just get over it and call him.....(thanks) (link)
If I was you I'd just call him. Or, you can wait until you see him again and tell him that you want to talk to him on the phone or whatever. GOod luck.



-Brianna


kay..well lately ive been slacking off in school. I used to be sooo smart and used to get awesome grades-but that ALL changed in middle school. Ive been concintrating on guys, friends, and my homelife more than my school-life and school-work. Any ways that can help me get back on track?? (link)
Just think, if you want to go into a good college, you need good grades. That's the way I see it. Grades are almost as important as guys and friends and stuff. Or, right when you get home, focus on your homework before you do anything else. Be sure to study if you know you have a test coming up! Sorry, that's the best advice I can give.




-Brianna


my daughter has just had her parent teacher evening in school and a few things came to my attention, they have been monituring my daughters behavior and said that she has been diagnosed with ADHD. all this was done without me knowing a thing. is this normal? my daughter and i both feel this is unacceptable but were not sure if thats the way it happens.. so is anyone else been in this situation?
please help us (link)
I don't think they can do that without your permission!




-Brianna


I'm doing a project on British History(1550-1650) and i need some info or sites on the political atmosphere of it. and i'm having a hard time finding info. (link)
http://www.britannia.com/history/
http://www.britannia.com/history/
http://www.british-history.ac.uk/
http://www.spartacus.schoolnet.co.uk/Britain.html



That is all I can find. Hope I have helped!




-Brianna


my sister has just bought a guinnea pig and it has started to whine . A short while later it starts to purr. Why does it do this? (link)
It wants attention. Nothing to worry about.




-Brianna


ok this might be long.. im 14/f.. im best friend who i love so much is going out with this very possesive guy.. hes always with her and always wants to be with her.. hell get mad when shes with me, and if he doesnt see her he will get mad.. they always get mad at eachother for stupid things.. and shes always in a bad mood when im with her because she knows her bf is mad.. i hate it when shes in bad moods because she never was until she went out with this guy.. i mean they dudes a great guy but hes just way too possesive.. so they got into an argument when i was at my best friends house.. my friend ran upstairs crying and i had no idea what to do.. i went up and i heard her crying so hard.. ive never heard anyone cry like that before.. she was taking all the pictures of her and her bf and throwing them everywhere.. slamming picture frames against the door.. i didnt know what to do i just hugged her.. so we went out that night.. her bf apologized and wanted to go back out with her.. and of course she said yes and they were hugging and kissing not even 4 hours later.. they are a real serious couple.. but you dont understand how pissed i was to see them like that.. i have a feeling that he knows he will always get his way.. my friend didnt know if she should go back out with him.. but she did.. i dont know but it makes me angry.. im invisible to her when shes with her bf but when shes mad she always expects me to be there for her.. and i am but she cant be doing this.. i dont know what do you think? (link)
OMG I have had the same problem for a year. And I would tell my friend to dump him, he was no good. They just don't listen. Tell her that she has been in a bad mood ever since they've been going out. Also, tell her that you care about her and that one day things could get pretty serious when they are fighting. She deserves better. Stay friends with her and support her through it all. GOod luck.




-Brianna


Today, my family and I (14/m) were out playing sports. All was well for a while. Untill my lil brother started to misbehave and be uncooperative.I got vexxed, but i controlled my rage untill we got home.

At home, i was still vexxed.
(since my birthday is about a montn away)My mom asked me what i wanted for my birthday. I told her "i want my brother to be gone for my birthday. that would be the perfect gift."

She got vexx at me. so vexx she couldn't speak. Sheleft the room.

I went to look for her later and i found her crying. what i said really got to her emotionally. she just looked at me like everything was lost.

that look got to me. i am sorry i told her that.
but i dont know what to do.

What should i do?
i can't let her feel like she grew me up wrong- i am her 1st born. she will just give up with the others too.

please help.

(link)
Tell her you really didn't mean that, that you were just mad at him, or vexxed (whatever that means?) lol. Also, be sure to tell her that you are sorry and it never meant to hurt her feelings and that you feel bad. That will work. GOod luck.




-Brianna


Hey i my girlfriend broke up with me becasue i have something like bio polar anger problems and we got in a fight and i fought back 4 once and she dumped me me and my friend thought she kinda liked me a little but i just found out she doesnt me but i really really still love her and i didnt mean to scream and theres no hope to get her back but i love her still and cant get her out of my mind
(link)
Yea of course she is going to dump you if you scream at her and shit. You can always talk to her about you being bi polar. And don't they have pills for that?




-Brianna


so i'm selectively mute and i'm trying to be more outgoing i guess. i feel like i'm annoying my boyfriend..like i'm not a really good girlfriend or anything. i call him every other day and talk to him but not so much like everyone else. We talk on AIM and stuff but i don't know what to talk to him about. We have similar interests and stuff but it seems like i can't keep up with conversation. We haven't been going out for long but i worry a lot so yeah... i'm not all that open...and i need help on that. Can you give me ideas with conversation and ways to be more open with replies? i just don't want to say something wrong heh... (link)
You guys can talk about your families, foods you like, if he likes sports, tv shows, ex girlfriends, school, what he likes in a girl, what he likes to do on the weekends... Just answer them like you would answer them on a sheet of paper. I know that sounds weird but you will be more honest and outgoing with your responses if you pretend that you are just writing down your replies. GOod luck!




-Brianna


I'm a fourteen-year old female I have a girlfriend that I really love but never see. When she talks about sex, she reminds me of my rapist so we haven't had sex yet and I don't think I want to. Every time we talk about getting together she talks about sex, but she writes me poetry and she's really loving. She's suicidal and I feel like protecting her. She hasn't come out to her parents yet and I think she feels safe with me. What should I do? She sort of creeps me out, mostly because she cares about sex so much. I'm a virgin save for my molestation when I was 7 through 8. I don't think she gets that I'm touchy about it, no pun intended (dark humor, sorry). I used to cut myself but I stopped, and she still wants me to. I told her I stopped and she asked me why not. She still does. Her mom's always on heroin and she does pot. I want and don't want to dump her at the same time. Should I break up with her? (link)
If I was you, I would dump her. Here are the reasons.

1. You told her that you don't like talking about sex, which she still does.

2. She WANTS you to cut yourself.

3. She sounds like she grew up in a not so nice home.


But, if you really like her that much, then stay with her.




-Brianna


I really like supporting charitable organizations, and I want to buy bracelets for the tsunami relief, Livestrong, and breast cancer. I have heard the footLOcker and Sport Chalet sell them. I was wondering if this is true and where else I could fing these bracelets! Thank you! (link)
Yea, just about anywhere they sell them. In the middle of the malls in those stands (if you have them) they sell them there too!




-Brianna


this girl just turned 16.. her name is Olivia.. we met b/c she goes to my school and we've been good friends and we made each other laugh and had a pretty fun and good relationship but then she broke up w/ her freshman b/f.. and we started talking.. and we had late conversations on the phone and talked on AIM alot. The problem is.. i can't say I'm in love w/ her truly if she doesn't talk to me in person.. she treats me like ne other friend when I'm around her but on the phone.. we're good.. and i asked her about it and she told me we just need to get to know each other better. Her best friend is giving me feed back on how she likes to flirt... and she went on a one on one "go out"... it wasn't supposedly a "date".. should i give this girl a try or just stop it?
-Hewitt, 14, TN (link)
Give her some time to know you. If you really like her that much, then yeah go for her. If she keeps giving you the excuse 'I need to get to know you better', then chances are you should just stop. Good luck!




-Brianna


hey... my boyfriend and i just had a big talk and he wants to be in "time-out"
i have no clue what that means just that theres no kissing at school (so he said). now i dont know how to act around him or what to say to him
My questions are ... what do you think time-out is and how should i act around him at school???... im so confused and lost in all of this (link)
Okay I don't think there should be such things as time-outs in relationships. That is pretty weird that he doesn't want to kiss you at school. Maybe he has another girl on the side. If I were you, I would act the same around him. Or, dump him.




-Brianna


There's this new guy at our school. We've already become really good friends and I've introduced him to some other people. But he doesn't seem to open up in public. (like on AIM we talk for hours, but at school it's just a simple "Hi") What can I do to make him feel more welcome? (link)
Just start talking to him in school like you would online. He is new, so of course he is going to be shy. Make him feel like he's been there forever.




-Brianna


ok i just found out that we might have to move, and if we do i wont be going to the same school. now heres the problem, we dont have the money to move or to stay in the house we have right now. so i dont want to move and im to young to work any where really.so what should i do????????? (link)
Sorry but, there is nothing you really can do! =(




-Brianna


Does anyone have any tips for swallowing pills? I have some pills from my doctor for a bronchidal infection, and they were huge, I had to cut them up into fourths, yet they still are tough to get down. Tips or tricks? (link)
Put them in foods, like apple sauce or mashed potatoes.



-Brianna




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