mrs_radcliffe's advice column

HEY! when you kiss a guy bit down on his lip not hard! And run your fingers through his hair while your making out. When you look at him smile a cheeky smile.
roxie

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okay, i use tampons during my period, but im nervous to go swimming with them in. Im afraid the water will soak the string, making the blood travel out trhough the tampon string. Does this happen or am i worrying for nothing?

DONT worry! if you have it in properly and it doesnt run usuallly then you will be fine just make sure you bring a couple just in case but if that you'll be fine.
roxie

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im going out to a party tonight. i have hair down to my shoulders and side bangs. im need a cute hairstyle. i usually just straighten it but im getting bored of it. any tips or ideas? or websites with details would help. thanks!

Hey why not have it loose curls?? It will loook great or have it up with curls coming down.
roxie
you can use your straighteners to curl it or just borrow some
roxie

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Hey. My mom doesn't know it yet, but I finally have a boyfriend. We don't really talk about this kind of stuff but I really would like her to know. I just don't know how to tell her. Do you guys have any ideas on how to tell her? Thanks so much.

i think you should be straigh and forward with her! she should understand as your getting older you should have boyfriends. So may be just sit her down and tell her.
roxie

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I do not shave yet... but i want to... what is a creative way i can ask my mom i want to shave?

HEY! i think you sit her down and just tell her. Then she will understand.
luv roxie

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is it safe to get a bath during a lighting storm?
i need to know now

No i surgest you stay away until the storms gone.
roxie

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I read a question about Applesauce on here. Is it a program? Can someone please explain what it is and what it does and how you get it?

Applesauce is a sauce simple as that.
roxie you can get it in shops

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hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
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Hey no its not a problem if you love him then i dont see what the problem is. Who cares what people say or whateva! I think that theres nothing wrong with it.
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Ok well, I`m on my period and I have to go on a boat Sat. Tampons are def. outta the question because I`ve tried them and they DO NOT work! Is there anything I can do?

You will have to stock up on pads. Just keep some with you. If you wanted to go swimming thats a no no!! Because the pad wont last it will become weak and what not.
roxie

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what does prude mean?

It means you wont do anything sexual with another partner or wont do anything else.
roxie

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ok well im 14 n if i watch a scary movie i have a hard tyme going to sleep at night. i no da movies r juss movies but for some reason i cant sleep. how can i stop being afraid?

Hey! Dont worry sometimes i can get like that. Anyways before you go to sleep read or watch some tv it will take your mind of the film. Just think that its only a film and its made up. If your having a friend sleepover talk to her for a while before you go to sleep.
roxie

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ok well i'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex and i really dont think i'm ready for it.how do i tell him wiht out him thinking i dont like him anymore

Well just tell him that your not ready for sex. And if he loves you so much he should be able to wait for you to feel ready if not hes not a great boyfriend.
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ok i have heard that if you put lemon juice in your hair and then go outside tha the sun makes the lemon juice make your hair lighter. is it true, and if not, what are some things that really do work. i dont want to color my hair, just make it lighter

Yes it is true i dunno how but it is.
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hey! i'm on a healthier diet because i know i have been eating too much crap! i had a good dinner around 8 oclock and haven't ate anything since, since i know it's bad for you! and it's now around midnight, and my stomach hurts really bad! why does it hurt?

Your getting stomach pains because you havent eaten anything for a while go eat something dont stave your self.
luv roxie

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no serously im male and like im bleeding like crazy when i take a crap is their something wrong with me or is it normal or something i ate i need to know it looks like my sisters peirod when she 4gets to flush its gross....

I surgest you go see your doctor and soon.

luv roxie

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If i walk 1 mile a day and do about 100 crunches a day, how long till i see or feel a difference?

You should start to feel different in about 1 -4 weeks.

luv roxie

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Ive had problems with my friends..whenever i tell one of them something it doesnt seem like they care too much..how can i tell them?

If they dont care find some new friends! Friends are ment to care so much to listen to you and help you out.

luv roxie

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ok, well i am 13, 5'4" and i weigh 123lbs.Is that ok, cause my sister is 16, the same height, and 110 lbs. am i over weight???

Hey not not at all your very skinny!! dont worry about it.

luv roxie

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I just did my column and it looked REALLY pretty! I went to about 6 different websites to get ALL my graphics. I logged out, came back about 5 hours later, and EVERYTHING I did is GONE! I'm really upset right now because I spent about 5 hours on that column and my HARD WORK is all gone! Why is this and is there ANY way possible I can get it back? Has this ever happened to any of yall?
PLEASE HELP!

Omg! That totally sucks! You'll have to start again there isnt really any way you can get it all back.

luv roxie

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