i dont like anything alll i want to do is be happy and with my ex boyfriend that my parents dont like i dont want to b here...?
Hun... It sounds to me like you are having a hard time and I have been going thru the same thing... I went to a hospital and found out I have manic depression and bi-polar.. I am on medication and see a coueslour once a week and it actaully is helping a little... Well there is only two things you can do about your ex boyfriend talk to him or forget about him... and there is only two things you can do about your parents.. ignore them and don't listen to them or talk to them and tell them how you feel about this boy and they need to give you a chance.. Now maybe you should talk to someone about how you feel.. make a schedule for your day so you donm't have to think about all these awfull things and journal your day and the end... and I am always here for you if you need me... hope i helped hun
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I Have the biggest crush on my teacher. I stare at him and sometimes he stares back. Sometimes he just stares at me the whole period. He gives me good grades when sometimes I dont earn them. But I seriously think about him alot. What do I do? How do I know if he likes me back?
Hun... It's your teacher he is probably much older than you.. and no offense probably can't see a student in that way.. I know it is hard but you will get over it.. I had the biggest crush on my teacher too... but it's not worth it because they don't think of their students that way... This is just a crush kind of like a phase that you will soon be out of... but hun face the facts... students + teachers = don't match... I know you really like him and thats fine... but don't get to excited, because you'll just end up getting hurt in the end..... hope i helped.. best of luck
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alright. for about two years i have been cutting myself. and at first it was very innocent (little scratches with saftey pins... butter knifes, things like that) then one day i ginaed access to a really sharp razor blade and cut extremely deep. and for a year and a half thats how i have been doing it, because it is so addictive. more than once a day, and so i can go to sleep at night. most of my friends found out, one way or another and eventually my best friend got me to tell the guidance counselor. my dad now knows, and so does my psychiatrist (whom i have been seeing since I was 8 and my mom died). but i know he doesnt want me doing it, and niether do my friends. so latelyt i havent. but things got worse. im always pissed off at everyone, and lash out. also, i have been thinking about suicide more and more. i always considered it before but never like this. but when i talk to my friends, all the do is beg and pleed with me to stop. I CANT. when i was on the bus, i started tasting blood in my mouth, and noticed I had been bitting a chunk of my lip off as a pain reliever involuntarily. last night, I cut again and felt SOOO much better. but im so afraid someone will find out and be angry. im on medicine, and everything, it just sux. snapping rubberbands, and all that doesnt help. I know this is long, but im so upset with myself, I just dont know.
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Hun I do the same thing and you just gotta stop, think about what your doing.. and try to redirect yourself in a different way.
Self-injury is not suicidal behavior. In fact, it may be a way to reduce the tension that, left unattended, could result in an actual suicide attempt. Self-injury is the best way the individual knows to self-sooth. It may represent the best attempt the person has at creating the least damage. However, self-injury is highly linked to poor sense of self-worth, and over time, that depressed feeling can evolve into suicidal attempts. And sometimes self-harm may accidentally go farther than intended, and a life-threatening injury may result. Maybe you should schedule out what you are going to do in your day so you won't have time to cut..... journal at the end of the day.. You could have a brain illness... such as Bi-Polar, Major depression, manic depression, and many more. I think maybe talk to someone you trust it'll help I promise... it isnt bad to get put in a hospital i have been there... they help you.. hang in there hun.
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i wanna smoke some weed because it look like it can be something to try . my brother said he tryed at my age hes 19 im 13 so do I and will i be able to stop
hun i started it and cant really stop.... It's not a cool thing to do.. it's just something i do to relieve stress but after words.. it makes you really depressed.... Marijuana contains lots of different cancer causing chemicals.. After you smoke marijuana here are some of the symptoms Short-term effects include memory and learning problems, distorted perception, and difficulty thinking and solving problems. Now Im not saying this always happens but its a possibitliy Unfortuately, the maxium age most people have tried marijuana is about age 12 and up.
It's common for marijuana users to become engrossed with ordinary sights, sounds, or tastes, and trivial events may seem extremely interesting or funny. Time seems to pass very slowly, so minutes feel like hours. Sometimes the drug causes users to feel thirsty and very hungry-an effect called "the munchies." Some users, especially someone new to the drug or in a strange setting, may suffer acute anxiety and have paranoid thoughts. This is more likely to happen with high doses of THC. These scary feelings will fade as the drug's effects wear off
So hun i just told you a few facts that i know about marijuana, I guess it's just really your desicion from here on... do what you feel is right and do what you feel you want to do. hope i helped
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Im 17/m and here is my problem. Ok Im a senior and prom is comming up soon. Well I have two people in mind to ask out. The first is in my class and I know she likes me. I kinda like her but not as much as she likes me. The other is in 10th grade. I like her but I dont know if she likes me. So now you see my problem. Help please.
I think you should ask the 10th grader first... i dont see why she wouldn't say yes.. she probably doesn't even know you like her... who knows maybe she likes you too.. It doesn't hurt to try... if she says yes.. greats and if she says no.. which i doubt she will... no worries.. you have a date no matter what.... hope i helped hun... have fun at prom
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PLEASE HELP ME!! how do you get your background to appear?? be specific on details. did you have to pay?? what website did you go to?? PLEASE HELP ME
THANKS.. I RIGHT HIGH!
It is free if you go to starlightmks.com on the left hand sid you will see a whole bunch of options.. scroll down until you find backgrounds over on the right hand side a thing will appear scroll down and click on any number... when you find the background you want highlight the writing in it's box and press (ctrl x) then go to advicenators. and scroll down until you find profile settings click on that and go down to where you put information about yourself and press (ctrl v). press the ok button or the change settings whatever you press to confirm it. and then go to your advice comlumn and there it is hope i helped
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this is kinda long so bear with me! :)
a lot of the friends i made were from middle school and we've been friends throughout high school. the thing is, they were a-ok people in middle school. but when high school rolls around it appears that they've changed into hypocritical, outspoken, dramatic, and selfish people. don't get me wrong, i'm not exaggerating nor am i taking things out of context. if you met them, you'd know! take for example a girl who makes fun of the fat people in our school, when she weighs 200 lbs. a girl who complains and whines over an A- on a test. someone who cannot accept the fact that they are wrong. someone who doesn't make any effort for your birthday, or christmas, when every year you get them something.
because of their "new" personality traits, i dropped them because they did not fit my basic ideal aspects in a friend anymore. and whenever i find a new friend, in the end they end up betraying my trust, using me for money, or being just plain inconsiderate to a point that i cannot tolerate anymore.
note, this has happened with nearly 95% of the friends i've had my entire lifetime...
i'm not a bad person for them to be obligated to do such things, but i do admit that i can be a little too trusting and naive at times. is that what they're taking advantage of, or is there something else...? why would they do this to me?
also, because these experiences have given me a new perspective on friendships (not to trust people so easily!), how do i know if i can fully trust someone and that they will be a good friend???
hey hun... I'm kind of in the same situation.... that is good you dropped those friends so you don't start acting that way.. As soon as they seen what they have lost with their immaturity they will come running back (hopefully) Yes i am way to trusting and it sounds like you are the same way.. when you meet someone new don't just throw yourself at them, that makes them think that they have complete control over you.. if everytime their with you and they want something, I mean the same thing over and over again.. Their not really true friends. If they come over just to hang out with you and spend time with you and not ask you for money or anything else like that... thats who you know are you true friends... they will stick by you no matter what happens... you will realize when you have a best friend... when you find one don't let him/her slip out of grip becasue that would be the biggest mistake of your life... well good luck hun and I hope everything works out for you if you have ne more questions my email is babygurl_1099@hotmail.com or you can write a question in my inbox
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if i made out with a girl on a dare... does that make me a lesbian????
No hun not at all... It was a dare and that just means your a daring person... Girls also do that because they like to impress guys and guys do like that.... I do that stuff all the time and even when it is not a dare... and I kno for a fact that I am not a lesbian well hang in ther hun
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How can I get my breasts to be bigger without implants. 14/F.
Hun to tell you the truth you can't just do something to make your boobs bigger.. If you feel uncomfortable with yourself get a padded bra swimsuit. that will work if you drink coffee cut down on that... Your boobs grow also when you gain a little weight.... but I'm sure thats not what you want to do.. I don't know eat healthy that may work too.. lots of luck
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Me & my boyfriend have been going out for 4 beautiful months. Neither of us have ever kissed anyone before, not even each other. We're both too scared to make the move but I really want to kiss him. I'm really shy so how do I let him know I want to without seeming too obvious. I don't want to make a fool of myself. Please give me some advice on how to overcome that fear.
awww. dont be shy you two have been goin out for 4 months you know him... Just look at him and get his attention. then look in his eyes and smile... just kind of touch his chin with your finger and move a little closer and just kiss him... he will be suprised that a girl made the first move.. he will kiss back and then you two will not be afraid ne more
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me and my boo have been going out for 2 weeks we love each other alot and we really wanna make out!!
but how do i?
please help
It's easy just go with it.. I thought the same way when I firsted kissed but the guy told me I was the best kisser he has ever had. The only thing you wanna make sure you don't do is lick his teeth such a turn off.. trust me andif you do it.. just don't put attention to it... Just when he starts sticking his tounge in your mouth do the same thing.. it's not as hard as it seems... well hope i helped hun
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I dont even know where to start. I'm 19/f I've just recently lost my job, me and mom are arguing all the time now i've just lost my boyfriend (He does say hes not sure what he wants, his hearts telling him to stay then his head and family are saying leave) He has dumped me though. I cry all the time and feel down. How can i pick my self back up i dont want to be depressed. I do have a history of self harm and dont want to go back. Please please help. :-(
Hey hun... I am kind of like the same way.. what I do is make a schedule for my every day so I'm always busy and not having time to be depressed fill your day with the stuff you need and want to do. Trust me this works.. then at night before you go to bed.. journal you day.. It helps.. If you see your ex-boyfriend around town or he calls you act like everything is okay.. you never know maybe he will come back to you... hope i helped keep me updated lots of luck
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i love this kid pat that is 2 years older then me.over the summer he stole my bike thats how i fell in love with him. nd he was my first kiss!! like real kiss. any way we made out 5 6 times in the past. were in a fight right now. i still like him though.opps i mean love. any way he likes this girl liz. but he always make me laugh like last nite.. he was flirting w/ me be4 we got into a fight.. idk should i tell him i love him to death and i would do any thing for him? or noo? please help
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Thats sounds really cute... obviously he likes you girl... Just tell him you don't ever mean to hurt him... Ask him if you can tell him something and if he says yes.. say You know what, I really do actaully love you... this isn't normal for me to be saying this but I seriously do feel that way about you... say that and wait to see what he says,, try to hook up with him... go for it gurl... good luck
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I recently met this guy who I really am starting to like a lot. He has even talked about us being togeather, as in boyfriend/girlfriend, but I decided we should take it slow and go out a few more times. He recently admitted to me that he was bisexual. I still really like him a lot, so should this effect me in any way? I'm really confused, please help me. Thanks
If you really like this guy and you truely know that you do, than go for it.. who cares what his sexuality is. He likes you and you like him... It's perfect and if you worried what people might think, don't be cuz you like the guy remember... I think you should go for him before it is to late... Good luck hun
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i want to loose 50 lbs by july, is this even a possibly? and if so what would i have to do? i am really willing to except eat " right " foods i am probably still gonna eat the same i LOVE food
Ya you could do that if you really try i mean i counted and got around 41 lbs if you lose 2 pounds a week and that is the healthy way to do it.. Just eat healthy foods like when you get hungry for a snack stay aways from the fats and eat some fruits or veggies... well good luck and i hope you lose your weight you want too.... :) lots of love
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hey i can't for the love of me figure why we have so many different social relationships. i don't even understand why goths r considered scary i mean i have friends who r goths and they r awsome...help me out!! thnx :)
Thats life hunny... people are gonna be like that until we all grow up and mature and the kids who are kids when we are adults are gonna be doing the same thing... that is just people way of labeling someone... I dont know... I think it's wrong.... i agree 100% with you... but thats how it is gonna be for the rest of our lives..... so hope i helped lots of love
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my mom works at the same school i go 2. there is a dance and i want to go with this guy. i don't know if my mom would approve. what should i do?
sit your mom down and tell her the situation... tell her you really wanna go to the dance with him... and it would mean alot to you.. moms arent as tough if you calmly sit down and talk to them.. well hope i helped keep me updated..
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one of my bestfriends just called me to tell me that like one of my bestesteset friends house is on fire..she knew this because her dad is a firefighter..no one knows where my friend is and im startin to freak out..we're doing the paper together and im hoping shes ok.would it be nosey to drive over there?
Signed,
Freaked out Friend
no it wouldnt be nosy at all t o drive over there she will respect that you care for her and are worried about her... it would be greatly appricaiated from her and her family if you checked up on them... don't really talk to her about the paper right away tho... maybe you could even get your school to start a fundraiser like a hat day or something to raise money so they can get some new things it would help them out a lot thats what my school does
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This kid in my school asked me to this party and I turned him down because i knew no one would dance. I want to know if he still likes me but i'm scared to ask. What do i do??
You should tell him you will take that offer to the party it doesn't matter if no body dances he wants you to go with him... and that takes a lot of guts for a guy to ask out a girl he is probably feeling pretty bad right now... take the offer before it's too late.. please take my advice you won't regret it.... lots of luck
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but last night i was messing around with my friend's bf. he's my friend too, and it wasn't anything sexual, it was just dancing kinda kinky...and these wierd stalker friends of hers told her (the girl with the bf) and i dont know if shes mad at me or not...i asked her, and she said she wasnt...but how can i know for sure? was what i did wrong?
not to make you feel bad or nothing but that was really wrong... I mean wouldn't you get mad if your friend did that with your boyfriend the best you can do is not to let it happen again.. and keep saying you sorry if she says okay and not in a sincere way then she will probably need a little time... but hang in there hunny it'll all work out in the long run
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