Question Posted Saturday February 12 2005, 10:42 am
This kid in my school asked me to this party and I turned him down because i knew no one would dance. I want to know if he still likes me but i'm scared to ask. What do i do??
nachoxqween answered Saturday February 12 2005, 11:43 pm: This is one of the few times when it's okay to have a friend to talk a guy for you. If you're friends with his friends, that makes it easier. Maybe just have them casually ask him? [ nachoxqween's advice column | Ask nachoxqween A Question ]
MiZzAdViCe16 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 4:49 pm: call a friend that has 3 way have her call this boy and you will be there to listening in but he wont know that you there if you have a mute button on the phone great use it but if not then just be really quiet i have done this before and still to this day the boy still doesnt know i was there
dreamingkat answered Saturday February 12 2005, 12:22 pm: I assume your interested in knowing if he still likes you because you like him and are interested in getting to know him better.
You could also ask him how the party went, and then, since your talking about it anyway ;) mention that you really don't like parties that don't have dancing. If it turned out there was dancing, you can express regret at not going. Just to make things crystal clear to him, you can follow things up by inviting him to do something. If he says no, part with something like "well, if you ever want to go dancing [or whatever - something different than what you asked him to do with you], I'm interested in going with you." That lets him know a few things that you like doing, and that your still interested in him.
Alternatively, if approaching him is too hard, you could write him a note to say that you rejected the event, not him, and how he can contact you to get together sometime. Make sure you mention a few things you like doing so he can invite you to something you'll say yes to. [ dreamingkat's advice column | Ask dreamingkat A Question ]
LostAngel answered Saturday February 12 2005, 11:53 am: Why did you turn him down? So what you don't have to dance its a great way to get to know him. Ask him if he still wants to go and say Your sorry and that you'll go with him. It gives you both a chance to find out what the other person is like.
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