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My name is Thao and I'm 15 years old. I go to Northeast High which is currently in Maryland. I like to do anything and everything mostly..just name it!! Well, feel free to ask me anything and I will try my best to answer your questions!!!
Gender: Female
Location: Maryland
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: Dat Guh Thao
Member Since: February 11, 2005
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Last Update: February 14, 2005
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I want to get a doggie this spring! I want a small doggie that I can spend time with. Easy to train, and it likes to play and spend time with me. any ideas? (link)
Chihuahuas are good. They`re small, they are easy to train, and they like to play!


Ok, my friend Chris and I are TOTALLY weird. We both have shoes, and were like in love with them! We spit polish them, try not to get them into the mud, and admire them. My Baby Phats are sitting next to me right now and I'm admiring them as I type. Anyway, is this normal? I'm just wondering.

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Baby Phat Lover (link)
Well, people love shoes, but i'm sure they actually mean they really love them like that where you can just sit with them and admire them haha, but yeah sure it's normal!


ok sorry if this is kinda long....this is really hard for me to talk about ive never talked about this with anyone other than my aunt...
ok so my 28 year old aunt came and visited me and we are really close...and i was telling her that i think my parents are growing apart...and she said "no offense sweetie, but ive kinda always had a theory that your dad is gay, i mean me and your mom talk and the last time they had sex was when your brother was concieved...10 years ago" and naturally, i did take offense but i didn't tell her...the truth is is that ive always kinda thought the same thing but i haven't told anyone. ive been thinking about it recently because i caught my dad flirting with his boss (who is gay and tells everyone that he is) and my parents haven't spent there last two anniversaries together! my mom was out of state so my dad decided to spend them with his boss!! my dad also uses phrases like "oh my gosh" and "whatever" in a velley girl way...and he is very into fashion...and he is very feminine in everything he does....i mean hes not tall and buff actually quite the opposite...hes about 5'3 and 160 lbs.! I don't know what to do...some of my friends have asked me if hes gay and it really hurts me...but now...im starting to believe them...please help me! What should i do?? should i talk to my mom about this???

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Ill rate for anyone who actually takes my feelings into consideration... (link)
Well, you cant change how someone feels or the way they just are..but, it would help if you do talk to your mom about that. i'm sorry, but i hope it helps!!


i'm like a tomboy. And i have my first boyfreind. But the thing is that he is shorter then me and i get picked on about that. But he is really sweet. (link)
Well, if you like him it shouldn`t matter what people think!!


I'm 6'11" 430lbs Male. I need a plan for weight loss, and i need to lose it soon. My doctor has suggested surgery, and i do not want to go there until i absoulty have to. It is literally killing me. Please give me some low cost solutions on losing weight. Thanks. (link)
Okay, you need a organized schedule! so it helps your body get used to the everyday thing! Do exercises that help every part of your body at the same time everyday! Find things to do that dont involve sitting or just laying around! That includes watching tv for hours straight. Most of all eat healthy!! Not so much junk food! If you cant resist, then really your not helping much! thats all I can say!! hope it helps!


is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit? (link)
there`s is absolutely nothing wrong with that! everyone babysits now and then. males or females!


Tonight I have to babysit for two twin girls who are 5. I cant keep them busy and in my control. Can anybody give me some pointers?
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Well, I've dealt with 5-year old girls and they always love playing with barbies and little girly games like play house or whatever! Just come up with something like that, and you'll get their attention!


My dog just died today and I'm soooo sad! =( She didn't suffer, thank god, but I just can't get over it. She was the greatest dog, and I love her so much. What can I do to feel better?
Thanks (link)
Well, there is nothing you can do really, if she's gone, she's gone you know. At least you remember her being so "great". Just know that.


Is it wrong to cry if your dog died and you've known her since you were a toddler? My friends would think it's silly, and when you think about it, it kind of is. Does anybody else think it's silly? (link)
There is nothing wrong with crying over your dog, especially if you've known it since you were a toddler! dogs are just like family, you grow up with them, you see them, you live with them, you play with them. It's not silly! I would cry if my dog dies! which i hope my or yours won't!


my dog bites alot, we can not stop him. sometimes he is good somtimes he is bad. how do i cure his problem? (link)
well, if your dog bites alot..buy him chew toys!! like bones at pets mart or wal-mart!! make sure if you buy him bones that they help his teeth too! so that it wont ruin his teeth! it usually helps my dog when i do that!! i get my dog's attention on the bone!!


What are some ways to clean my dedicates like bras and pantyhose? They always come out tattered and deformed in the regular wash. (link)
Well, some dedicate bras are hand washed, thats why its not made for washing. I usually use soap and let it lay in water and then lay it flat to dry!! But, I have no idea about the pantyhoses. sorry! but I hope some of that helped!


This kid in my school asked me to this party and I turned him down because i knew no one would dance. I want to know if he still likes me but i'm scared to ask. What do i do?? (link)
just talk to him about stuff and then bring it up.


who will i fuck next (link)
haha uhhh sorry, can't help you on that one! i'm not psychic!


i used 2 always see matthew in school and hes always stare at me and smile. then i met him and he was friends with my boyfriend and whenever my boyfriend would go to the bathroom matthew would say mike if i was you i wouldnt get up your girls kind of cute i wanna sit with her..so it was sort of weird.. all the time in school he always says hi to me and yesterday i was in lunch and hes in the same one but i was walkin out of the caf to go to the bathroom and he was walkin in and like hugged my hips with like one hand and was like hey beautiful where are u going.. then later i was walkin by and he said hey and i said hi and kept walking and he was like how come you always walk away from me? so i stayed and he was like call me tonight if you want to hangout.. do u think he lykes me (link)
well if he always says hi to you and stuff and always says things that refer to you in obvious ways, then yeah i think he likes you. i mean, he always looks at you right? and hes always wants something to do with you. if he says he wants to hangout and all that stuff, then yeah..he likes ya gurl!


My like bff asked me out and I cant picture him as my bf but i dont want to say no but i dont want to say yes so wat do i say????? (link)
Okay, just if you dont wanna say no or yes then just say what you think is best. But, just say you like it better when you guys are just "best friends" you know.. I mean he`s your best friend! Im sure he'll understand!!


ugh okay. so i used to date this kid.. and everything was cool for a while until he started to be a real jerk to my friend. so we broke up and we got into this HUGE argument and it was a big ugly mess. & now, he's dating my "aquaintence" who is a slut, and i don't really like her but she thinks were really good friends but she smells terrible and he's only going out with her to get some action and its obvious. but everytime anyone mentions him or i see him (which is on a rare occasion, but i still do) i get really really really mad and i say im ok and blah blah blah im over it w/e.. but i dont think i really am.. wtf do i do to get fully over this mess? (link)
well, just tell your friends how you really feel cause if you dont and everytime you see the guy it'll just make you mad even more. so just forget him, no need to deal with jerks, its just wasting your time too.


Last year i went to this valentines day dance. my best friend had a girlfriend and i didnt and i felt like a "tag-along". he has so many girls that like him and i think it might happen again this year. i was thinking that i might try to ask someone too but i dont really like anyone so i dont have anyone to ask. I was just going to find someone that i liked a little bit and ask her but im not sure. Should i ask somebody or should i go alone like last year? What should i do? Please help. (link)
Okay, I think you should ask someone! I mean, If you dont want to feel like a "tag-along" like last year, you should ask someone! Plus, it would be more fun. If you dont have anyone you really like or whatever, ask one of your friends!




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