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ugh okay. so i used to date this kid.. and everything was cool for a while until he started to be a real jerk to my friend. so we broke up and we got into this HUGE argument and it was a big ugly mess. & now, he's dating my "aquaintence" who is a slut, and i don't really like her but she thinks were really good friends but she smells terrible and he's only going out with her to get some action and its obvious. but everytime anyone mentions him or i see him (which is on a rare occasion, but i still do) i get really really really mad and i say im ok and blah blah blah im over it w/e.. but i dont think i really am.. wtf do i do to get fully over this mess?
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well, just tell your friends how you really feel cause if you dont and everytime you see the guy it'll just make you mad even more. so just forget him, no need to deal with jerks, its just wasting your time too.
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the first thing you should do is everytime you start to get mad or miss him, just think of how big of a jerk he was. then just take a look around you a realize there are so many other wonderful guys out there who would love to be with and who be a lot nicer. you could also try a "reward" method, if you're into that kind of thing, like everytime you feel like missing him, but stop yourself by realizing he's a jerk, reward yourself with a small something that you wanted to buy, or small box of chocolates or something. lol i'm not sure if you'd like doing that, but i think it might help. lol i hope i helped some.
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well, lets first start with the double standard of her being a slut. i mean, come on... just about everyone has sex now-a-days. Even I am a slut...i guess. No, really..let's get down to business. You dated him, had your differences and now it is over. it is on you to move on. I know it is hard. the thought of my ex's bf john having sex with my ex-wife severly screwed my head up. YOU MUST LET GO. It's his loss. You may not be over it, but quit beating yourself up. All in due time, dear. now, weather this girl is a slut or she smells bad is irrelevant. your comparing yourself to this chick wondering what does she have that i don't. understandable? yes.
there are 4 ways to deal with this. 1) pray and talk to jesus and read your bible 2) spend some time with your self to find who you are 3) spend money and eat choclate ice cream. 4) suck it up, drive on and move on. be strong; thats what i say!
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