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whats a good and inexpenicve way to make ur teeth look whiter ...i brush everyday with colgate or crest but does anyone kno a really good toothpasate or like thing to make ur teeth whiter?? {crest whitestrips are like 30 bucks and im only 13 how can i afford that?
teeths (link)
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Dear Teeth,
I use Crest for toothpaste, and then i use the product Simply White. It works for me, and its easy. You may feel dorky doing it, but its worth it. and you only have to do it for 1 or 2 weeks! But you have to do it everynight! If you dont know what i'm talking about, its the gel that you brush on your teeth and smile in the mirror for 30 seconds. It works for me, so give it a try!
~miSSc~
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I never had my 1st kiss and I'm 15 now, and i want 2 get my 1st kiss..but i'm nurves,i'm afraid that i will suck at it and i have no idea what to do!Plz tell me how can i not be nurves and just relax.
Thnx,
Ana (link)
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Dear Ms. Hot Lips,
Your really scared about your first kiss right? Well, I think the only way it could go wrong is tense up and kiss him. Kissing you normally do with someone you really care about, unless your playing a game or at a make out party. But if you can't get the butterflies out of your stomach, just take a deep breath, but not too loud, and when the moment is right, kiss him. If you dont know when the moment is right, then make sure your in a place where no1 is around, unless you dont care if people see, but its more romatic alone, have small talk, and ask him if you can kiss him. Or after the small talk, and the awkward silence comes, kiss him on the cheek and maybe he will turn his head and kiss you. But if your at home and before you see your date, make sure you brush your teeth! even if you two dont kiss. lol.
Hope that helps! You can rate me if you want!
That would help me a ton. Thanks!
~miSSc~
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im a huge snowboarder, but this season i took a lot of bad falls, and since my knee has locked in place and it popps easily. i really want to do other sports but with this injury i cant, it also cuts into my sicial life because i hurt it alot, when i was at a concert it popped out and we had to leave early. is ther anything i can do to help it? (link)
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Dear Mr. Snowboarder,
I'm not a doctor, but I would consider seeing one. Make an appointment, and see whats going on. Hopefully it doesn't leads to surgery, but if it does I will keep you in my prayers even though its not brain or open heart surgery.
That's all the advice i've got 4 ya. But the other day, i was watching Star Search, and there was this 14 year old boy (or somewhere around that age) there was something wrong with his legs and the doctor had to break his legs and do some surgery, and now he is the best young dancer i've ever seen!
~MiSSc~
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hey, are there any things i should know about lisa? that way i dont screw up drematically (link)
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Dear Mr. Lisa Lover,
Lisa likes tall guys, she LOVES Jeremy Sumpter/Peter Pan like i do. I'm not sure if she is looking for a boy friend right now,but she might give you a try, but its totally up to her. She a flirt. She likes you and travis, but travis has a girl friend so there's not much of a competition for ya. She has a dog named Fibi (Fe-be, dont know how she spells it). the Dog is named after the girl from friends. She has a older sister Jessica, and Lisa likes to Act, Sing, and Dance.
Thanks for coming to me for advice! I hope that helps! If you have anymore questions and need advice, feel free to come to me! I love helping people and friends ::wink wink::.
~miSSc~
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im tryin to make a long story short it mite be hard to make out, and if it is, go to my column...im southern_chickety, and ask me!!
i've wanted to be an actress for the past 2 years
i love acting, and i take theatre classes, my mom wont support me in it tho, because the said it's a hard career, and it wont be easy to find a job, and it wont be cheap, and we dont have the money to spend, i mean my parents are raising 3 kids, and they have one in college
i wanna go to acting skool and stuff, but now every1 is sayin if i go to acting skool ill just become a broadway actress, and i dont wanna do broadway, i wanna do movies
i'm really confused, should i follow my dreams,and try to be an actress or listen to the family¿¿??
im 14/f/nc (link)
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Dear Southern Chickety,
If this is something that you really want to do, then go for it! If money is an issue and your parents are so up-tight about it, then get a job and find some place where they offer Screen Acting, like an agency or something. You will probably fine that in the phone book. There is a difference between Theatre Acting and Screen Acting and if u want to become a movie star, i would consider the Screen Acting. Since you are taking advice from a professional of the acting business, try and remember these tips...1) Acting may come natural to you, and it may take a while, or a year or few. 2) If you want your dream to come true, then you must stay true to yourself. 3) If you want your dream to come true, you must have faith in your self. 4) Always stay positive, no matter who tells you or how much someone tells you anything negative. 5)When it comes to auditons, it may take 1,000 no's, and maybe, just maybe there will be 1 yes. 6) If you feel like your never gonna get in an audition, STAY positive and say I will do a 1,000 more because I never know who will want me in their movie/show. 7) Directors and Producers will look all over the world to find that one person that they are looking for, so don't give your hopes up!
I might have more advice for you once I get in the big screens, because I have been there, but i'm staying positive. I have auditioned for a number of things, last audition i auditioned for Nickeloadeon and didn't get in, I was bummed but now i'm gonna audition for the Disney Channel, and if they love me then they can have me, if they dont, i'll move on.
If you have any more questions feel free to ask!
~miSSc~
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I've known this guy for six months, and we fight a lot. But in all honesty, i care about him more than i've ever cared about someone. I told him I never wanted to talk to him again after our last fight (and I really meant it), but it's hurt him a lot. I can't figure out if things would be better if we didn't talk, or kept being friends. (link)
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Dear SOG,
If you are wondering what SOG is, it's the subject of your question "Stay or Go?". Back to the question. Ok, before I answer to your question, let me ask you a couple questions...do YOU think it would be better if you two didn't talk? Do you WANT to be friends with him? If I were you, I would say I am sorry, and tell him I still want to be his friend. If he wont accept you as a friend I doubt he'll be your boyfriend, and he wont be a very good friend and not very forgiving. It's okay to fight whether its a big fight or little. It's ok to fight with words but not physically...but hopefully that's not the fight your talking about, but i don't think it is. Guys will be guys and no matter how much you love them your still gonna fight, but try to have a lot of good times together and not bad, in order to do that, it's sometimes best to TRY and agree with stuff and each other. But if you don't want to do something you dont want to do, dont do it. You are your own boss. So if he doesn't want to be your girlfriend, don't force him or he will be less fond of you.
I hope that helps! If you have any(more) questions feel free to ask! If I'm not making sense or you have a question about my answer you can always write me back! Tell all your Advicenator friends to come to me 4 advice if you can, I love helping people!
~MiSSc~
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ok so i went out with this girl (we'll call her jane) ok so me and jane started goin out last year march 20th 2003 and we were good for the first 3 months talkin and hangin out like we were meant for each other and really havin a good time then she broke up with me but i kept goin at it and we started goin back out keepin our original date so bout 9 months into the relationship shyt started gettin bad and we hardley ever talked, hung out or nethin but we still loved each other and shyt but when we talked we constantly fought.. so when march 20th came up this year it would have been a year and i thought that was pretty special idk maybe that sounds gay cuz imma guy but i really thought it was special and i wanted to spend time with her and everythin.. but we didnt talk or see each other at all and she didnt even call me so i got mad like ne other person would.. so we talk the next day and shes actin like nothins wrong so i get tired of it and i ask her if she still loves me and all that and shes like i love u but i dont have the same feelings for u nemore so i was like iight well then i dont wann go out with u nemore..... so its been over 3 months since we broke up but im in love with her and i dont wann let her outta my life ya kno so i keep goin at it but she stays at sayin that shes not ready for a relationship and so my question is....should i keep goin at it with her or just move on?
thanx
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Dear Mr. Anonymous,
You sound like me and my ex. We went through the exact same thing. We lasted 2 1/2 years, but probably broke up 30 times. And last Oct. we broke up for good. And after all of the good times and bad, I learned something from it...only I can provide my own happiness. Everything that happeneds is/was MY choice. So, I made a decision, instead of pushing him away, and trying to bring back love I can't have, I can always be his friend. So, instead of pushing him away, I accepted it. See what I'm saying? See what I'm saying? So, say my lesson to yourself, even if you feel like a dork, it's one lesson that is a lesson of life. "I can provide my OWN happiness. Everything is MY decision. Everying is MY choice. I can push Jane away, or I can accept the decision she made 3 months ago, and be her friend, so I can always be with her, and start all over again as friends, maybe later in the future get together as a couple again. Or I can try telling Jane I love her and take the chance of her taking it, or leaving it because THAT decision is hers." The choice is up to you.
I hope that helps! Remember you can always come to me for advice, the choice is up to you! LoL.
Sincerely,
MiSSc
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how do u get a better voice? (link)
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Dear Singer,
Singing is a talent. Some people have it, and some people don't. Others are born with it, and others have to wait. Some people can hit the highest note on the piano, most can not. If you want to become a singer, I would get a vocal teacher. Someone who will show you notations, breathing, and find your singing range, and try to increase your singing range. But before you go out and start singing with your vocal teacher, think of what type of singing you would like to do. There is a lot of varity to choose from, and you can use as many styles as you'd like. If you can't deside maybe your vocal teacher can help you, or/and find what style suits you. Singing isn't easy, so you must always remember, when the going gets tough the tough gets going. Always stay strong no matter how hard it is. One day it will be easy for you, but it might take a months, or years. But never say never, but only if you don't like your vocal teacher because you can change to a different vocal teacher if things aren't working out. When things aren't working out, or you feel like calling it quits, just say to yourself, "I've come this far, and I can go further...but, is this what I really want? I can make my dream of being a singer come true, or I can find another dream." Dreams do come true, only you can provide your own happiness. So, make a phone call, hook yourself up with a vocal teacher, and give it your best till you become the best.
I hope that helps! You can always come to me for advice if you'd like!
Sincerelly,
MiSSc
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i need to no how u find a boyfriend...help me asap.
thxx (link)
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Dear Boyless,
Sorry, i couldn't think of a better name for you. Ok back to the question, how old are you? Are you ready for a boyfriend? Its EASY to look for a guy. Well that's EASY to say if your boy crazy. LOL. First of all, don't just go to the mall/street and ask for a guys number. That could lead you to a lot of danger. Look for one of your guy friends or a guy that you actually know. You'll defintly know when you like a boy, because they'll give you butterflies, or you start saying stupid stuff, or you start acting different, or you can't get your mind off them. Or you may think one of your guy friend is cute. Just ask them on a date. And then if you decide that you REALLY like this guy after the date then you got yourself a boyfriend. =)
~MiSSc~
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Eh, okay. I have a friend whom I cannnnot give advice! I just can't do it. Her problem is too complicated. So someone give me advice to give her.:P It'd be so appreciated. Her prob.:
"I've liked this guy, Alex, for about a year now. All throughout school I've never talked to him alone. Only during 1st period. (The only class I have with him) My problem is I'm at least 30 pounds over weight, but I'm popular...I'll admit it. I'm too shy to talk to Alex. I feel like he'll diss me, or something. But he seems really nice, and he's funny. But he's also one of those real popular guys. Omg, he's fucking sexy. Lol. Whhhhat do I do?"
Kks. Thanks tons, you all. xoxox Mariah
The girl's name is Jordan, if ya like...wanna write to her.:P (link)
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Dear Mariah,
Before i start i love your name! and thank you for comming to me for advice!! Ok back to business. I'm gonna pretend i'm giving advice to jordan, and i'd be more than happy if you took my advice and gave it to her, but if you want, u can say to her that u had a little help from a friend ;). Dear Jordan, you say you really like this guy alex for a long amount of time, but haven't talked to him 1 on 1, your affraid if you tell him how u feel he might make fun of u, or because your over weighted. If he's so nice, then he wouldn't make fun of you, and if he does, then i wouldn't bother liking him anymore because there are other guys in the world that will treat you better. And if u are over weighted don't worry about it! Just be yourself, and tell him how u feel, and hopefully he'll say something possitive. If he doesn't just say, i may be fat but your ugly and i can loose weight ;) lol. Ok Mariah, how does that sound? You can use my advice, but just use different words. You know what's kinda weird? I'm dating a guy named Alex, I hope she doesn't like him! Lol. Remember u can come to me for advice ANYTIME hun!
MiSSC
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I am 13 going on 14 and only 5'2 . I am tired of wearing super high heels as my mum hates it when i do this , and on top of that , my crush is about 5'11 !!! . Thats like , 9 whole inches taller than me .Which means that I only reach up till his shoulder , not wearing heels .
( He's 14 going on 15 ) Do you think that i am too short for him ? How can i grow taller ?? ( I know it seems impossible to MAKE myself grow taller , but any special diet suggestions ? ) (link)
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Dear Height-ie,
Girl, when it comes to love, it don't matter about height! I'm 5'2 too! And I read in a magazine, that guys DIG girls who are shorter than them. So, take OFF those high heels and show the real YOU! I know TONS of 5'6-6 ft guys who have crushes on me, and i've dated a guy who was really tall, and now i'm dating a guy who's shorter than me. So it doesn't matter HOW tall or short you are...it just depends on how BIG your heart is. Hope that helps!
Missc
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i broke up with my boyfriend because we werent acting like boyfriend and girlfriend... like whats the point of going out with someone if you act like more that friends when you are just friends and when we are more than friends we act like nothing! i still like him but i know we are better off being friends! what should i do?!?!?!?HELP!!!!!!! (link)
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Well, if you really like this guy and he really likes you in return, then give him another chance. And this time, if he's not making the moves, then you should...and eventually he's start pickin' up and loose the shy act. I mean, hey it's gotta be easier than training dogs! Well, hope this helps!
Missc
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I Was cast as puck in act five for the school play. I really hate that part. I really want to be in the school play but I really don't want to be puck, especially in act five. I don't understand why they cast me as puck since I'm a girl and auditioned for Titania and the lovers. What should I do? (link)
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When it comes to Auditioning, you shouldn't put your expectations so high. You have to remember, you're not the director, and you're not casting the show. And even though you may be a girl and auditioned for a girl role, doesn't necessarly mean that you'll get the part. I'm sure there's gonna be more than one girl to audition at an audition. Plus when it comes to casting, you have to have talent and stage pressents and have that magnitisim towards the auditions and facials. Even if you do have talent and people say that your really good and you are good, doesn't mean that you'll get the part you want. It also has to do with what the casting directors are looking for. If they want a tan girl with brown hair and blue eyes and sound like what they want and is the age that they want or height, you have all that plus talent, then you got the part! But it all depends on what they're looking for. I've tried out for Smallville, Lion King on Broadway and StarSearch. And I thought I did really good! And I almost made it into Smallville, but I wasn't what they were looking for, and the other Auditions I wasn't what they were looking for. Remember this, "if it's ment to be, then it will happen, and if you don't get what you truely want, there's something even better out there for you!" That's my quote. I don't mean to let you down...but that's what casting directors are for. HAHA!
Sincerely,
MiSSc
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I have a crush on my foster sister's boyfriend and he is younger than me, should I tell him about it or not let anyone know about how I feel for him? I need help. (link)
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Dear Confused,
The problem you seem to have is like...liking your best friends boyfriend, only she's family kinda. Think about this...Are you and your foster sister really close? Is he really worth it? If you and your foster sister's boyfriend got together...then what? Would she ever trust you again? Let's say you had a boyfriend and your foster sister liked him and tryed to hook up...how would you feel? Or is there no difference? If you REALLY, TRUELY, like him (if he's worth it..)then talk to her. But if you don't think that the relationship between the boyfriend and you will last very long...then don't bother. I can give you all the advice you want...but it's your feelings that will give you the answer. And remember 2 things...you can always come to me for advice, and feel free to ask as many questions as you like. and, "there are plenty of fish in the sea." In other words, there are plenty of boys in the world, but there's a perfect one, just for you.
Sincerely,
MiSSc
PS if your still confused feel free to write back =)
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i have friends but the second i turn my back they talk about me make fun of me and they are so two faced and a backstabber because they always go crawling back to my arch arrival enemy antonia what should i do? (link)
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Dear Friend,
I'm not sure if there is such thing as friends until the end or best friends forever. I think it might be so, but only if you have a good bond between you and your friend. But I wouldn't count on the "friends until the end" because, I once had a friend...and we've know each other since dippers. And I thought we would be "friends until the end". But then her dad got into a car accident and is now 100% disabled and just recently her mom died. And now she's into drugs and smoking and drinking, piercing her tongue, and dying her hair purple, when she use to be role modles for others and the perfect beauty. I mean, we still keep in touch, but the friendship we have is...faded. I guess what I'm trying to say is, friends change. And just when you think that nothing will keep you apart something happends. But it doesn't happen to everyone. But the friends that you have which are "backstabbers,two faced," bullies. I wouldn't necessarily call them "friends". Friends are the people that will be there for you, let you have a shoulder to cry on, call you to talk, go shopping with, make you laugh, cheer you on at something your good at, but most of all make you smile...but never make you question if they are really your true friend. I hope you can see the difference, and see what i'm trying to get through to you. But to simplify it for you...
if they make you cry
and wonder why,
then they aren't your friend,
and won't be there till the end.
Sincerely,
MiSSc
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how do I becom a better speler and reder? Im deslecksic (link)
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Dear Person That Needs Help,
at first I wasn't a perfect reader either. But I think the best route to go is to practice a lot. Like reading more than you normally would. But start out at your level and try and pick a short book (10-15 pages or more, depends on your reading skill) or just start out with the first chapter. Then cover one eye and read through it, and you can switch eyes if you want. Then read it again and read it out loud, then with out reading through it again or looking back, try and remember what you just read. Then if it makes sence then go on to another book. If it didn't make sence then read it again. Once you get get comfortable then go on to a higher level and a different book. And the better you get the better your spelling will get. And even though it might take a while or forever just say to yourself, "IT'S WORTH IT! (\(^v^)/)". Here's a little piece of advice if you get to a word that you don't know, look it up, and if you don't know how to pronounce a word, ask a friend or family member or teacher.
I hope that helps!
Sincerely,
MiSSc
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Okay, today at lunch a guy that's friends with my friend "Tim" asked me out for Tim. Nice, huh? Well, problem is, I don't feel the same way about Tim... I don't wanna say no to him, cuz I'd feel soooo horrible, but I don't wanna date someone when I like this other guy A LOT. One of my best friends said that I should date Tim for a week, and dump him if I don't like him. I think that'd be evil! WHAT SHOULD I DO?! (link)
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Let me get this straight, you don't like Tim, but Tim likes you, but you like another guy. Correct? I get this all the time. Well, you don't want to "play" Tim, but you don't want to hurt his feelings because he's your friend. Well, you diffently don't want to play him because you wouldn't be a good friend and you wouldn't be true to yourself. But if you say no to him then, if he's really your friend then he might be ok with it. But he probably won't get over it that day that second, it might take a while...it just depends how much he likes you. But if I were you after you tell him "no" I would give him a hug to kinda let him know that you are still his friend instead of just saying "NO" then walk away which might hurt him more and might take longer for him to get over you. I hope that helps!
Sincerely,
MiSSc
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I think I'm going to ask the kid I like out...in a note? He was just so cute today...it was like a movie...and he's not that average heartthrob boy either. He's a ghetto white boy. But he's just...i dont know...should I? What should I say? He doesn't know me but it's worth a shot right?
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OK, so he's the cutiest guy in the world. But maybe there's more to him than that. Or maybe he's not what you thought he was. But before you ask him out and rush things, get to know him first, and not just his name. Because if you rush it and ask him out he might say, "no" because he doesn't even know who you are. So, get to know him and he just might say, "YES!".
Sincerely,
MiSSc
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Hi i dont think i can memorize my lines in time.suggestion? (link)
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You say that you don't have a lot of time to memorize your lines. I often get that and I'm normally the Lead (Main Character)and I end up studing the week before the show!!! LOL. ANYWAYS, If you have enough time, read your lines and try to figure out what your Character is saying or how your Character would react in that line. Get familiar with your lines be constantly reading the lines over and over and over then once you think you got it, take away the script and say the lines in order. It's okay if you don't have the lines word for word as long as it's close to the line then it's ok. But instead of memorizing JUST your lines, you should memorize 1 or two lines before yours. Even if it's not your line you can know when to say your line. You know what I'm sayin'? After when you have accomplished that, you might want to think about your Characters personality, is she/he funny, sexy, stupid, evil, weird, intelligiant, etc. Once you have conqured those steps say your lines in the mirror. If you feel stupid, then that means your doing it right! If you have ANY questions or concerens about memorizing lines or anything in general feel free to ask and I assure you I will get right back at you ASAP!
Sincerely,
MiSSc
PS- is this who I think it is?
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I wanna be what i feel like being! But if people start rejecting me, my life will be horrible I wanna be a punk is that a bad choice? I already aske dmy mom she seems fine with it. .and well I want that change! but should I not do it, 4 my friends? (link)
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If you want to make a change, and your READY for a change, I say go for it. But when it comes to your friends...I think they are worried that by the way you dress might change who you are and your personality. They way you dress can change your attitude. Also the way you dress, people might get a different perspective and may not treat you the same or how you want them to treat you. As I said before if you WANT to make a change and your READY for the change then, go for it. Just don't change who you are, because if you do change who you are, you may have to start over on who you were or want to be.
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