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Alex
Eh, okay. I have a friend whom I cannnnot give advice! I just can't do it. Her problem is too complicated. So someone give me advice to give her.:P It'd be so appreciated. Her prob.:
"I've liked this guy, Alex, for about a year now. All throughout school I've never talked to him alone. Only during 1st period. (The only class I have with him) My problem is I'm at least 30 pounds over weight, but I'm popular...I'll admit it. I'm too shy to talk to Alex. I feel like he'll diss me, or something. But he seems really nice, and he's funny. But he's also one of those real popular guys. Omg, he's fucking sexy. Lol. Whhhhat do I do?"
Kks. Thanks tons, you all. xoxox Mariah
The girl's name is Jordan, if ya like...wanna write to her.:P <3
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if he's reallly nice and really likes jordan then he wouldn't care what she weighed. maybe he's not that superficial and doesn't care at all.
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Dear Mariah,
Before i start i love your name! and thank you for comming to me for advice!! Ok back to business. I'm gonna pretend i'm giving advice to jordan, and i'd be more than happy if you took my advice and gave it to her, but if you want, u can say to her that u had a little help from a friend ;). Dear Jordan, you say you really like this guy alex for a long amount of time, but haven't talked to him 1 on 1, your affraid if you tell him how u feel he might make fun of u, or because your over weighted. If he's so nice, then he wouldn't make fun of you, and if he does, then i wouldn't bother liking him anymore because there are other guys in the world that will treat you better. And if u are over weighted don't worry about it! Just be yourself, and tell him how u feel, and hopefully he'll say something possitive. If he doesn't just say, i may be fat but your ugly and i can loose weight ;) lol. Ok Mariah, how does that sound? You can use my advice, but just use different words. You know what's kinda weird? I'm dating a guy named Alex, I hope she doesn't like him! Lol. Remember u can come to me for advice ANYTIME hun!
MiSSC
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Well be confident talk to him im sure nothing can go wrong just a normal convorsation like how are things going and then after you guys talk for a bit everything will lead into another and everything will wind up good. Dont worry if your over weight and if that gets to him then he is low and pathetic. And you can do much better. On the other hand if he doesnt care about weight then stick with him and just make a move. Or maybe have a friend talk to him about what he thinks of you. good luck! trix
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Well, definitely talk to the guy, and be yourself!! Never ever feel that you can't talk to someone because they'll diss you! People are like that, true, but you need to just start talking to him because if you don't you'll never know! I bet he'll like you! If he seems pretty nice than he might just be and if thats the case you should have no fear of starting a conversastion! Best of luck hunnie!!!
-Mandee
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LoL, this is like soo funny because I had the same exact problem, well I liked this boy alot, and always told him how I felt and we had only first period together. Language arts! Ur weight shouldnt be a problem if he liked u he would accept you for the way you are. And who is this Jordan gurl...do you live in missisppi...Cuz I might know who you are talking about and be able to help you out!
YEAH I WAS THE ONE WHO WROTE THIS..LOL..HEY DO YOU GOT AIM IF SO INSTANT MESSAGE ME ON AIM...JAMESBAYBIGURL!!!!! HOLLA!
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