I like this guy who is shy when it comes to girls and weve been friends forever but hes like this all of a sudden. he thinks im scary but who cares i dont wana be like every other girl i stand out haha. He crushed me worse than i ever have been and didn’t realize a thing. He comes back from vacation the last week end of spring break what can I do. I need to do something we went so long with nothing. What can I do or say? he wont go to the mall and says our houses are to akward theres never parties anymore idk were else to go. ANYTHING will help im 14
well u know wat i know how u feel i just turned fourteen and all the guys my age are pretty much like this, guys are on puberty and most of them are shy around girls, thats why maybe he thinks your "scary" and its good to stand out. You guys can like go to the movies or the park or anywhere that fun, and if he wont go to the mall theres other ways to get him to, if he has an interest in something like for example skateboarding you can say theres a skateboarding shop that has great gear lets go check it out! wateer he like try to do those things with him!
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Im really curious about lesbian sex ! I get really turned on when i think about doing it with a women but iv only ever done it with a man should i give it a try ? im 21 and female
yea sometimes curiosity is a good thing you gotta figure out what u want so u may have to "experiment"
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i'm making a cd for my boyfriend and i have a few cute songs and like "you make me a better person" songs haha but i only have like four :[ please help meee!!!!
fabolous and ne-yo.
you make me better!
great song to explain how you feel about that special someone
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15/f
alright so me and my boyfriend have decided to have sex and well i'm a virgin and he's had sex with two other people and has had sex numerous times(he's a few years older then me). well, basically i'm really nervous and i have a few questions so if anyone can answer any of these i would appreciate it and yeah i'll rate:
1. is it normal to smell alittle down there? like a musty smell?
2. how bad does it really hurt the first time?
3. is it normal for me to have a gooey clear discharge down there and sometimes a creamy white one?
4. well i shave down there and i was wondering if anyone had tips fir getting the cleanest smoothest cut i guess?
thanks in advance : )
yeah thats extremely normal most girls have it just wash it and keep it properly cleaned. it doesnt really hurt the first but you will bleed since he "popped your cherry" the pain is like the pain you get when your cramping. and the shaving part i don really have any advice just shave it!
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so i'm getting mine done for my 14th birthday. cute i know. okay so can anyone tell me how bad it hurts in comparison to getting your cartilage on your ear pierced, cuz i got that done and it wasn't bad at all.
it doesnt not help wen you get it but maybe after for about a week.
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13/f 8th grade
Ok I have a crush on this guy. I've only talked to him like once or twice. I want him to notice me more or have him talk to me. Ok I am unpopular and he is popular. I know that doesn't matter much but you know, its harder that way. So anyways I hardly talk to anyone except friends. Well I do talk to other people but only when they talk to me. But I am working on that. But its like they label you for life as the shy quiet girl who hardly talks. I mean I don't even know if there is hope for me with a guy. I have had only one boyfriend and thats it. Should I even try for the guy? And just have a crush on him and just try and focus on something else? Or should I do something else? Also its pretty hard to talk to him since I have only 2 classes with him and one is History and the other is PE. So please help me out. I feel like I'm not worth anyones time because guys would never want to go out with me. I don't think I'm that ugly but I'm not gorgeous. And I'm not super skinny. So please help me. Thanks.
i had that problem i know how i feel. for me i started to try to get to know him betta by talking more to his friends which gets you "In"..MORE you get close to his friends the more you get close to him
good luck
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Hey sorry I couldn't figure out which category to put this into..
Ok I leave for spring break March 28th, and I really want to get my belly Button peirced. Does anyone know how long I would have to stay out of the water? Pool Ocean, etc?
when friend got hers she said swimming in the pool was ook but not the ocean. i think about 2-3 weeks you should stay out of water.
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what are some great and really sexy ways to get my boyfriend to the point where he can barely contain himself and he wants to like rip off my clothes and get goin hahaha. thanks so much and i will rate!! :)
if you give your man sexual attention such as stripping for him or talking dirty to him, makes him want you more. like try on lingerie in front of him or dress up.
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so my problem is that i can't make friends is it becuase i wear a scarf or something? I don't know what's the problem but i just can't make friends.
Help please!
it does not matter what you wear..you need to feel confident and talk to other people, get to know other people, and you will make friends in no time. find people with similiar interest as you, or join a club or a sport.
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Ok I hate to sound perv about this but I want to know. Is it ok if you dont shave down there (between legs) and have sex? Or what?
its definetly ok its a personal choice to shave or not. if you feel like the "coverage" is a problem, then shave if feel like its no prob and ur not self conscious about it then dont have shave. either way its jus a personal choice.
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THere is a guy in a class that I like, but I'm afraid to ask him to hang out because we don't know each other too well. He may be shy, or just uninterested...I can't really tell yet. I'm confident with myself, but I'm afraid of making a fool of myslef (guys don't usually hit on my so it's hard to know what the "signals" are). What should I do?!?
first you should get to know him thats he start noticing you, make your self seem appealing to him. be nice and friendly, then you wil see if his interested or not
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why do people masterbate???
it makes them feel good! thats why, some jus to do it for the fun of it.
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my skin gets dry pretty easily. so after washing my face at night and putting an acne medication on, i will wake up in the morning and simply put makeup on without washing my face first. is there any harm in this?
Yes there is a problem meke-up makes you break out ao wash your face first then put acne cream only.. NO MAKE-UP.
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I have crush on this really cute boy named Dan.I've heard rumors that he likes me.I want us to be together but I don't want to tell him that I like him.What should I do?Oh,and I'm 14 and I'm obviously a girl.I'm from Singapore.
This is like a been there, done thsat for me . So l'am going to give you the same advice my friends gave me. Don't be forward and tell him YET!!. Get a friend to ask him if he can tell her a list og girls that he like, then if he mentions your name in the list. Your friend should say she likes you too, and then your friend has to tell him to ask you out and there you go you got yourself a boyfriend.
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Today in Life Skills, my school counselor told us girls "all 13-year-old boys care about is looks." (it's not a co-ed class) She also went on to say that 13-year-old boys only like girls with big boobs and a big ass. She said that they are very shallow, but the best thing for us to do is wait for them to grow up.
Is this really true? Do boys only notice boobs and butts on a girl and nothing else? It doesn't make me feel too good knowing that, because I certainly don't have a big butt and big boobs, and I'd like to have a boyfriend.
boys are macho pigs and your counselor is right they noeed to griw up. l am one of those girls with big boobs and big ass. guys ask me out a lot. but l blow them off because what they are doing is so wrong. So dont worry if you dont have those qualities some boys dont even like those qualities they like a personality. SO DON'T WORRY...
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Ok so I have been seeing this guys *Jim* for a little over a year and I really love him. We makeout all the time, he's gotten up my shirt and just today he fingered me many times and I gave him a blowjob. Now I know this may not seem like alot to you but for me it is and that might be just because I`m 13. Now I have a question would you consider me a slut? How much do you think he likes me. (I am his first girlfriend, first kiss, first everything)? please answer this i am so nervous and scared.
l am 13 years old too. I have given my third boyfriend all of that but l'am certainly not a slut. Neither are you. You obviously love him and thats all that matters. Being sluty is all about dressing like a stripper all the time. Having sex or those kind of stuff to different kinds of boys that you may not even know, and you'rer certanily not that.
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okay well my friend really likes this kid but like everytime she does its like obsession. its like really creepy and weird. but anyway me and her arent allowed to hang out because she got me into a lot of trouble because she got me in trouble for her stealing but anyways she really likes this kid but this kid hates her. so me & him were hanging out and we both like eachother now but we dont know what to do because of her please help.
if you're not not friends with her then dont worry about her. She got you into trouble what kind of friend is that. That kid you like shoukd tell her that he doesn't like her. He likes you. If shes pissed then so what you're not friends anymore. Worry about yourself not her.
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theres this boy jacob.i like him i cant stop thinking about him and im 13 girl and hes a boy so nothing like that i want to ask him out but i wnat him to know that im not kidding.nathile (1 of his friends)said that jacob asked him if he could ask me out for him and i didnt believe him.i dont think jacob even knows i like him.i liked him last year but that was nothing...
i wnat to tell him but should i write him a note or tell him on the bus??sorry its long ill rate
this is so great. so that means he likes you too. What you need to do is write him a SECRET note to meet him somewhere like at yuor locker. Then just ask him if he wants to go to the dance with you
l hope everything works out
-lilly123
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Well the happiest thing happened to me... I found the love of my life... I love his family his family loves me vise versa... But the only problem is he lives next door... Ya some people are like thats the tightest thing ever... But it is a hassle sometimes when i wanna go out with the girls and its like i have 2 sets of parents... One weekend i went to a party with my friends and i came home at 12:30 and his parents were all pissed cause he wasnt with me... I dunno... But i love him though... And his parents think we are getting married... They told him to wait till after graduation to get married and we have been going out for like 2 months? that kinda creeps me out... What should i do??
well l'am just gonna give you my best advice for this situation. My first boyfriends was smutherring me too much and my friends didn't want to hang around with me because he was always around . So heres what l did. l told l still want to be your girlfriend but sometimes we are kind of with each other 24/7 so we need to create space, and he was so sweet enough to understand.
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Okay so everything is great between me and my boyfriend. When we have sex, he likes to touch me down there. The only problem is that when he touches me, it tickles badly. I hate it because it tickles but my boyfriend is starting to feel weird about it. Everytime he touches me there, we have to cut it short because i cant stand to be tickled. I think it is putting a bit of a strain on our sex life. What should I do?
Dear Problem,
theres nothing wrong with being tickilish. lf it hurts turn it into something just dont worry about just relax beecause sex is part of nature enjoy it
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