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a few sex questions
15/f
alright so me and my boyfriend have decided to have sex and well i'm a virgin and he's had sex with two other people and has had sex numerous times(he's a few years older then me). well, basically i'm really nervous and i have a few questions so if anyone can answer any of these i would appreciate it and yeah i'll rate:
1. is it normal to smell alittle down there? like a musty smell?
2. how bad does it really hurt the first time?
3. is it normal for me to have a gooey clear discharge down there and sometimes a creamy white one?
4. well i shave down there and i was wondering if anyone had tips fir getting the cleanest smoothest cut i guess?
thanks in advance : )
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1. Its normal to an extent. You should keep it clean and it shouldnt be a problem if you shower before you guys do it. I personally think its gross, but I was told before that guys are kinda attracted to the smell ina way. Same with the taste. : Weird but okay! Whatever works for them right?
2. It didnt hurt for me the first time. It was different and there was little pain. It really depends on the girl. You could be tight or you could have been stretched by tampons or being fingered. I didnt bleed the first time I had sex but it really all depends. Just tell him to go slow at first until you are more comfortable with the whole situation.
3. Its normal. Its one of those woman things. :( We seem to have it bad compared to guys! We get this gross discharge, periods, pregnancy! Sheesh! lol My advice about the discharge is to just try your best to stay clean.
4. Shaving isn't absolutely nessecary. I shave but I think that it is more attractive and another plus to it, its sooooo much nicer when it comes to personal hygene. Using a shaver isnt bad, just be careful.
Hope I helped! Wear protection PLEASE. :)
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1. Um its probaly normal it doesnt not have a smell
2. In my first time experience it didnt really hurt til afterwards, to sit stand up etc. Its just more uncomfortable more than anything
3.Yep thats normal
4.waxed is perty much the best and cleanest way to do it
Hope I helped
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1, yeah most just try to keep it clean
2.not too bad could be worse but you will bleed but its not really painfull
3, as far as i now yeah
4. try waxing it soo there wont be any stubble
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yeah thats extremely normal most girls have it just wash it and keep it properly cleaned. it doesnt really hurt the first but you will bleed since he "popped your cherry" the pain is like the pain you get when your cramping. and the shaving part i don really have any advice just shave it!
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I have all your Answers honey =)
1) Yes , it is normal because your legs are always together so it creates like a form of sweat . But always make sure you wash good
2) It depends on you , no girl is the same . Some times it hurts some times not at all , Let him finger you before you stretch out your muscles so it wont hurt as bad ( if it does )
3) And yes , its normal to have " goo " , its kind of like " skeet " but in girl form .
4) Make sure when you shave its a NEW blade on the razor & lather up with soap , every time you take a stroke to shave make sure there it soap on it <3
Good luck !
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