well i think im fun and i have lots of bestfriends.
i like to hang out and as long as i know u thats good
i was born in seattle and i moved there when i was 9 and now i live in TX i think i like TX better...i miss my old friends but i think it was a good move!
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my family is very religious. so when they found out that i had sex with my ex boyfriend a while back they went crazy. i promised that i wouldnt do it again, but now that i am seeing someone else it's getting harder and harder to say no. i'm only 17, i know thats young, but should i wait until i am married for my family? or should i just give in for myself? (link)
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i think that you shouldn't have sex with him because you never know what can happen. I think that you should wait until you are older. But that's my opinion. I think that you should do whatever makes you happy, but think about your parents and if you get caught then you'll probably get into more trouble since you said that you wouldn't.
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Ihave areally hard time falling asleep at night night. Iget all nervous about murderer's breaking in, and it really scares me! I know thiz soundz childish, but does anyone have any advice on how to fall asleep quicker and it would help if you had advice on how to be calmer and not think every little noise in the night is someone breaking in. (link)
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hey! that used to happen to my friend and she like said that she started thinking about happy stuff and she would pray that nothing happened. Well i think that you should think of something funny and watch maybe a funny show and keep your mind set. Hope this helps!
lildesidevil143
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13/M and i don't get what girls mean when they say he's guy friend material? Does this mean that girls won't like to go out with them? I have a lot of girls friends and some of them even consider me their best friend but no gf for awhile does this mean im a "guy friend" not a boyfriend? (link)
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when girls say that the guy is guy friend material it means that he can be a great friend. and it doesn't mean that girls won't go out with them. When you don't have a gf adn you have a lot og friends that are girls then that means that your a guy friend not boy friend...trust me i kno this stuff!lol
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my mom is sick with breast cancer and bone cancer and 3 brain tumors.....i kno thats bad but shes in remission now and doing really well...but for some reason no matta how much i spend time with her she keeps telling me to stay with her.....no i can see when she was really sick and wantin to spend time wit me but she betta now....and this is cutting into my skool work and social life...i told her i cant spend every second wit her but the she told me that i dont respect her and that i hurt her feelings....now everytime i go to my friends house i feel bad....what do i do to tell her i need my space (i've tried sendin her flowers,and cards)--(doesnt work) help me out !PLEASE! (link)
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hey! sorry about your mom...but i think you REALLY need to spend time with her because my friend her mom was like that but she only had brain tumors and cancer well my friend told me that she needed space and stuff but then one time she went over to her friends house after telling her mom and hurting her feelings and she went to her friends house and her mom died! so i really think that you need to spend time with your mom. Hope your mom feels better! and good luck! you can write to me whenever you want to!
lildesidevil143-xoxo
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okay i was going out with this guy for about 2 yrs.. and then he broke up with me because i was always lieing to him (which was very bad thing for me to do.. and i regret doing it!!) i tell him all the time how im sorry and i want to get back with him because i love him. and he just says he doesnt want to get hurt again but he still feels a great deal for me. and cares about me and likes me. we are still REALLY good friends and we tell eachother everything and we are always there for eachother. But we also still have sex and do other sexual things.. and im just scared that he could be using me..!! what do u think??? please help!! (link)
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i think that he could be using you. So you need to stop with the sex stuff and just be friends with him. Then if he changes and doesn't liek talking to you or something then he was DEFINEITLY using you but if he's ok with you not having sex with him then no he's not using you.
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My friend and i are both in theater arts, and she got the role i wanted, and i tried not to be jealous of her, but i am. i know she's really good, and deserves the part, but i get mad at her whenever she brings it up, because shes almost bragging. I just really wanted the part, and now she thinks im mad at her, and i guess i kinda am. wat can i do? (link)
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You need to tell her straight up that whenever she talks about it it makes you feel bad because you wanted that part so you need to tell her or ask her to try to stop talking about it
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Ok i moved 2 months ago into an apt so I can build a house. But my dad is getting on my last nerves. Hes really my step dad. I even asked my mom to let me find my real dad and let me move with him. I am sooo sick and tired. I am gonna run away if it dont stop. Plus he makes fun of all my poor friends. I hate him. I have a friend whos mom isnt the best and he just talks and talks terrible. I am really skinnby and when I eat alot he will yell the name of my fat friends. Hes a hippocrite!!!!. I am so so so tired of him!!
what do I do?????????
please help1 I will give you a 5. Please I am desprate in need! (link)
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Don't run away...trust me you would rather live like you are then run away...but ok you need to tell your mom what he does or get help or an adult you can trust and tell them that your dad is being like that and that he yells at you. The more you yell at them the more he will yell back you need to make your mom understand that with those circumstances you can't live with them. you need to try and make BOTH of them understand.
hope i help
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I have a party to attend in december, it has a new romantic/early 80s theme, i think its cool but i have a problem, where do i start, what clothes should i go for, for maximum effect, and most importantly, how do i do my make up and hair. Thanks for you help in advance. (link)
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well im not sure for clothes but for hair you could do the straight hair that flips out all of a sudden and you could wear like a scarf around your neck made of like silk...lildesidevil143
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I just moved to a new state and i do not know a lot of people and i want to babysit in my spare time. but i do not know how to get the word out that i will be able to babysit?help me please! (link)
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u could send out fliers and tell people that have kids that you can babysit or tell your parents friends that have kids that you can babysit them sometimes
hope i helped
lildesidevil43
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Okay well I really need some help. I have been cutting for about a year and the cuts are getting really deep. They have riped my vein and I'm afraid i mite go to far next time. I've been tryihng so hard not to cut but i get these really baddddd urges to do it..is there any help for me out there? (link)
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tell someone you can trust and like I tell everyone else do the rubberband thing...take it put around wrist snap when feel like cutting it hurts but less then cutting! or try something else that you can take your stress out on like a punching bag maybe.
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im a cutter. i have scars all up and down my arm. only 2 people know about it. but every time i see my boyfriend i have to cover it up, and make sum sort of excuse. i HATE lying to him! i feel like i should tell him, but i dont want him to think im crazy and dump me! but like.. i cant stop cutting. its always been my way of calming myself down... (link)
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you should calmly tell your bf and seek proffesional help also tell your parents they can help trust me!
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im going up to New York for christmas and new years eve. Me and my friend want to do something awesome for new years eve because its the first year that were able to actually hang out with friends on new years eve, but then thing is we dont know what we want to do.. or what to do lol. what my question is, is does anyone have any ideas on what i can do for new years eve? thanks (link)
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you can invite some of your friends and throw a party or sleepover at eachothers houses...hope i helped
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Okay. My friend told me something not to tell anyone. I accidentally told someone though, like it slipped out. She won't talk to me and she told me to tell the person I was kidding and I was just wondering, so I did and now shes like "you're crazy, you're insane" crap like that and it's really annoying but I don't know how to deal with it, because we were really good friends, and I would think she would have been more mature about something like that. Anyway, my question is what should i do about it, there is no way she is gonna let me have my say and tell her what happened and she won't even talk to me. How should I handle this? (link)
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You need to confront her and tell her that you never meant to tell anybody and that it slipped out. Tell her that your VERY sorry and you hate it that she's mad at you. Then if she's like ok but she still doesn't tell you anything understand that she needs some time before she can tell you anything, then work your way up to being her best friend again
hope this helps!
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How should you go about treating an addiction (I don't want to be specific so just say in general) Please help! I'll rate anyone who answers back. Thanks so much. (link)
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i think that you should see a counselor and tell them what your addicted to and you know...i think its confidential unless its SERIOUS!
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hey i have a problem with cutting and i dunno how to controll it and today 10/22/04 i wound up cutting my self agian because my b.f broke up with me and im like in love with him and ahh...hard to explain and well i need some advice on how to stop or atleast trying to controll it please help me!! ill rate you high and i would like some advice from ppl who actualy do it or used to thanks soo much and if you wanna takl to me more about it im me on
babi beautifulx3 or email me at babii_thug_699@yahoo.com
thanks so much!! ill rate ya a five if ya get at me
love always courtney (link)
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My friend used to cut herself and I helped her by getting her help and telling her how much I loved her and that the more she did it the more she hurt me than her.I think she got over it because I told her I loved her but I think the way you can get over it is take a rubberband and put it around your wrist and snap it wenever you feel like cutting. This should hurt less than cutting, my friend also quit by doing this.I'm glad that your trying to stop and trying to get help...write back
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well see, my friend Ricky like just broke up w/ his gf. And he was really into her. I mean REALLY. he loved her more than anyhting in the world. And now she broke ^ w/ him for another guy and hes soo fuckin depressed now. he started to cut himself again ((which he hasnt done once since they went out)). And hes attempting suicide. Im so scared idk what to do. And im mad cuz mad becouse i cant do anything. so if u guys have any ideas please tell me. im desperate. i dont want him to die..... (link)
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tell him taht u care about him and you can't see him die..and if he keeps doing that i think u should talk to a counselro about him..hop ei helped write back!
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ok i put this up before but i just wanna know something eles ok well like i probably have add and i didnt tell my mom about it and im talking to a school counsler but i dont know if i should tell my mom should i?
help please
thnx (link)
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i think you should definitly tell your mom,because sonner you will regret it!
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Today I was sitting in class and I just picked up this needle thing and started running it up and down my arm. I don't know why but then I started scratching myself with it really badly so that I had marks all over my arm. After school, my boyfriend saw but he made a joke of it. I think I did it because I want attention because my parents don't really give me any. I was really upset that my boyfriend didn't care, does it show that he doesn't care about me? Everybody that saw what I had done just ignored me. (link)
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well for 1 thing you do want attention and people i think are ignoring you because getting attention by scratching yourself is bad...get help!
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my friend ( i just found out ) hasnt eaten in 3 days....we think she is trying 2 become anerexic...even though she is really skinny....she said she cuts herself 2...me and my friend malerie dont no wat we can do 2 help her....i offer her food but she doesnt take it....and she always seems depressed (link)
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i think you should tell a grown up that you can trust before she does anything bad...write to me!
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alrigty...i have a bad habit with cutting my self..and i need to stop...the only problem is...i dont kno how...my life is kinda shakey now b/c my mom is makin me go live with my aunt 4 good b/c of my "problem" and im doin pretty bad in skool with all the stress thats going on...and that makes more stress and just blah...i mean my friends and my boyfriend HATE the fact that i do it and they give me ideas to stop like squeezing an ice-cube until it melts...but that dont help... and i am in cheerleading an i always have to wear my long sleeve shirt so ppl wont see my arms and be like "shes physco" er suttin...but ne ways..i also have a prob with eating...i mean im not fat and i love food...but it just makes me wanna puke...so idk what to do about that either...so if ne one has ne ideas with how to help me with this stuff...please let me kno! (link)
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i don't get why people cut themselves! it's not doing good for you...and i think that you should like get help and try to solve this problem...to relieve the stress instead of cutting take rubberbands put them around your wrist and when you feel like cutting pull the rubberband and it will hit your wrist...but it hurts...but like i mean if you cut your wrist then that hurts more than rubberbands i think...hope i helped...contact me on lildesidevil143 for any more help...xoxo
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