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Hi im a 13 year old girl... whenever my friends have a problem they always come to me because im really good with advice... I admit there are times where I cant answer somethings but most of the time im good... but i can never seem to give myself advice...

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Ther's this guy I like at my school. We flirt back and forth all the time but its a joke we made a couple of months ago. Just about everyone at school knows I like him. In fact, I'm pretty sure he knoew it to. Some times I sit by him at lunch but he kinda ignores me. I wanna tell him I like him but he just to go out with all these slut girlfriends who would make out with him anywhere. and well if i do tell him and we start dating, I don't want to be compared to all those other ex-girlfriends. Should I tell him??

i think you should tell him dont worry about being compared to those other girls... it doesnt matter what everyone else thinks it only matters what you think

I hope i helped if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box! : )


Kati

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Can somebody please make me a Ashlee Simpson layout for my xanga please? i really want one!!

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your so dumb jackie!!

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well i really need help trying 2 fiqure out how to change my advice column like the colr and how 2 put in som thing about me cause i looked @ som of the peoples column and they were all decorated with pictures and things like that!
Thax!!!! (Ill Rate)

okay well if you want to add like a paragraph about yourself or w.e. on the side toolbar under where it says welcome "so n so" find profile settings and you can add all sorts of stuff about yourself... if you want different colors go to column settings... and then theres a link that is all the colors and color codes... and you can put the color codes in for your background color and text color and all sorts of stuff...

hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box : )

Kati

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Hey, well my dad had a problem with smoking cigs years ago, and I caught him smoking again about 2 months ago. He told me not to tell anyone so I didnt. Then about a month and a half ago my brother went into the garage and found a pack of cigs. (They were my dads) I dont know why but I said to him, "Those are mine, dont tell dad." I told my dad about it and he said to keep that story. My brother again found more and I took the blame. I didnt feel right about lying to my brother and I thought he has a right to know, so today I told him about it. I feel bad now because my dad might get mad. Do you think I did the right thing? I'm not sure.

well i think you DID do the right thing... you need to help your dad quit again and you shouldnt have to take the blame....

hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box : )

Kati

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OK well one of my bestfriends told me he liked me and asked me to be his gf but i didnt want to mess up our relationship so i said no but then later in the school year i began likeing his bestfriend and we hooked up but then when we hooked up my bestfriend lets call him "Homer" got all weird around me then he poured out his feelings to me and know all i do is think of him but i have strong feeling about my bf but with douts on the side and i have no idea of wut to do with either of them.

okay well it depends on how you feel about your bestfriend... because i have had this problem many times... if you dont really like your bestfriend say to him "idk your a really nice guy but your my best friend and i dont want to ruin our friendship.." and your b/f you should talk to him about your doubts.. and if it doesnt work out then hes not the one anyway... but if you do like your bestfriend... then give him a shot... i did that with my bestguy friend... it didnt work but were still bestfriends... and i know how your bestfriend feels... so give him a chance...

hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box : )

Kati

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Male 15
Theres this girl at skool right and i realy like her but im to shy i first step to a relationship is friendship but im just way to shy and neva now wat to say its like my mind goes blank around her. Wat should i do?

okay well i think that you should write out what your going to say... (i know it sounds stupid) and rehearse it... untill you have it memorized and then when your talking ot her just pretend its a different person that you ARE comfortable with... hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box : )

Kati

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i went out wiht this kid for ova a year and he cheated on me 8 times. i have a huge issue with trusting poeple becuz i am constantly afraid of gettin hurt. . i am way over him now, but i like my bestfriend =( he went out with my bestfriend[a girl] and she still likes him too. But, a few weeks ago i met this guy, he is truely amazing. he is everythin i need from a guy, he is sweet, romantic, trusting and he cares about me. now i have a big problem with trust and so does he bc he has also been hurt in the past. should i give up on my best guy friend and let my best girl friend have him, [bc i dont wanna fight wiht her] or should i go for the new guy? Help please!!

i think you should go for the new guy and let your girl friend get the other guy... the new guy sounds really nice and like you said he is everything you need... and you guys can prolly get over your trust thing with eachother... and you dont want to fight with your bestfriend... hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box : )

Kati

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I have been going out with my boyfriend 4 a lil over 9 and a half months, but lately he has been acting a lil weird. Online and on the phone he has stopped saying, "I love you," and he seems 2 b more concerned w/ playing computer games than talking 2 me. When ever I see him though, he is his sweet, nice self. Does any1 know wit might b goin on? Or am I just making a big deal outta nuttin?

he might have problems at home or the spark might be going out of your relationship... but it might be nothing so talk to him about it! i hope i helped if u need anymore help just drop one in my box!!

Kati

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My best friend who i spend almost every waking moment w/ has terrible mood swings. One minute she is totally happy and nice and stuff and then all of the sudden she freekz out and starts screeming at me i dont know how to tell her she can be like EVIL! shes crazy

i think your friend may be bi-polar you need to tell her that she has mood swings and should maybe see a doctor about it... and tell her that your doing this for her sake to help her... hope i helped if u ever need more help drop one in my box!
Kati

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my friend Katie (i kno i know, you have the same name) but yeah, she gets upset when her other friends dont invite her places. i dont know what to do. have this ever happened to you?

yes i have... and i get that way when ppl dont invite me places 2... your friend just feels left out... but its not something she'll freak out about but dont get madd at her for it... just talk to her about it and try to make her feel better... hope i helped if u need help again just drop one in my box!

Kati

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Hey, I was just ouside sitting in the rain and my brother saw me. He was yelling, "Get the fuck inside Jenny," and getting really mad at me. He thought I was going to kill my self and told everyone to lock the doors so I dont go back out. I feel VERY hurt because my family makes me feel like something is wrong with me. Do you think it is bad to go outside, and just sit in the rain??? Please somone awnser my question. My family makes me feel like I'm crazy, and I'm not sure if I'm not any more.

no i dont think its bad but maybe your family thinks its weird cuz you dont do it alot... confront your family tell them you werent going to kill yourself you were just out in the rain... hope i helped if u need anymore help drop one in my box...

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I am fifteen and I have been lifting weights regularly for over a year now. The problem is I have started to look kind of like a house on stilts recently (my upper body is muscular and bulky and my lower body is defined and stringy) This is mostly because I run cross country and can't do any serious weights for my legs because it affects my running. Anyways, I was wondering if there is any way to build strength in my upper body without adding much more size. Also, I've heard from all kinds of people that serious weight lifting at a young age can stunt your growth, I'm 15, male and about 5'7", I'm ok with my height now, but I would like to grow at least another two inches before I stop. Does anyone know whether or not lifting weights is a serious enough threat to my growth for me to lighten up for a while, or if they're is anything I can do to prevent it from stunting my growth?

weightlifting to much definetly will stunt your growth because i know someone who weight lifted from an early age and did it alot and now they play hockey he is about your age... he is incredibly short so be carefull with your weightlifting... idk how to bulk up your legs other then weight lifting... i hope i helped... leave me a message if u ever need help again...

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this guy ive been dating w/ for a few weeks now.. but he acts like he doesnt even know im his g/f.. he NEVER calls me, and when he does he's so quiet..i havent even heard from him in over a week..its pathetic. id call him but im just thinking this is a bad relationship. should i break up with him?

you should try to work it out with your b/f tell him what hes doing wrong and if he doesnt change then i think you should because it itsnt much of a relationship... hope i helped if u need anymore help drop one in my box...



Kati

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What is the best cd made from:

Black Sabbath?
KISS?
ACDC?
Jimi Hendrix?

well they are all awesome so i cant really pick sorry... if you have any more questions drop one in my box...


Kati

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ok well here's what happened...i was dating this guy who ended up bein a total jerk and tried to get me to have sex with him so i dumped his ass and then i met this really nice guy who i liked alot but we didn't date and now for some reason he just wont talk to me or is all of the sudden completely uninterested in me and i dont know why. so i;'ve been talking to my ex boyfriend and we're thinkin abt gettin back together and i know he's worhtless but i want to anyways cuz i feel like if i sit around waiting for something better it's never going to come....i don't know what to do at all...anything anyone can say to help would be great...i rate. thanks!

okay you shouldnt go back out with your ex! and i know how you feel sometimes i think that if i sit around nothings gonna come... but at the time it sounds like anythings better then your ex... as for this new guy try to talk to him more and have one of your friends ask him if he hates you if he wont talk to you... i hope i helped.. if you need anymore help drop one in my box...

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ok well me and my whole family always fight and they always blame me for everything and they make me feel like they dont love me and everything and i started to think does my family love me? and i think they dont so now i got the feeling that i shouldnt be living becuz i have no one that loves me so i think i should just kill myself i've always solved my problems by cutting myself becuz i think it makes the pain go away but now im starting to think i should kill myself or something what should i do i really need some help and quick becuz i might do osmething i might regret later on

okay well you definetly shouldnt kill yourself because ppl DO love you... your family and you just have some issues you should tell your parents and your family that you feel unloved and you should talk to friends, counslers or ppl on here (like myself) about it... and you shouldnt cut yourself because it DOESNT make the pain go away... if you ever need to talk leave a message in my box... i hope i helped

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I am going into 9th grade. My boyfriend and I have been together for about six monthes. I love him so much, but lately he's starting to be a jerk. He seems to care more about what he thinks than what I think, and he makes really gross jokes on occasion. I really want to tell him that unless he starts acting better, we're done. But whenever I see him I start going girly and I blush when he smiles at me. I don't know how to tell him, and I just can't seem to do it, but I know I need to. What can I do?

okay if you cant do it to his face call him and tell him or write it in a letter and stick it in his pants pocket... say something like "we have been together for awhile now and i have fallen for you but lately you been acting a little jerkish and you have been making nasty jokes... and I want you to stop... because i love you and i dont want to have to break up with you... i have tried to tell you but whenever im with you i get all girly and blush when u smile at me... please stop... i love you..."

IDK something like that hope i helped... drop one in my box if you ever need some help...

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i like this guy and me and him have been going on and off for like 6 months and then i finally dumbed him for good then summer came and we stoped being friends and that hurt so much becuz i loved him so much but then i went to this place with my mom for 2 weeks and made some new friends and i met this kid and he was just so nice and sweet and me and him really hit it off and we started dating for the 2 weeks and i then found out that hes going to my skool so now im real happy but everybody keeps asking me oh do u still like well call him "fred" and i go no but today my friend steve asked me do u still like "fred" and i went yeah so now i dont know if i should just stay with my b/f becuz i love him too hes just so hott and sweet to me and everything or if i should dump him and go back out with "fred" im so confused someone please help me asap
im 14 and im a gurl and i need help

well it all depends on who you like better and who treats you better... this isnt a choice i can make for you but i can help you make it... hope i helped if u need anymore help leave one in my box

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I am going into 7th grade and I really want to wear eyeshowdow. Just eyeshwdow but I don't know if my Mom will let me. Should I wear it or not?

okay well i think that you should ask your mom... try to sound mature about it tho... say something like... "mom, im going into 7th grade now and I want to start wearing make-up... not much but just eye shadow..." and see what she says... and if she says no then you know not to... that way if you just wear it she wont yell at you... hope i helped if you have any other questions just drop one in my box!

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ok.. in 2 days im going to the eye doctor and im gettin contacts.. what i would like to know if what color would go best with dark brown hair? please help ( i rate mostly 5's ) thanx!

i think you should stick with hazel it will work best
hope i helped if you ever need anything drop one in my box!

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