OK well one of my bestfriends told me he liked me and asked me to be his gf but i didnt want to mess up our relationship so i said no but then later in the school year i began likeing his bestfriend and we hooked up but then when we hooked up my bestfriend lets call him "Homer" got all weird around me then he poured out his feelings to me and know all i do is think of him but i have strong feeling about my bf but with douts on the side and i have no idea of wut to do with either of them.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? lil_kati22 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 11:55 am: okay well it depends on how you feel about your bestfriend... because i have had this problem many times... if you dont really like your bestfriend say to him "idk your a really nice guy but your my best friend and i dont want to ruin our friendship.." and your b/f you should talk to him about your doubts.. and if it doesnt work out then hes not the one anyway... but if you do like your bestfriend... then give him a shot... i did that with my bestguy friend... it didnt work but were still bestfriends... and i know how your bestfriend feels... so give him a chance...
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AllyKnows answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 11:00 am: i think if you are having second thoughts about the relationship you are in you need to end it. and if you do, take that time to think about what's going on in your life. which one you like and dont like...but i'll tell you i think you really truly like your best friend. but you can always stay friends if you broke up. i mean there are all these show on television and real life situations when best friends break up but stay best friends like they were before they starting dating. Dont worry about the future. The future is the future. Worry about the now. [ AllyKnows's advice column | Ask AllyKnows A Question ]
LEFTalone answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 7:04 am: keep going out with the guy you have now. if or when you guys break up see if your best friend still likes you. but also remember it isnt good to go out with your best friends, friends either. tell me how it works out.
much <3.
--later.! [ LEFTalone's advice column | Ask LEFTalone A Question ]
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