i like this guy and me and him have been going on and off for like 6 months and then i finally dumbed him for good then summer came and we stoped being friends and that hurt so much becuz i loved him so much but then i went to this place with my mom for 2 weeks and made some new friends and i met this kid and he was just so nice and sweet and me and him really hit it off and we started dating for the 2 weeks and i then found out that hes going to my skool so now im real happy but everybody keeps asking me oh do u still like well call him "fred" and i go no but today my friend steve asked me do u still like "fred" and i went yeah so now i dont know if i should just stay with my b/f becuz i love him too hes just so hott and sweet to me and everything or if i should dump him and go back out with "fred" im so confused someone please help me asap
im 14 and im a gurl and i need help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? **mAlloRyJaNe** answered Saturday August 14 2004, 8:43 pm: alright. i have been in this situation before. it's a very tough situation! but the first thing to do is pray! prayer can't do anything except help! god can help you sort out all of your emotions and help you know what exactly you need to do. but if you only like your boyfriend because he's hot, then you don't really love him. what i did, was write out all of the qualities that I SAW in them each. and then i soon realized that only one of them really cut it to be my boyfriend. or it might not be that simple, and you might just need to take a break from dating altogether for awhile. then, you can sort out all of your emotions and date the guy you really do love. and hey, by then, you might have met someone even more awesome! but always remember...no guy is ever worth your tears!!! and when you find one that is, he won't make you cry. ((**mAlloRyJaNe**)) [ **mAlloRyJaNe**'s advice column | Ask **mAlloRyJaNe** A Question ]
LEFTalone answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 7:15 pm: in my opinion u should stay with the b/f u have now bcuz it isnt fair to him if u break it off with him for some old boyfriend and u shouldnt go back out with ur old boyfriend because it didnt work the first time or how many other timees u guys went out so odds are it wont work this time and if u do go out with ur old boyfriend and break up again u just hurt another person in the process so just think about it. tell me how it works out.
much <3.
--later.! [ LEFTalone's advice column | Ask LEFTalone A Question ]
lil_kati22 answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 6:45 pm: well it all depends on who you like better and who treats you better... this isnt a choice i can make for you but i can help you make it... hope i helped if u need anymore help leave one in my box [ lil_kati22's advice column | Ask lil_kati22 A Question ]
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